At the furthest reaches of proactive service resides “anticipatory service.” There are many challenges faced by servants who aspire towards successful anticipatory service.
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Sometimes, failing becomes debilitating. As a submissive, we will make mistakes, and how we deal with those mistakes will show us if we intend to grow or flounder. You aren't defined by your mistakes, but by your effort. Keep trying; it's in the number of times you were willing to try that you succeed.
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If you are interested in protocol and want to read about high protocol and what it might look like in your dynamic I suggest you give this book a try.
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Often the first collar you receive if your Dominant does a tiered system, a collar of consideration is when you’re under a trial period to see if you two are compatible.
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There are plenty of misconceptions about BDSM, and Dominants are no exception. Here's 5 myths you can debunk right now.
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