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Stress in Play with Predicament Bondage

Stress in Play with Predicament Bondage

Has your Dom/me ever tied you in a position where if you move one way this part of your body gets stressed or pulled, and if you move another way, that part of your body gets tugged or pinched? If so, then you have experienced predicament bondage! Predicament bondage can be ...

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What I Think about Underage Experimentation and Submission

Another question from March Question Month comes from Coco: I am curious about what your thoughts on those who admit to participating underage is? I have been referred to as “vanilla” for being uncomfortable with those who identify/have identified as submissives and slaves at/from a very young age. I ...

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Are You Cheating on Your Dominant With Your Ex Dominant's Memory?

Are You Cheating on Your Dominant With Your Ex Dominant's Memory?

This is a question tammy asked for March Question Month: I have had a few Doms and i am in a relationship where I live with one.I didnt think I could find someone that makes me this happy but I did. The problem is I keep thinking about my ...

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Teach Yourself Belly Dancing Using YouTube

Teach Yourself Belly Dancing Using YouTube

As a part of my work to improve myself and make my submission fun and exciting always I am constantly searching for things I can add to my service that my Owner would love to see or have me do. One of these is today's focus. Belly Dancing. I'm certain that ...

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Diffuse Extreme Mood Swings Before They Get You In Trouble

Diffuse Extreme Mood Swings Before They Get You In Trouble

For March Question Month Cilla Noir asks: How do you handle your serious mood swings or when something just “sets you off”? When you go from one end of the spectrum to another – sometimes justified, sometimes not. Normally, when i was on my own, i would just throw a ...

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Defining Submission

What I Think about Underage Experimentation and Submission What I Think about Underage Experimentation and Submission

Another question from March Question Month comes from Coco: I am curious about what... 

Are You Cheating on Your Dominant With Your Ex Dominant’s Memory? Are You Cheating on Your Dominant With Your Ex Dominant’s Memory?

This is a question tammy asked for March Question Month: I have had a few Doms and... 

A Collar by Any Other Name… A Collar by Any Other Name…

This month is March Question Month, and Trinity asked: Does one know how to obtain... 

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Service

Teach Yourself Belly Dancing Using YouTube Teach Yourself Belly Dancing Using YouTube

As a part of my work to improve myself and make my submission fun and exciting always... 

Regaining Submissive Mind-Space Through Ritual Regaining Submissive Mind-Space Through Ritual

Many submissives have jobs where they are managers, business owners, or in charge... 

Make-up Application Tips, Tricks and Tutorials Make-up Application Tips, Tricks and Tutorials

Almost every lady loves to wear make-up. I’m no different, but it’s... 

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Recent Video Post

What NOT to Share on Your Online Profile

This video post is about what not to share on your online profile. We all have one somewhere. FetLife being all the rage right now, but also we have alt.com, collarme.com, bondage.com and others where we place ads and identity profiles up to get people interested. This interest can be friends or relationship related; it doesn’t matter. What does matter is what we broadcast to everyone that happens across our profiles. You need to keep some... [Read the rest of the post]

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Training Resume

My Submissive Code of Ethics My Submissive Code of Ethics

I’ve been developing a submissive code of ethics for myself to help give me long... 

Add Cons, Classes and Events to your Training Resume Add Cons, Classes and Events to your Training Resume

Your training resume should be growing in bulk and excellent information if you’ve... 

Add Your Reading List to Your Training Resume Add Your Reading List to Your Training Resume

Since the beginning of Submissive Guide I have been writing essays to help you build... 

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Views on D/s

SubWise #8: Serving in Public – Participation Request SubWise #8: Serving in Public – Participation Request

Its time for SubWise! You know what to do by now. I’m going to give you a topic... 

Submissive Chat Night 3/9/10 8PM CST – Free Chat Submissive Chat Night 3/9/10 8PM CST – Free Chat

It’s time again for another chat night here at Submissive Guide. I’d welcome... 

Review: The Submissive Activity Book Review: The Submissive Activity Book

In January I had a poll in the sidebar asking readers like you what books you’d... 

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Relationships

Are You Cheating on Your Dominant With Your Ex Dominant’s Memory? Are You Cheating on Your Dominant With Your Ex Dominant’s Memory?

This is a question tammy asked for March Question Month: I have had a few Doms and i am in a relationship where I live with one.I didnt think I could find someone that makes me this happy but I did. The problem is I keep thinking about my first Dom that introduced me into this life. We were together for two months. I feel like I am cheating or... [Read more]

What NOT to Share on Your Online Profile What NOT to Share on Your Online Profile

This video post is about what not to share on your online profile. We all have one somewhere. FetLife being all the rage right now, but also we have alt.com, collarme.com, bondage.com and others where we place ads and identity profiles up to get people interested. This interest can be friends or relationship related; it doesn’t matter. What... [Read more]

Are Discipline and Punishment The Same? Are Discipline and Punishment The Same?

Reading across the blogosphere you will encounter these words almost synonymous to each other: Discipline and Punishment. The words are far from the same however some dynamics treat them the same. In fact for the longest time I have used the word punishment when I mean discipline. It’s even possible that Master has used these words interchangeably... [Read more]

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