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lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

Hi folks, I’ve been so sick that I practically slept through all of the last week and a half. I missed last week’s Reflections because I slept through it! I’ve had one of the worst colds I’ve had in my adult life so far. It is still knocking me flat. I’ve had some help from [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Weekend Reflections
Submissive Fantasy vs Submissive Reality

Submissive Fantasy vs Submissive Reality

This is a guest post by rife. Hi this is rife, Sinclair’s boy. Maybe you’ve read dirty things about me, but that’s not the whole story. So what am I up to when not bent over? Well … I love erotica and porn as much as anyone (honest!), but often when people describe it, we [...]

3 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Learn to Submit
Ask lunaKM – How do you handle emotional disconnect in a triad poly relationship?

Ask lunaKM – How do you handle emotional disconnect in a triad poly relationship?

Hello Luna, first; thank you in advance for everything, great site. Second, my question is, I’ve been in a D/s relationship 3 yrs. from the beginning my Master has wanted a poly family. We have met a woman and have pursued this relationship a year now. I don’t know if it’s just me but I’m [...]

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Reciprocity: Expectations of Transparency of the Dominant

For those of you who are avid Red Phoneix fans, she’s at it again. She’s currently working on the third installment of the Brie series, Submissive in Love. While I was reading the second novella, Brie’s Denver Desires, a passage at the end of the book grabbed my attention and wouldn’t let go. “Sir, you’re [...]

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Relationships, Views & More...
Take Care of the Property

Take Care of the Property

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 1/10/15 Mollena Williams, a well-known and respected speaker, educator, Ms Leather 2010 and so much more has inspired my writing and my personal thinking about my submission more than she will probably ever know. One of my favorite messages she conveys is that the prime directive of the submissive (affiliate link) [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Improve Yourself, Newsletter Archive


BDSM Basics – How Do I Find Someone to Play With?

It’s the burning question on our lips now isn’t it? Through the earlier posts we’ve learned whether you are kinky, what role or roles we might enjoy and how to stay safe when exploring kink. So it makes sense that you now want to know how to find someone to experiment with and maybe have [...]

19, January | 3 comments

BDSM Basics: Staying Safe with SSC

In my earlier BDSM Basics videos you learned about being kinky and what roles you might like to try while you explore the great big world of BDSM. Today I’m going to talk about safety. Every new thing you try is full of risks, some you are willing to take and others you aren’t. So [...]

15, December | Leave a comment

BDSM Basics: Am I Dominant or submissive?

Whether you’ve read 50 Shades of Grey or another drugstore dirty romance novel and then decided to go exploring in BDSM or you’ve found BDSM another way one of the first questions everyone has is are they Dominant or submissive? It sure feels like a good place to start and I am going to help [...]

17, October | 1 comment

BDSM Basics: Am I Kinky If…?

You’re surfing the internet one day and come across a forum of people talking about their sex lives. It’s interesting to you so you stop and read a bit. Just when you thought you were like everyone else, someone mentions something that you enjoy doing during sex and the responses are, “Oh that’s kinky!” It [...]

3, October | 1 comment

Learning About Positive Pain Processing Methods

When we learn about pain processing in relation to play and scenes with our sadist partner it’s always a good idea to understand negative processing methods. The things that make handling pain and enjoying longer sessions harder and sometimes impossible. Hopefully you’ve learned about your own negative methods in the previous video. Today we’ll talk [...]

18, March | 6 comments


Book Review: BDSM Mastery: Your Guide to Play, Parties and Scene Protocols

It’s been a long while since I’ve reviewed any books on Submissive Guide and boy do I have a back log! The first book up for review is from the BDSM Mastery series by Robert J Rubel Ph.D and M. Jen Fairfield titled BDSM Mastery – Basics: your guide to play, parties and scene protocols. [...]

30, March | Leave a comment

Book Review: The Dom with a Safeword-The Badass Brats

I was introduced to the wonderful world of the Badass Brats thanks to my friend and reading buddy Shannon. She stumbled across a great series on Amazon and after she read the first book-The Dom with a Safeword, she quickly shared it with me and told me to read. Not when I get the chance, [...]

27, February | Leave a comment

Book Review: 62Q: Sixty-Two Questions for Your Dominant by Michael Makai

Thanks to lunaKM’s review of Michael Makai’s Domination and Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook, I’d been interested in reading one of his books. I became even more interested when I heard in a BDSM related Facebook group I’m in how many people had enjoyed reading his books. When he released his latest book 62Q and [...]

30, January | Leave a comment

Book Review: Unconventional Desires by Victoria L. Sadler

Unconventional Desires: A Dairy of Discovery….Domination, Submission, Sadism and Masochism is the début novel from Victoria L. Sadler. Mrs. Sadler contacted me and asked if I would be interested in reviewing her book for Submissive Guide and being the avid reader of BDSM fiction that I am, I happily accepted and I can honestly say [...]

16, December | 3 comments

Book Review: The BDSM Coloring Book

This is a guest post by LibrarianBrat. Hello, I am LibrarianBrat and I am a little. When I am a little I range in age between 5-8. In my adult life I have a master’s degree in Library and Information Sciences and am currently a PhD student. Luna asked me to write a review of [...]

5, December | 2 comments

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