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Defining Submission
Another question from March Question Month comes from Coco: I am curious about what...
This is a question tammy asked for March Question Month: I have had a few Doms and...
This month is March Question Month, and Trinity asked: Does one know how to obtain...
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As a part of my work to improve myself and make my submission fun and exciting always...
Many submissives have jobs where they are managers, business owners, or in charge...
Almost every lady loves to wear make-up. I’m no different, but it’s...
Read More PostsRecent Video Post
What NOT to Share on Your Online ProfileThis video post is about what not to share on your online profile. We all have one somewhere. FetLife being all the rage right now, but also we have alt.com, collarme.com, bondage.com and others where we place ads and identity profiles up to get people interested. This interest can be friends or relationship related; it doesn’t matter. What does matter is what we broadcast to everyone that happens across our profiles. You need to keep some... [Read the rest of the post]
Watch More Video PostsTraining Resume
I’ve been developing a submissive code of ethics for myself to help give me long...
Your training resume should be growing in bulk and excellent information if you’ve...
Since the beginning of Submissive Guide I have been writing essays to help you build...
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Its time for SubWise! You know what to do by now. I’m going to give you a topic...
It’s time again for another chat night here at Submissive Guide. I’d welcome...
In January I had a poll in the sidebar asking readers like you what books you’d...
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This is a question tammy asked for March Question Month: I have had a few Doms and i am in a relationship where I live with one.I didnt think I could find someone that makes me this happy but I did. The problem is I keep thinking about my first Dom that introduced me into this life. We were together for two months. I feel like I am cheating or... [Read more]
This video post is about what not to share on your online profile. We all have one somewhere. FetLife being all the rage right now, but also we have alt.com, collarme.com, bondage.com and others where we place ads and identity profiles up to get people interested. This interest can be friends or relationship related; it doesn’t matter. What... [Read more]
Reading across the blogosphere you will encounter these words almost synonymous to each other: Discipline and Punishment. The words are far from the same however some dynamics treat them the same. In fact for the longest time I have used the word punishment when I mean discipline. It’s even possible that Master has used these words interchangeably... [Read more]
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