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Menu and List Planners in Three Fun Designs!

Menu and List Planners in Three Fun Designs!

The Bold Abode brings you three fantastic looking menu planners to help you organize your weekly meals and menus. And make sure you check out all of the printables available on The Bold Abode!   Download the Menu and List Printables from The Bold Abode!

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Domestics, Views & More...
Weekend Giveaway: Domination & Submission – The BDSM Relationship Handbook by Michael Makai (1 Winner)

Weekend Giveaway: Domination & Submission – The BDSM Relationship Handbook by Michael Makai (1 Winner)

I’m so excited for the final giveaway for the Summer Giveaway Series here on Submissive Guide. That’s right, this is the last one folks. I have a copy of Michael Makai’s book, “Domination & Submission – The BDSM Relationship Handbook” that I reviewed at the beginning of the summer. It’s a fantastic book for any [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
Submissive Chat Night: Submissive Positions

Submissive Chat Night: Submissive Positions

It’s time again for another chat night here at Submissive Guide. I’d welcome everyone to come on in Tuesday for a bit of conversation. Anything and everything can be discussed. Please come with questions or a curiosity about Dominant/submissive relationships. Info When: 09/02/14  @ 8 PM CST – 9:30 PM CST (Not in CST? Find out [...]

13 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...

Ask lunaKM – Suggestions for a D/s Wedding Ceremony

Dear Annie:I am a submissive to my Master for about a year now.  We are engaged and I introduced him to the lifestyle immediatly.  We are planning on getting married October 3rd of this year. Since we have both been married before we are going to either elope or just go to the court house.  Here’s the [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
Below the Mood of Blue, by charmed blyss

Below the Mood of Blue: One Girl’s Experience With Depression

Disclaimer: Though this post deals with depression and suicide, please note that blyss is not a mental health professional, this article isn’t written to diagnose or outline professional treatment for any mental illness. A short list of suggested reading and resources will be provided at the end of the post. If you are having thoughts of suicide, please [...]

2 comments Posted by charmed blyss | Posted in: Improve Yourself, Stay Safe


Learning About Positive Pain Processing Methods

When we learn about pain processing in relation to play and scenes with our sadist partner it’s always a good idea to understand negative processing methods. The things that make handling pain and enjoying longer sessions harder and sometimes impossible. Hopefully you’ve learned about your own negative methods in the previous video. Today we’ll talk [...]

18, March | 5 comments

Learning About Negative Pain Processing Methods

If you ask any sadist what they enjoy out of pain play, it’s likely going to be watching the bottom respond to the pain. The more response, the higher the enjoyment for the top. Why is this important? Well, if the method of pain management doesn’t allow you to respond well to the pain, then [...]

3, March | Leave a comment

Natural Pain Processing Techniques

Everyone you meet has different methods for how they handle pain. Think about the last time your stubbed your toe. How did you respond to the pain? Did you jump up and down? Curse? Cry? Hold your breath? Walk it off? How you handle pain is a result of nature and nurture. Perhaps as you [...]

12, February | 4 comments

[Video Post] Your Responsibilities Go Beyond ‘Obedience’

I read a forum thread the other day that rubbed me the wrong way. So I thought I’d talk about it and share my opinion on the subject. I would love to hear how you would answer this same question. The topic was asking what a submissive’s/slave’s responsibilities were in a relationship. Out of the [...]

13, May | 17 comments

Ask lunaKM – How do I show my submissiveness long distance?

First I want to give you a little bit of background. He is my Disciplinarian. It’s not a D/s relationship. We’ve been meeting regularly for the last 3.5 years. In September of this year, I  moved halfway around the world with my job. So we now only see each other when I am able to [...]

3, April | 9 comments


Book Review- Unveiled: The Secret Submissive Within

I feel very lucky to have gotten the chance to read Michelle Fegatofi’s book “Unveiled-The Secret Submissive Within”. If the author’s name sounds familiar it’s probably because of her personal blog BDSM Unveiled. She started her blog back in November 2012 and since then has written on a large variety of topics to help those [...]

19, August | Leave a comment

Book Review: Processing Pain in Play

I got the chance to buy lunaKM’s new version of Processing Pain in Play a littler earlier than everyone else because I had previously purchased the book. And, I hate to admit this, but despite purchasing the previous version of Processing Pain, I had not read it. *hangs head in shame* I know, I know. [...]

22, July | Leave a comment

Video Review: Kink for Beginners

There are a lot of great resources out there to read online about the lifestyle, but some people tend to learn better visually and there’s not a lot options out there. Mistress Lilith Starr and her slave Uruk Black have fixed that. They have put together an amazing video, Kink for Beginners. Lilith and Uruk [...]

30, June | 1 comment

Book Review: Slave (Finding Anna Book 1)

I’m sure you all have noticed that I am an avid reader by all the recent book reviews I have done for Submissive Guide. Reading has always been a passion of mine and even more so when it happens to be of a topic of interest. I had stumbled across “Slave” by Sherri Hayes on [...]

17, June | 1 comment

Book Review: Domination and Submission – The BDSM Relationship Handbook

I’ve had this book for a very long time and while I didn’t start into it right away, it has taken me a long time to read. It’s not any fault of the book, it’s a fantastic book, it is just very long and the time I’ve had to read is very short! Don’t let [...]

28, May | 1 comment

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