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Submissive Blog Hop Challenge #4 | Questioning Your Submission

One of the things that people love most about this site is gaining new knowledge and viewpoints.  I have taken it upon myselves to organize a day to take place once a month that will encourage bloggers to challenge themselves and explore their submissive choices! Read all the important guidelines  and FAQ on the Blog Hop [...]

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Submission
Understanding Sub Fever

Understanding Sub Fever

This is from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 9-3-11 Sub fever, also known as sub frenzy is an often misunderstood condition for novice and well seasoned submissives. While experienced submissives can learn to recognize the symptoms, most novices are oblivious to the issues at hand. What is sub fever? Do you remember when you first discovered [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Submission
Submission in Marriage – Shifting from Husband and Wife to Dominant and Submissive

Submission in Marriage – Shifting from Husband and Wife to Dominant and Submissive

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 10-08-11 Sexual exploration and adventurousness can happen at any time in a couple’s life; and even more so once they are committed to living their lives together for a long time. One of the ways that I’ve seen couples explore their sexual selves is by adding an element of D/s to the [...]

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships, Submission
A Day in the Life: Tlbsab

A Day in the Life: Tlbsab

This is a guest post for the Day in a Life Series. Thank you Tlbsab! First let me say that this article is in no way meant to offend anyone and is meant for information only. Religion is the basis of our relationship and is the reason that our lifestyle works for our family. I [...]

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Top 30 Posts of 2011

This is a showcase the top 30 posts of 2011. I’ve noted in the link if the author was a guest post. You may have missed a few gems! What FetLife Has Done Pet Play and Human Pets: A Primer by SkylerPet What is Slave Training? The BDSM Checklist that Will Really Help You Where [...]

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Videos

The Real Truth Behind the Fear of Topping from the Bottom

There are a lot of things on the internet talking about topping from the bottom as being a bad bad submissive thing. It’s made people terrified that everything they do could be crossing that terrible line. It’s not true. I’ve mentioned it before and I’ll say it again. Bottom topping isn’t as bad as it is [...]

26, October | 4 comments

Where Do I Start?

This is a video post about how to get started once you decide you want to explore submission. I’d have to say that the most common question I get from people who contact me via email is “where do I start?” and I’d have to agree that it’s an overwhelming feeling when you are facing [...]

29, July | 1 comment

When Does Punishment Go Too Far?

This video post answers a question I got recently about the line between punishment and abuse. A year ago I did a post about BDSM and abuse and in it gave you an idea of what the difference was between consensual BDSM and abuse. A couple weeks ago I was asked if there was a [...]

29, June | 1 comment

[Video Post] An Epidemic: Bottom’s Disease

You and I are submissive. We desire to serve someone else in some way but that is about all that is common between the two of us. We are different. We see our personal submission taking separate roads; parallel perhaps, but separate. I hope that in our submission we make sure to continue to look [...]

22, April | 1 comment

Kink Network Announces the Opening of Their Adult Blog Host Kinky-Blogging.com

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE – CROSS POST FREELY Kink Network Announces the Opening of Their Adult Blog Host Kinky-Blogging.com February 10, 2011 Kink Network is proud to announce their first service open to the kinky community! Kinky-Blogging.com is now open to the public for all your kinky and adult blogging needs. After a 5 month closed [...]

11, February | 3 comments

Reviews

Review: TakeninHand.com

Website reviews are going to be a little different than the book reviews just because the media and content is presented differently. The first website that was suggested to me for a review on this site is Taken in Hand. In fact it was the only suggestion so those of you who have a favorite [...]

31, October | 2 comments

Review: SM 101

One of the most comprehensive books on BDSM activities has to be SM101 by Jay Wiseman. It’s not your usual general BDSM reader, but a detailed safe play primer with so many ideas on what you can do with your partner that I even had new fantasies to bring to KM’s attention. SM101 is one [...]

30, September | Leave a comment

Reviews Expanding to Include Websites

I’ve been doing book reviews for Submissive Guide for almost 3 years now and they have been a wonderful resource and I’ve learned so very much. I don’t plan to stop reading books and reviewing them here for the site, but I thought it was time I start including the world wide web in the [...]

29, August | 1 comment

Review: Erotic Surrender – The Sensual Joys of Female Submission

I usually enjoy reading books designed for submissives, and novice submissives specifically, because they have so much to provide for learning and personal development. However, this book rubbed the the wrong way in several ways that just had me struggling to finish it without laughing out loud from what I was reading. Erotic Surrender – [...]

27, July | 4 comments

What Do Others Have to Say About SubGuide Reviewed Books (2009)?

Instead of a new book review this month I’d like to help those of you who are on the fence about certain books that I’ve reviewed get more information about them before you consider a purchase.  I’ve browsed the internet for related reviews and commentary on some of the books I’ve reviewed myself here at [...]

27, June | Leave a comment