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Teach Yourself Belly Dancing Using YouTube
As a part of my work to improve myself and make my submission fun and exciting always I am constantly searching for things I can add to my service that my Owner would love to see or have me do. One of these is today's focus. Belly Dancing. I'm certain that ...
Diffuse Extreme Mood Swings Before They Get You In Trouble
For March Question Month Cilla Noir asks: How do you handle your serious mood swings or when something just “sets you off”? When you go from one end of the spectrum to another – sometimes justified, sometimes not. Normally, when i was on my own, i would just throw a ...
A Collar by Any Other Name...
This month is March Question Month, and Trinity asked: Does one know how to obtain collars that do not look like collars..so one can be worn at all time with out so called vanilla’s asking about it…? When people think of collars, they usually picture something an animal would wear. Supple leather ...
Review: The Submissive Activity Book
In January I had a poll in the sidebar asking readers like you what books you'd like to see me review for Submissive Guide. The overwhelming response was that you wanted me to review The Submissive Activity Book: Building Blocks To Better Service by Shannon Reilly. I received the 184 ...
March is Question Month
As so many bloggers are known to do, I am opening up this site for your questions... even the personal ones. March is the month known in a small sphere as Question Month! If you have a question about submission, your own struggles or anything to do with BDSM this is ...Welcome to Submissive Guide!
This site is dedicated to helping submissives understand themselves and the service they wish to provide; from sexual to domestic, personal assistant to pain slut and everything in between. It is meant to be used as a self-help resource for the novice as well as the experienced submissive. Please allow me to be your submissive guide. Read More...
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Defining Submission
A Collar by Any Other Name…This month is March Question Month, and Trinity asked: Does one know how to obtain...
Diffuse Extreme Mood Swings Before They Get You In TroubleFor March Question Month Cilla Noir asks: How do you handle your serious mood swings...
Regaining Submissive Mind-Space Through RitualMany submissives have jobs where they are managers, business owners, or in charge...
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Teach Yourself Belly Dancing Using YouTubeAs a part of my work to improve myself and make my submission fun and exciting always...
Regaining Submissive Mind-Space Through RitualMany submissives have jobs where they are managers, business owners, or in charge...
Make-up Application Tips, Tricks and TutorialsAlmost every lady loves to wear make-up. I’m no different, but it’s...
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What NOT to Share on Your Online ProfileThis video post is about what not to share on your online profile. We all have one somewhere. FetLife being all the rage right now, but also we have alt.com, collarme.com, bondage.com and others where we place ads and identity profiles up to get people interested. This interest can be friends or relationship related; it doesn’t matter. What does matter is what we broadcast to everyone that happens across our profiles. You need to keep some... [Read the rest of the post]
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My Submissive Code of EthicsI’ve been developing a submissive code of ethics for myself to help give me long...
Add Cons, Classes and Events to your Training ResumeYour training resume should be growing in bulk and excellent information if you’ve...
Add Your Reading List to Your Training ResumeSince the beginning of Submissive Guide I have been writing essays to help you build...
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SubWise #8: Serving in Public – Participation RequestIts time for SubWise! You know what to do by now. I’m going to give you a topic...
Submissive Chat Night 3/9/10 8PM CST – Free ChatIt’s time again for another chat night here at Submissive Guide. I’d welcome...
Review: The Submissive Activity BookIn January I had a poll in the sidebar asking readers like you what books you’d...
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What NOT to Share on Your Online ProfileThis video post is about what not to share on your online profile. We all have one somewhere. FetLife being all the rage right now, but also we have alt.com, collarme.com, bondage.com and others where we place ads and identity profiles up to get people interested. This interest can be friends or relationship related; it doesn’t matter. What... [Read more]
Are Discipline and Punishment The Same?Reading across the blogosphere you will encounter these words almost synonymous to each other: Discipline and Punishment. The words are far from the same however some dynamics treat them the same. In fact for the longest time I have used the word punishment when I mean discipline. It’s even possible that Master has used these words interchangeably... [Read more]
5 Ways to Express Your Gratitude to Your DominantWith Thanksgiving (USA) just around the corner I thought it would be fitting to write about gratitude, and how to express your gratitude to the one you serve. Sure you can say thank you. That’s standard. I really hope you take every opportunity to say thank you, but what if you want a few more creative ways to show how appreciative you are... [Read more]
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Book of the Month
This month I'd like to feature How To Be Kinky by Morpheous. A perfect first book on BDSM and kinky play with fabulous photos.
Purchasing this book through the link here helps pay for future books to review.Current Poll
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