Thursday July 29, 2010

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How to Be More Aware

How to Be More Aware

In this hustle and bustle world we are losing an important connection. No, I'm not talking about the internet; we are all plugged and tuned out from the world around us. We seldom recognize the people around us let alone acknowledge them. If your goal is to be a submissive ...

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Serving after Abuse

Serving after Abuse

Having been in the lifestyle for almost two years now, one of the things that I have noticed is that I am facing a lot of issues due to abuse from my past. Not from any Dominant in the lifestyle, just from others in my past. I've learned enough that ...

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Review: Protocols – Handbook For the Female Slave

Review: Protocols – Handbook For the Female Slave

I've reviewed protocol based books here before but this one is far more unique than those read previously. Protocols isn't just a book about protocols, it's a handbook written from one Dominant to his slave. These are the actual orders and behaviors he expects out of his slave. While it ...

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Kink and Mental Health: The Background

Kink and Mental Health: The Background

There's a lot of debate, in our kinky little corner of the worldwide web, about kinky people who have mental health issues.  What kinds of problems they cause, how to keep them from destroying the mood in kinky venues, whether or not D/s (and the structure that often comes with ...

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Research Page: Gorean Lifestyle

I'm constantly exploring the internet and online libraries for information.  Today I found a wealth of knowledge about Gorean Lifestyle. I personally can't distinguish between online Gor and real life Gorean living so they are together in this list. Please feel free to leave a comment and add your own ...

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Defining Submission

Kink and Mental Health: The Background Kink and Mental Health: The Background

There’s a lot of debate, in our kinky little corner of the worldwide web, about... 

Serving after Abuse Serving after Abuse

Having been in the lifestyle for almost two years now, one of the things that I have... 

The Wife vs The Slave The Wife vs The Slave

This is a guest post by Jim’s {Beth}. Alternative lifestyles make some people nervous.... 

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Service

Out of the Office and Into the Home: Making the change from working to stay-at-home submissive Out of the Office and Into the Home: Making the change from working to stay-at-home submissive

Last February was a difficult month for me. Like many in this failing economy I found... 

Morning Rituals Morning Rituals

From Submissive Journal Prompts Do you have a morning ritual? Morning rituals are... 

How to Make Laundry Soap How to Make Laundry Soap

One of the frugal and simple living things that you can do at home is to make your... 

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Recent Video Post

Why I Think No Limits Slavery Does Not Exist

This is a video post about no limits slavery – or rather, why I think it doesn’t exist. Last month Rayne wrote a post about how she lives in a no limits slavery relationship and how it works for her. I like that she covered a few of the common challenges to her way of life and if you haven’t read it, I recommend you run off and do so. I don’t intend for this post to bash or challenge people who are living in what they call... [Read the rest of the post]

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Training Resume

How to Be More Aware How to Be More Aware

In this hustle and bustle world we are losing an important connection. No, I’m... 

Write a Life Mission Statement Write a Life Mission Statement

Just like a business mission statement a life mission statement helps to define who... 

My Submissive Code of Ethics My Submissive Code of Ethics

I’ve been developing a submissive code of ethics for myself to help give me long... 

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Views on D/s

Novice Q&A – July Edition Novice Q&A – July Edition

Q: I have question.  I’m a Sub newbie under a Dom’s consideration for... 

Submissive Chat Night: Topic – Expectations and Responsibilities of the Single Submissive Submissive Chat Night: Topic – Expectations and Responsibilities of the Single Submissive

It’s time again for another chat night here at Submissive Guide. I’d welcome... 

Getting to Know the Local and Not so Local Community Getting to Know the Local and Not so Local Community

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 4/10/10 One of the most feared activities of... 

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Relationships

Being With an Older Dominant Being With an Older Dominant

There is a 21 year age difference between myself and my Master . I am 30 and he is 51. When we met I hadn’t expected we would end up where we are now, which is still together, engaged and very happy! If I had thought he would be my life partner as well as a play partner then I might have not considered him as a possibility, and I would have lost... [Read more]

Why Safety is Preached to Novices and Why It’s Important to Know Anyway Why Safety is Preached to Novices and Why It’s Important to Know Anyway

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 3/3/10 Being in the BDSM community for any length of time you are likely to come across the common sermons of SSC, Safe Calls and First Meeting Safety. When you are novice in BDSM I’d encourage you to listen to these sermons and listen hard; they could protect you as you venture out into the world to feed... [Read more]

When Worlds Collide When Worlds Collide

Okay, so our worlds didn’t really collide, they just tapped each other a little bit. This is what happened: Mr. K, my Master, and I went out to lunch a few weeks ago. One of our protocols is that I prepare his beverages. For iced tea, for instance, he likes one “blue” and one “pink.” We were seated at the restaurant and I was busily doing... [Read more]

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