Negotiating play is vital for new players or for those who have never played together. Once you get to know someone it is likely that unless you have something you'd really like to experience you can forego some negotiation for spontaneity.Read The Article | Find Similar
In a BDSM context, it’s more common to have to learn how to address someone than in a non-scene situation.Read The Article | Find Similar
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While it's a small few, there are people who can threaten your sense of trust and your own emotions. These are the wolves of the online D/s world.Read The Article | Find Similar
Many of the things we do when it comes to BDSM and D/s relationships seem to come faster than in a traditional relationship, so often we forget that the base of a D/s relationship is a traditional one. You are still two people that plan to cohabitate. With that comes decisions and plans, change and adjustment periods.
In the first list of tips, I want to give I'm going to cover the more basic 'vanilla' ideas that will make your submissive more comfortable as they move into your home. The second list is BDSM based tips that will hopefully start your relationship on a good footing now that you are living under the same roof.Read The Article | Find Similar