Falling in love is easy, so is falling out of love-especially when it is the love of a toy.  One of the assignments that I assign to the people I mentor involves this occurrence.   When I came into the lifestyle, I had two main loves-rope and floggers.  To me, there was nothing better than getting to [...]

I read a forum thread the other day that rubbed me the wrong way. So I thought I’d talk about it and share my opinion on the subject. I would love to hear how you would answer this same question. The topic was asking what a submissive’s/slave’s responsibilities were in a relationship. Out of the [...]

Mischief in May in Iowa was pretty good! KnyghtMare, froggyKM and I had a good time at the classes, socializing and playing. I even got a few new toys including a play collar. I’ve wanted a real leather collar with D-rings for ages! Of course, with any convention you can drop pretty hard and while [...]

Do you want to make a bit of extra money and help support an excellent submissive resource? I’m always looking for guest posts about anything pertaining to BDSM and submission. If you think you are a good fit for the writing that already exists here I’d love to talk with you. I’m looking for a [...]

Master and i have been together about a year (known each other for many more). He recently began expressing a desire for a threesome. Because of past experiences, i have very serious issues with this. i have, of course, shared these issues with Master. Unfortunately, this is something He very much wants. i told Him [...]