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Submissive Frenzy

During submissive frenzy, you may feel a desperate need to have your desires fulfilled. Many of the activities in BDSM can be considered addictive and frenzy is much like a withdrawal stage. This series will help you understand your urgent feelings and how to listen to your gut when you need it most.

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A Slap in the Face: Exploring Face Slapping in BDSM

A slap can say a lot of things, given the circumstances and the parties involved. To some, a slap in the face can say “I love you.” It can say, “you've fucked up.” It can say any number of things in between. But something it will always convey is “you're Mine.” The control and the ownership that is inherent in that one motion can be overwhelming. He loves me enough to discipline me when I need it.

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What a Pain: Does Pain Tolerance Change Over Time?

Tolerance will grow in time, and will change. Most of the fun in exploring bdsm is in trying new things together, nobody can have everything thrown at them on day one.

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Release from the Collar: A Journey

I’ve read a lot about what it’s like to be a submissive without a Dominant. I never really thought I’d find myself here, but here I am.

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Is He Ignoring Me or Has He Moved On?

I don’t know what to do - I know that ignoring can be a form of punishment but I don’t know if this is what he is doing or if he has severed links with me. I need advice on how to proceed are there any protocols?

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A Day in the Life: cyberkittenXLS

The not so typical day of cyberkittenXLS. A part of the "Day in the Life" Series.

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When Needs Change: How Communication Worked When My Partner Didn't Want to Be Dominant Anymore

Through open communication and the ability to listen to one another, we were able to come to a conclusion that met both of our needs.

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Dealing with Guilt as a Submissive

When it comes to dealing with guilt, you have to talk about it. You can’t just shove it somewhere deep inside and expect that to take care of everything. Neither can you throw yourself into an activity and consider it done. You have to talk it out with the person, no matter how difficult that may be.

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How Do I Manage a Long Distance D/s Relationship Due to Deployment?

I'm new at this, he’s a dominant. But he's leaving for 9 months deployment and I don't know how to do this long distance relationship.

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That Don't Impress Me Much: Why You Should Not Withhold Your Safeword

If you don't use your safeword, you could be in for more than just an overly sore backside. A safeword is your lifeline and your partner trusts you to use it if you need to. TR shares a personal story where playing with no safewords went wrong.

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