As a submissive, one of the first things you will be asked by almost every Dom/me is: what are your limits? You will encounter this sometimes in chat, in play, and when negotiating a relationship with a new Dom/me. If you are playing with a new Dom/me and aren’t asked this question, my advice is not to play with the person. I have heard Dom/mes say that They don’t play with safe words or limits because They know what They are doing. How can a Dom/me know if you have health issues or triggers or are just plain terrified of something unless you tell them?
Read The Article | Find SimilarImpact play for me is very freeing sometimes it’s like a very intense full body massage breaking the stress of the day, the week, the month. I personally prefer when Sir uses his hands it makes it so much more personal and I believe strengthens our connection, however floggers and paddles can take me there as well.
Read The Article | Find SimilarPredicament bondage can be simple or complex and playful or painful. It relies on the skill and evil imagination of the Dom/me to set up a position where your body is essentially going to punish itself. Picture your Dom/me pulling your hair to lower you to the ground. The hair pull is a simple illustration of a stressor. If you don’t lower yourself, you will be in pain.
Read The Article | Find SimilarI got quite stressed over what to feed Him. Master just shrugged and said if He didn’t like it, He would find something else to eat, but that rather horrified my subbie side. I turned to my large collection of cookbooks to find recipes that would satisfy my wish to serve healthy nutritious meals, made with more fruits and vegetables than meat, while at the same time tickling Master’s taste buds.
Read The Article | Find SimilarHe saw my eagerness and it scared him. He had seen it before. He saw my willingness to a poly relationship and it petrified him. You see he had accomplished his dream relationship before me and it had crumbled because of others. I scared him because I was the dream again.
Read The Article | Find SimilarDo you have any tips, useful links/books, or a how-to of sorts that could be followed step by step for our first try at scening?
Read The Article | Find SimilarI know being competitive is a part of human nature, but the constant comparison of yourself to others doesn’t do anyone, especially you any good.
Read The Article | Find SimilarPower Circuits is a book about polyamory in a power dynamic relationship. If you are in a power dynamic relationship and are thinking of possibly opening up your dynamic to include polyamory, then this book is a must read for all parties involved.
Read The Article | Find SimilarThis is the table of contents for the 31 Days of Submissive Journaling Series hosted in October 2016.
Read The Article | Find SimilarSome great tips for getting started searching for a compatible partner when BDSM is a need in your life.
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