Limits are personal boundaries that everyone places for how far they are willing to take things. These limits can be sexual, personal, emotional or otherwise. You may even have some for your every day that you don’t realize are limits. If you don’t have any BDSM experience, the idea of setting up limits can be challenging. Let’s dive into what they are, how to figure them out and why you make sure they are respected.Read The Series | Find Similar
The first time I heard the word protocol when introduced to BDSM it was some special ritualized order of things that can happen in a relationship. It was an unspoken word when I was single. You didn't learn about protocol and no one I knew used a protocol to govern their own development and personal growth.
I'd like to change that. A personal protocol can bring you ahead of the game, no matter where you are in your submissive journey. In this article I'd like to give you a working definition of a personal protocol, how you can develop one whether you are single or in a relationship and what it can do for you.Read The Article | Find Similar
Every relationship experiences periods of boredom in the bedroom, kinky ones are not excluded from this. So what do you do about it?Read The Article | Find Similar
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Sometimes you can feel so disconnected with your submission that you begin to question who you are. Here's my meditation on my personal struggle.Read The Article | Find Similar