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Ted_subby is a 49 year old submissive to his monogamous dominant wife of over a dozen years. On his male submission web page at he posts fictional stories as well as a blog of his experiences with his dominant wife. Feel free to message him on FetLife or e-mail.

3 responses to “Male submission – Financial Domination”

  1. rocco

    cant help it,want to be a dog train to act like a dog in everyway own me just wear a dog coller I cant explane it,

  2. ted_subby

    @rocco, that sounds like fun to me.

    You might want to login to http://www.fetlife.com and find one of the many pet play groups (type in pet play in the search box). If they accept classified ads you might even find someone to train you.

    There are also many other web sites, if you google search for pet play that will probably get you several web hits.

    Here is a link to a good article on The Submissive Guide about pet play: http://www.submissiveguide.com/2009/04/pet-play-human-pets-primer/.

  3. Andrew

    If you look around, you’ll find that the vast majority of ‘FinDoms’ are in fact—only in it for the money. I have no problem with a submissive giving up his money, or control over his finances, as a means to facilitate power exchange; after all, money is power. However, I think the majority of transactions, and the people involved, are doing nothing different than what a professional Dominatrix ordinarily does. He pays her money, and she fulfills his kink so he can get off.

    Power exchange is something that only really happens in a relationship, not a session. Yes, there is some power exchange going on during a session, but it is well defined, short lived, and benefits both parties equally. There is a tit-for-tat dynamic there that doesn’t exist in lifestyle domination.

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