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How to Be More Aware
In this hustle and bustle world we are losing an important connection. No, I'm not talking about the internet; we are all plugged and tuned out from the world around us. We seldom recognize the people around us let alone acknowledge them. If your goal is to be a submissive ...
Serving after Abuse
Having been in the lifestyle for almost two years now, one of the things that I have noticed is that I am facing a lot of issues due to abuse from my past. Not from any Dominant in the lifestyle, just from others in my past. I've learned enough that ...
Review: Protocols – Handbook For the Female Slave
I've reviewed protocol based books here before but this one is far more unique than those read previously. Protocols isn't just a book about protocols, it's a handbook written from one Dominant to his slave. These are the actual orders and behaviors he expects out of his slave. While it ...
Kink and Mental Health: The Background
There's a lot of debate, in our kinky little corner of the worldwide web, about kinky people who have mental health issues. What kinds of problems they cause, how to keep them from destroying the mood in kinky venues, whether or not D/s (and the structure that often comes with ...Defining Submission
Kink and Mental Health: The Background
There’s a lot of debate, in our kinky little corner of the worldwide web, about...
Serving after Abuse
Having been in the lifestyle for almost two years now, one of the things that I have...
The Wife vs The Slave
This is a guest post by Jim’s {Beth}. Alternative lifestyles make some people nervous....
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Out of the Office and Into the Home: Making the change from working to stay-at-home submissive
Last February was a difficult month for me. Like many in this failing economy I found...
Morning Rituals
From Submissive Journal Prompts Do you have a morning ritual? Morning rituals are...
How to Make Laundry Soap
One of the frugal and simple living things that you can do at home is to make your...
Read More PostsRecent Video Post
Why I Think No Limits Slavery Does Not ExistThis is a video post about no limits slavery – or rather, why I think it doesn’t exist. Last month Rayne wrote a post about how she lives in a no limits slavery relationship and how it works for her. I like that she covered a few of the common challenges to her way of life and if you haven’t read it, I recommend you run off and do so. I don’t intend for this post to bash or challenge people who are living in what they call... [Read the rest of the post]
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How to Be More Aware
In this hustle and bustle world we are losing an important connection. No, I’m...
Write a Life Mission Statement
Just like a business mission statement a life mission statement helps to define who...
My Submissive Code of Ethics
I’ve been developing a submissive code of ethics for myself to help give me long...
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Novice Q&A – July Edition
Q: I have question. I’m a Sub newbie under a Dom’s consideration for...
Submissive Chat Night: Topic – Expectations and Responsibilities of the Single Submissive
It’s time again for another chat night here at Submissive Guide. I’d welcome...
Getting to Know the Local and Not so Local Community
From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 4/10/10 One of the most feared activities of...
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Being With an Older Dominant
There is a 21 year age difference between myself and my Master . I am 30 and he is 51. When we met I hadn’t expected we would end up where we are now, which is still together, engaged and very happy! If I had thought he would be my life partner as well as a play partner then I might have not considered him as a possibility, and I would have lost... [Read more]
Why Safety is Preached to Novices and Why It’s Important to Know Anyway
From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 3/3/10 Being in the BDSM community for any length of time you are likely to come across the common sermons of SSC, Safe Calls and First Meeting Safety. When you are novice in BDSM I’d encourage you to listen to these sermons and listen hard; they could protect you as you venture out into the world to feed... [Read more]
When Worlds Collide
Okay, so our worlds didn’t really collide, they just tapped each other a little bit. This is what happened: Mr. K, my Master, and I went out to lunch a few weeks ago. One of our protocols is that I prepare his beverages. For iced tea, for instance, he likes one “blue” and one “pink.” We were seated at the restaurant and I was busily doing... [Read more]
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Book of the Month
This month I'd like to feature Protocols: Handbook for the female slave by Robert Rubel PhD. A book on protocol in a D/s Leather Household.
Please read the review of the book here on Submissive Guide.
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My name is lunaKM and I’m a full-time submissive in a D/s relationship. I am webslut to