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Learning Your Way Around the Kitchen-Fresh Muffins from Scratch

Learning Your Way Around the Kitchen-Fresh Muffins from Scratch

Every few months, one of the grocery store chains has American Week. Needless to say, this makes me extremely happy. They have peanut butter, microwave popcorn, assorted cupcake mixes, muffins, and a lot of other assorted American type food. After I had put every jar of creamy peanut butter that I could find in the [...]

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Domestics, Service
Weekend Giveaway: The Warrior Princess Submissive by Michael Makai (1 Winner)

Weekend Giveaway: The Warrior Princess Submissive by Michael Makai (1 Winner)

Welcome back to another Weekend Giveway! This week we have a copy of Michael Makai’s The Warrior Submissive Princess. I have read this book and I must say, in my opinion it is one that every female s-type should read. There is a lot of awesome food for thought packed inside this 157 page book. [...]

1 comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Ask lunaKM – Is being submissive right for me?

Ask lunaKM – Is being submissive right for me?

I was never formally introduced to the bdsm world but I have always found the thought of being controlled a extreme turn on. How do I know if being a submissive is the right thing for me? And if it is, what is the best way to go about entering the lifestyle? Dear Never Formally [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
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Checks and Balances in Power Exchange

There are things we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, and people we can’t live without but have to let go. -Author Unknown Very dear to my heart is a less-than-sexy but necessary dialogue that revolves around maintaining a healthy Power Exchange dynamic. [...]

8 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Safety
Learn to Love The Body You Have – Submissive Meditation Monday

Learn to Love The Body You Have – Submissive Meditation Monday

I’m devoting this Monday to meditation, reflection and devotion to submission. I hope to select topics that will get you thinking differently about some part of your life or submission and then just maybe grow a little bit further. If you have ideas for topics that might work for a Meditation Monday, please email me. With yet another [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth, Views & More...


[Video Post] Improving Your Submission: Identify Your Focus

Every submissive everywhere has asked this question at one time or another, whether that be to themselves, to their partner or to a mentor like myself. How do I improve my submission? The challenge with answering this question is that it’s such a broad, generic question. It’s almost impossible for any non-invested person to answer. [...]

22, June | 1 comment

BDSM Basics – What Your First Date Might Look Like

Welcome back to the next part in the BDSM Basics series. In earlier episodes we figured out if we were kinky, what role we are, how to stay safe and how to find a partner. In this article we’ll talk about what your first date might look like. I’ll cover two different situations for a [...]

27, April | 1 comment

BDSM Basics – How Do I Find Someone to Play With?

It’s the burning question on our lips now isn’t it? Through the earlier posts we’ve learned whether you are kinky, what role or roles we might enjoy and how to stay safe when exploring kink. So it makes sense that you now want to know how to find someone to experiment with and maybe have [...]

19, January | 5 comments

BDSM Basics: Staying Safe with SSC

In my earlier BDSM Basics videos you learned about being kinky and what roles you might like to try while you explore the great big world of BDSM. Today I’m going to talk about safety. Every new thing you try is full of risks, some you are willing to take and others you aren’t. So [...]

15, December | Leave a comment

BDSM Basics: Am I Dominant or submissive?

Whether you’ve read 50 Shades of Grey or another drugstore dirty romance novel and then decided to go exploring in BDSM or you’ve found BDSM another way one of the first questions everyone has is are they Dominant or submissive? It sure feels like a good place to start and I am going to help [...]

17, October | 1 comment


Book Review: The Ritual of Dominance & Submission: A Guide to High Protocol Dominance & Submission

One of the more selective skills of a D/s relationship is protocol. Many of the misconceptions is that it’s hard to do and that only the more serious power exchange relationships participate. KnyghtMare and I have some moderate protocol all the time since I love it and he likes control so anytime he gets opportunity [...]

26, June | Leave a comment

Book Review: Bondage Snippets by Verianna LaCroix

Bondage Snippets by Verianna LaCroix isn’t like any other non-fiction BDSM book that I have read. Instead of being a book that explains the in and outs of the dynamic or a how to type of book. Bondage Snippets is a book that gives you a sneak peek into the lives of male and female [...]

19, May | Leave a comment

Book Review: The Warrior Princess Submissive by Michael Makai

I have been wanting to read Michael Makai’s The Warrior Princess Submissive for a while. This is one of those books where the title totally caught my interest. I found myself thinking “Well, I’m submissive, I am definitely a princess, and who doesn’t want to be a warrior?” Not only did the title catch my [...]

12, May | 8 comments

Book Review: 50 Shades of Curious by Bo Blaze

Fifty Shades of Curious is by Bo Blaze, a PCC-certified alternative life coach who specializes in alternative sexual relationships and non-traditional lifestyles. He is also well-known nationally as an expert in the BDSM lifestyle who has spoken at numerous events all over the country. With the popularity of the series “Fifty Shades of Grey”, Blaze [...]

30, April | 1 comment

Book Review: BDSM Mastery: Your Guide to Play, Parties and Scene Protocols

It’s been a long while since I’ve reviewed any books on Submissive Guide and boy do I have a back log! The first book up for review is from the BDSM Mastery series by Robert J Rubel Ph.D and M. Jen Fairfield titled BDSM Mastery – Basics: your guide to play, parties and scene protocols. [...]

30, March | Leave a comment

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