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Submissive Chat Night – Free Chat

Submissive Chat Night – Free Chat

By lunaKM on May 23, 2013

It’s time again for another chat night here at Submissive Guide. I’d welcome everyone to come on in Tuesday 5/28 for a bit of conversation. The topic is going to be free chat. Anything and everything can be discussed. Please come with questions or a curiosity about Dominant/submissive relationships. Info When: 5/28/13  8 PM CST [...]

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Ask lunaKM – Shy Web Cam Model – Detrimental to Finding a Dominant?

Ask lunaKM – Shy Web Cam Model – Detrimental to Finding a Dominant?

By lunaKM on May 22, 2013

I’m very new to this lifestyle. I became interested in it because I work part time as a webcam model and found I really enjoyed doing as I was told. I am exploring online and trying to better understand what I like. However the Dominants I have encountered have issues with me. They don’t like [...]

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Male Submission – Selfishness

Male Submission – Selfishness

By ted_subby on May 21, 2013

The title of this article may seem self-contradictory but submission means different things to different people and also almost all human beings are selfish to at least some degree at some point in our lives. Many submissives gain pleasure directly from the pleasure of their dominant and they are clearly not the target of this [...]

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Why Would Anyone Want to be Micromanaged?

Why Would Anyone Want to be Micromanaged?

By lunaKM on May 20, 2013

from The Submissive Guide Newsletter 2/16/13 When fantasies abound about slavery they often go something like this: The slave is always nude, chained or caged waiting for the Master to decide what to do with them. They make no decisions themselves, the Master declares that he will tell them when to eat, sleep and piss. [...]

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Office Hours for the Week of 5/20/13

Office Hours for the Week of 5/20/13

By lunaKM on May 19, 2013

If you ever wished I was more available for conversation, advice or questions I will now be online in the chat room for “office hours” two days a week. Why do I call it Office Hours? Much like a teacher would have times they are available for students to visit, I’m opening my “doors” for [...]

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lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections

I’ve been struggling with my submission this week and it’s put tension on our dynamic. It’s a natural thing for me to have moments of questions and struggle with how I live. It will even out but until then I’m having to work harder to keep my focus on what I should be doing and [...]

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How to Write a Scene Report

How to Write a Scene Report

The words “scene report” always have me first thinking of a crime scene and second of a BDSM scene report. Scene reports can often be requested by some Dominants especially in the early stages of a play relationship. I’m going to cover what they are, how to write one and how they help you and [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play/Scene
froggyKM Hosts Chat Night – Making Time For Yourself

froggyKM Hosts Chat Night – Making Time For Yourself

It’s another chat night on Submissive Guide! This time, froggyKM hosts her very own night. If you’ve been in the chat nights before you’ll know that she’s a great person to get to know and I hope you’ll welcome her into the Submissive Guide family. Info Host: froggyKM When: 05/21/13  8 PM CST – 9:30 [...]

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Introducing BDSM to a Partner: Twitter Chat May 22, 2013 #domsubchat

Introducing BDSM to a Partner: Twitter Chat May 22, 2013 #domsubchat

Are you a twitteraholic? This might be the chat for you! Join Submissive Guide and Dominant Guide as we co-host our first twitter chat on How to Introduce BDSM to a Partner. You will want to follow @subgiude and @domguide and use the hashtag #domsubchat for any conversation during our chat. I hope to see [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
Ask lunaKM – Entitled

Ask lunaKM – Entitled

Respectful Greetings Luna. I have a question. Currently involved/owned by a man who cant seem to focus on me long enough for us to build any kind of bond let alone any trust or relationship other then sexual, I tried to explain to him respectfully what I need in our D/s. However, It seems that [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships

Videos

[Video Post] Your Responsibilities Go Beyond ‘Obedience’

I read a forum thread the other day that rubbed me the wrong way. So I thought I’d talk about it and share my opinion on the subject. I would love to hear how you would answer this same question. The topic was asking what a submissive’s/slave’s responsibilities were in a relationship. Out of the [...]

13, May | 2 comments

Ask lunaKM – Have A Threesome or I’m Leaving!

Master and i have been together about a year (known each other for many more). He recently began expressing a desire for a threesome. Because of past experiences, i have very serious issues with this. i have, of course, shared these issues with Master. Unfortunately, this is something He very much wants. i told Him [...]

8, May | 9 comments

Ask lunaKM – Dealing with Stress in a Relationship

Today’s question is about handling when the D/s is shelved due to external (or internal) stress. Hi Luna, I wanted to ask you about when a relationship is going through a rough patch, and neither partner can seem to find it within them to fulfill their previous D/s roles. My Sir is dealing with a [...]

1, May | 6 comments

Ask lunaKM – How do I show my submissiveness long distance?

First I want to give you a little bit of background. He is my Disciplinarian. It’s not a D/s relationship. We’ve been meeting regularly for the last 3.5 years. In September of this year, I  moved halfway around the world with my job. So we now only see each other when I am able to [...]

3, April | 5 comments

[Video Post] Ask lunaKM – What to do when your Dominant drops

How do you care for a Dom/Master who is suffering dom drop?  What should a sub do to help them through this? It seems that they get reclusive.  Is this normal? Today’s Ask Anything question I thought I’d give special attention and make it a video post. A common conversation in BDSM circles is sub [...]

23, January | 4 comments

Reviews

Book Review: Playing Well with Others

It’s been awhile since I read a book for review on the site, but this book I have been waiting for months to be released and I was thrilled to get an autographed (and kissed) copy by donating to their release tour. Playing Well with Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, [...]

18, February | 2 comments

Book Review – The Diary of a Submissive

I was recently asked to read the book  ’The Diary of a Submissive‘ by Sophie Morgan to give my thoughts on it by one of the girls involved in promoting it.  I didn’t receive anything for reviewing this book other than a free copy of it. For anyone who wishes to read this book it [...]

25, September | 19 comments

Book Review: The Ethical Slut

You have figured out by now if you read my personal blog or the Weekend Reflections here that KnyghtMare and I have recently begun the process of opening our relationship to include froggy. KnyghtMare and froggy are now Dominant and submissive and are taking it on my lead as to sexual contact. It’s not easy [...]

30, July | 6 comments

SGBHC #10 | Review a Submissive Guide eBook

Welcome everyone to the Submissive Guide Blog Hop Challenge (SGBHC)!  I am so thrilled to see you here!  First, the challenge… Submissive Challenge #10 Review a Submissive Guide eBook Pick out one of the 3 free ebooks available on the site and review it. Share what you do and don’t like about it and how you [...]

25, July | 4 comments

Book Review: Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice

I had to really think about whether I wanted to review this book on Submissive Guide or not because it’s not directed to submissives. In fact the description of the book says that it’s for Masters and those new to BDSM that are called to Mastery. I started reading it with an open outlook though [...]

29, June | 1 comment