Uniqueness is underrated. Everyone wants to be like everyone else, are comparing themselves to others in order to fit in, but it's the fun little unique aspects of a relationship that make it special. Kindling those unique things is especially important for me in a mono-poly and likely most other relationships.
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When you first enter the more public BDSM community one of the largest catch phrases you will here is SSC, also known as Safe, Sane and Consensual. It is a security blanket approach to safety when playing and negotiation of play. As a submissive, you have a lot of responsibility to keeping yourself safe and well.
Read The Article | Find SimilarApplying mentoring to a BDSM context a mentor is someone that guides and advises a newbie on what to expect, things they might want learn and other items. I believe a mentor should be on the same level as you. There are many opinions out there, but common sense advice can be found in the following series of articles about mentors.
Read The Series | Find SimilarI'm here to say that you can be interested in BDSM even if you've never done it yet. That's because I believe that just like your sexual preference to be with guys or girls is born not bred, your sexual predilection to BDSM activities is part of who you are.
Read The Article | Find SimilarJust because your partner got a little kinky that one time during sex does not mean they have a kinky bone in their body.
Read The Article | Find SimilarWhat is SSC? It's a credo that people in the BDSM community use to express the safety tenets of play.
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Read The Article | Find SimilarThere are a lot of books out there related to BDSM and being a novice submissive.
Read The Article | Find SimilarAs is the case with partners of a standard relationship, those in a BDSM one can also be broken into two types – short-term and long-term.
Read The Article | Find SimilarHere are some plain, matter of fact words of advice for new submissives. Don't let Hollywood form your thoughts, get the real information!
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