In this BDSM Glossary series I help you understand some of the common and less common words and phrases used throughout the BDSM community.
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The core of BDSM is consent. No one will disagree with this. We are all aware, hopefully, that abuse is not consensual. If you feel that what is going on is ‘not right’ then you certainly should investigate if it is abuse or not. Some of what you may feel could not be abuse at all, but it’s good to know for sure. Learn how you can see the differences for yourself.
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Let’s talk about the different myths surrounding submissives and submission. Some may surprise you.
Read The Article | Find SimilarWith the wide range or play activities and tools needed for them, you can be sure that you will have at least one full bag of items. Yes submissives, you need to have your own play bag also. I can hear it now though. Dominants use the toys, why do I need to have some? Well here's the scoop. A lot of the toys used on us are not easy or impossible to clean from person to person. These toys should be one person only. In those cases, you definitely should respect your Dominant by bringing your own.
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Read The Article | Find SimilarThe reality of long-distance relationships, or any non-live-in relationship, is that you will have to handle periods of absence. It's a painful and bitter reminder that you are not together and that your desires for each other have to go unquenched. But that doesn't mean you can't get through them with a few coping techniques.
Read The Article | Find SimilarTrust is an extremely important factor in the lifestyle, and not just in the bedroom. You can’t have the trust in the bedroom if you don’t have the trust outside of the bedroom.
Read The Article | Find SimilarReceiving punishment without having a safe word in place isn’t for everyone.
Read The Article | Find SimilarEvery relationship can be enhanced by ritual and also every person in the exchange can get something from ritual. It's not hard to get started either.
Read The Article | Find SimilarCan a journal help you when you are single or brand new to submission? And what would you put in it? Let me share with you a few ways that a journal can help you grow in learning and submission as a single submissive and as a new person to BDSM.
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