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lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

Hi folks, KnyghtMare and I had a wild, sexy romantic week this week and I’m feeling high and happy. This does not promote a good writing regime and so I’ve fallen a bit behind on my writing quota. Hopefully I’ll do a better job this week! Sometimes, when I’ve not worked my hardest I feel [...]

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Book Review: The Dom with a Safeword-The Badass Brats

Book Review: The Dom with a Safeword-The Badass Brats

I was introduced to the wonderful world of the Badass Brats thanks to my friend and reading buddy Shannon. She stumbled across a great series on Amazon and after she read the first book-The Dom with a Safeword, she quickly shared it with me and told me to read. Not when I get the chance, [...]

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Ask lunaKM – Detailed Definitions to Save a Relationship

Ask lunaKM – Detailed Definitions to Save a Relationship

Dear lunaKM, I am married to my Dom and I live him with ask my heart and always to the best of my ability do what he asks of me. I introduced him to this lifestyle and have tried many times to explain the roles we both have that keeps us both wanting to be [...]

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Interracial: Amor en blanco y negro by ElRaffa (Flickr.com)

M/s in Black and White

It’s not uncommon for a black person entering the Lifestyle to wonder, is it acceptable for me as a black woman (or man) to have or serve a white Master? The short answer to this question is – yeah! We all can pursue the dynamics that we desire with whom we desire. But there’s obviously [...]

4 comments Posted by charmed blyss | Posted in: Mindset, Relationships, Social Norms
Submissive Frenzies

Submissive Frenzies

This is a guest post by Mistress Steel. It was part of her Steel’s Chamber Scrolls which is now defunct. Shared with Permission. Submissive Frenzies are a state or condition that many if not all submissives will experience at one time or another. Many aspects of BDSM are similar to addictions in how they play out [...]

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Videos

BDSM Basics – How Do I Find Someone to Play With?

It’s the burning question on our lips now isn’t it? Through the earlier posts we’ve learned whether you are kinky, what role or roles we might enjoy and how to stay safe when exploring kink. So it makes sense that you now want to know how to find someone to experiment with and maybe have [...]

19, January | 3 comments

BDSM Basics: Staying Safe with SSC

In my earlier BDSM Basics videos you learned about being kinky and what roles you might like to try while you explore the great big world of BDSM. Today I’m going to talk about safety. Every new thing you try is full of risks, some you are willing to take and others you aren’t. So [...]

15, December | Leave a comment

BDSM Basics: Am I Dominant or submissive?

Whether you’ve read 50 Shades of Grey or another drugstore dirty romance novel and then decided to go exploring in BDSM or you’ve found BDSM another way one of the first questions everyone has is are they Dominant or submissive? It sure feels like a good place to start and I am going to help [...]

17, October | Leave a comment

BDSM Basics: Am I Kinky If…?

You’re surfing the internet one day and come across a forum of people talking about their sex lives. It’s interesting to you so you stop and read a bit. Just when you thought you were like everyone else, someone mentions something that you enjoy doing during sex and the responses are, “Oh that’s kinky!” It [...]

3, October | 1 comment

Learning About Positive Pain Processing Methods

When we learn about pain processing in relation to play and scenes with our sadist partner it’s always a good idea to understand negative processing methods. The things that make handling pain and enjoying longer sessions harder and sometimes impossible. Hopefully you’ve learned about your own negative methods in the previous video. Today we’ll talk [...]

18, March | 6 comments

Reviews

Book Review: 62Q: Sixty-Two Questions for Your Dominant by Michael Makai

Thanks to lunaKM’s review of Michael Makai’s Domination and Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook, I’d been interested in reading one of his books. I became even more interested when I heard in a BDSM related Facebook group I’m in how many people had enjoyed reading his books. When he released his latest book 62Q and [...]

30, January | Leave a comment

Book Review: Unconventional Desires by Victoria L. Sadler

Unconventional Desires: A Dairy of Discovery….Domination, Submission, Sadism and Masochism is the début novel from Victoria L. Sadler. Mrs. Sadler contacted me and asked if I would be interested in reviewing her book for Submissive Guide and being the avid reader of BDSM fiction that I am, I happily accepted and I can honestly say [...]

16, December | 3 comments

Book Review: The BDSM Coloring Book

This is a guest post by LibrarianBrat. Hello, I am LibrarianBrat and I am a little. When I am a little I range in age between 5-8. In my adult life I have a master’s degree in Library and Information Sciences and am currently a PhD student. Luna asked me to write a review of [...]

5, December | 2 comments

Book Review: Real Service

I bought this book on a recommendation from a member of Fetlife who commented on a post I created asking about different types of service. I can honestly say that purchasing this book is one of those things I can call one of the better decisions I’ve made in my life. While the book isn’t [...]

14, November | Leave a comment

Book Review: Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be a Submissive

I had this book recommended to me by a reader on Twitter and I couldn’t pass up an opportunity to review a book by request. 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be a Submissive by Elizabeth Cramer is available as a paperback or an ebook. I purchased mine through Amazon Kindle.  I have [...]

27, October | 4 comments

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