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High Tea, Japanese Tea Ceremony and Formal Dining
Throughout history people have been creating specialized rituals for different events in their lives from birth to coming of age, marriage and even death. Some of the special events that we are drawn to in a D/s bend are the more “everyday” form of formal behavior and on occasion, ceremony that comes from other parts [...]
SGBHC #4 | Questioning Your Submission
Welcome everyone to the Submissive Guide Blog Hop Challenge (SGBHC)! I am so thrilled to see you here! First, the challenge… Submissive Challenge #4 Questioning Your Submission Is there anything about submission (yours or what you see in others) that you question, dislike or repels you? Was there a time you questioned or were resistant to [...]
Keeping It Fresh – How to Spice Up Your Kinky Life
From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 10-22-11 You’ve been doing the same ole’ kinky sh*t since the beginning and it’s getting old. Really old. So what do you do about it? Does it mean that you have to just keep replaying the record over and over and that nothing will be exciting again? Hardly. Every relationship [...]
lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections
I’m feeling really romantically nostalgic this week. I’ve read through old emails that I kept from when KM and I were an online relationship, listened to songs that meant something to us then and have thought a lot about how lucky I am to have him in my life and that we worked out so [...]
Table Manners
Table Manners-from the things no one should have to say, to the things that you may not have even known. There are many times that we will share a meal with someone. Bad manners or exceptional manners will ALWAYS get attention while acceptable ones may go unnoticed. But, this is such an easy way to [...]
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Submissive Blog Hop Challenge #4 | Questioning Your Submission
One of the things that people love most about this site is gaining new knowledge and viewpoints. I have taken it upon myselves to organize a day to take place once a month that will encourage bloggers to challenge themselves and explore their submissive choices! Read all the important guidelines and FAQ on the Blog Hop [...]
Understanding Sub Fever
This is from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 9-3-11 Sub fever, also known as sub frenzy is an often misunderstood condition for novice and well seasoned submissives. While experienced submissives can learn to recognize the symptoms, most novices are oblivious to the issues at hand. What is sub fever? Do you remember when you first discovered [...]
Submission in Marriage – Shifting from Husband and Wife to Dominant and Submissive
From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 10-08-11 Sexual exploration and adventurousness can happen at any time in a couple’s life; and even more so once they are committed to living their lives together for a long time. One of the ways that I’ve seen couples explore their sexual selves is by adding an element of D/s to the [...]
A Day in the Life: Tlbsab
This is a guest post for the Day in a Life Series. Thank you Tlbsab! First let me say that this article is in no way meant to offend anyone and is meant for information only. Religion is the basis of our relationship and is the reason that our lifestyle works for our family. I [...]
Top 30 Posts of 2011
This is a showcase the top 30 posts of 2011. I’ve noted in the link if the author was a guest post. You may have missed a few gems! What FetLife Has Done Pet Play and Human Pets: A Primer by SkylerPet What is Slave Training? The BDSM Checklist that Will Really Help You Where [...]
Videos
The Real Truth Behind the Fear of Topping from the Bottom
There are a lot of things on the internet talking about topping from the bottom as being a bad bad submissive thing. It’s made people terrified that everything they do could be crossing that terrible line. It’s not true. I’ve mentioned it before and I’ll say it again. Bottom topping isn’t as bad as it is [...]
Where Do I Start?
This is a video post about how to get started once you decide you want to explore submission. I’d have to say that the most common question I get from people who contact me via email is “where do I start?” and I’d have to agree that it’s an overwhelming feeling when you are facing [...]
When Does Punishment Go Too Far?
This video post answers a question I got recently about the line between punishment and abuse. A year ago I did a post about BDSM and abuse and in it gave you an idea of what the difference was between consensual BDSM and abuse. A couple weeks ago I was asked if there was a [...]
[Video Post] An Epidemic: Bottom’s Disease
You and I are submissive. We desire to serve someone else in some way but that is about all that is common between the two of us. We are different. We see our personal submission taking separate roads; parallel perhaps, but separate. I hope that in our submission we make sure to continue to look [...]
Kink Network Announces the Opening of Their Adult Blog Host Kinky-Blogging.com
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE – CROSS POST FREELY Kink Network Announces the Opening of Their Adult Blog Host Kinky-Blogging.com February 10, 2011 Kink Network is proud to announce their first service open to the kinky community! Kinky-Blogging.com is now open to the public for all your kinky and adult blogging needs. After a 5 month closed [...]
Reviews
Review: TakeninHand.com
Website reviews are going to be a little different than the book reviews just because the media and content is presented differently. The first website that was suggested to me for a review on this site is Taken in Hand. In fact it was the only suggestion so those of you who have a favorite [...]
Review: SM 101
One of the most comprehensive books on BDSM activities has to be SM101 by Jay Wiseman. It’s not your usual general BDSM reader, but a detailed safe play primer with so many ideas on what you can do with your partner that I even had new fantasies to bring to KM’s attention. SM101 is one [...]
Reviews Expanding to Include Websites
I’ve been doing book reviews for Submissive Guide for almost 3 years now and they have been a wonderful resource and I’ve learned so very much. I don’t plan to stop reading books and reviewing them here for the site, but I thought it was time I start including the world wide web in the [...]
Review: Erotic Surrender – The Sensual Joys of Female Submission
I usually enjoy reading books designed for submissives, and novice submissives specifically, because they have so much to provide for learning and personal development. However, this book rubbed the the wrong way in several ways that just had me struggling to finish it without laughing out loud from what I was reading. Erotic Surrender – [...]
What Do Others Have to Say About SubGuide Reviewed Books (2009)?
Instead of a new book review this month I’d like to help those of you who are on the fence about certain books that I’ve reviewed get more information about them before you consider a purchase. I’ve browsed the internet for related reviews and commentary on some of the books I’ve reviewed myself here at [...]
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My name is lunaKM and I’m a full-time stay-at-home submissive in a D/s relationship.I started blogging when I was exploring D/s online in 2003. I needed advice, mentors and helping hands. Since then I've made it my mission to help novice submissives understand themselves and the services they wish to provide. 
