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lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

This day has been coming for a long time now, but Wednesday we will be packing up the truck (or rather, movers will) and we’ll be headed to a new destination. I’m anxious and stressed with all the final/initial arrangements that need to fall into place. And because KnyghtMare and I are moving, I have [...]

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Ask lunaKM – Calling him Sir means something, doesn’t it?

Ask lunaKM – Calling him Sir means something, doesn’t it?

I have been in a D/s relationship for eight months, but he has a problem with moving forward, asking three things of me. Kneeling when he comes in, being naked, and calling him Sir, calling him Sir, I have a hard time doing all the time. I feel that I want to know how he [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
[Free Printable] Ancient Egyptian Woman’s Slave Contract – Facebook Cover Image

[Free Printable] Ancient Egyptian Woman’s Slave Contract – Facebook Cover Image

I made this quote specifically for a Facebook Cover, but you can use it elsewhere.   As with all the printables from Submissive Guide, you are welcome to share it where ever you want!

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Weekend Giveaway: Independence #1: Bailey by Karen A. Nichols (1 Winner)

Weekend Giveaway: Independence #1: Bailey by Karen A. Nichols (1 Winner)

Here comes another steamy erotic fiction prize for you! Author Karen A. Nicohols is giving a way one copy of Independence #1: Bailey to one lucky Submissive Guide winner. The book is available in Mobi(Kindle), PDF, and EPub formats. Enter now for your chance to win a digital copy of “Independence #1: Baily” by Karen [...]

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Views & More...
Ask lunaKM – How To Approach Dommes on FetLife

Ask lunaKM – How To Approach Dommes on FetLife

Dear Annie, Well my question is quite simple. Im a submissive cross dresser from the UK, and have been dressing for many years now. One of the main reasons i dress is because I have a very strong submissive side, and many of the fetishes to go along with that. My question is simple, I [...]

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Learning About Positive Pain Processing Methods

When we learn about pain processing in relation to play and scenes with our sadist partner it’s always a good idea to understand negative processing methods. The things that make handling pain and enjoying longer sessions harder and sometimes impossible. Hopefully you’ve learned about your own negative methods in the previous video. Today we’ll talk [...]

18, March | 5 comments

Learning About Negative Pain Processing Methods

If you ask any sadist what they enjoy out of pain play, it’s likely going to be watching the bottom respond to the pain. The more response, the higher the enjoyment for the top. Why is this important? Well, if the method of pain management doesn’t allow you to respond well to the pain, then [...]

3, March | Leave a comment

Natural Pain Processing Techniques

Everyone you meet has different methods for how they handle pain. Think about the last time your stubbed your toe. How did you respond to the pain? Did you jump up and down? Curse? Cry? Hold your breath? Walk it off? How you handle pain is a result of nature and nurture. Perhaps as you [...]

12, February | 4 comments

[Video Post] Your Responsibilities Go Beyond ‘Obedience’

I read a forum thread the other day that rubbed me the wrong way. So I thought I’d talk about it and share my opinion on the subject. I would love to hear how you would answer this same question. The topic was asking what a submissive’s/slave’s responsibilities were in a relationship. Out of the [...]

13, May | 16 comments

Ask lunaKM – How do I show my submissiveness long distance?

First I want to give you a little bit of background. He is my Disciplinarian. It’s not a D/s relationship. We’ve been meeting regularly for the last 3.5 years. In September of this year, I  moved halfway around the world with my job. So we now only see each other when I am able to [...]

3, April | 7 comments


Book Review: Processing Pain in Play

I got the chance to buy lunaKM’s new version of Processing Pain in Play a littler earlier than everyone else because I had previously purchased the book. And, I hate to admit this, but despite purchasing the previous version of Processing Pain, I had not read it. *hangs head in shame* I know, I know. [...]

22, July | Leave a comment

Video Review: Kink for Beginners

There are a lot of great resources out there to read online about the lifestyle, but some people tend to learn better visually and there’s not a lot options out there. Mistress Lilith Starr and her slave Uruk Black have fixed that. They have put together an amazing video, Kink for Beginners. Lilith and Uruk [...]

30, June | 1 comment

Book Review: Slave (Finding Anna Book 1)

I’m sure you all have noticed that I am an avid reader by all the recent book reviews I have done for Submissive Guide. Reading has always been a passion of mine and even more so when it happens to be of a topic of interest. I had stumbled across “Slave” by Sherri Hayes on [...]

17, June | 1 comment

Book Review: Domination and Submission – The BDSM Relationship Handbook

I’ve had this book for a very long time and while I didn’t start into it right away, it has taken me a long time to read. It’s not any fault of the book, it’s a fantastic book, it is just very long and the time I’ve had to read is very short! Don’t let [...]

28, May | 1 comment

Book Review: The Toybag Guide to Playing with Taboo

I came across ” The Toybag Guide to Playing with Taboo because well, I love Mollena Williams. She’s intelligent, quirky, has a great sense of humor, so why not read something she’s written? Everything I love about her personality shines in her writing. Not only that, but talking about taboo subjects is also an interest that grabbed [...]

13, May | Leave a comment

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