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Lactation Play and the Adult Nursing Relationship
January 15, 2010 by lunaKM []
This is a guest post by dani. She is a new submissive in an Adult Nursing relationship.You can read about Erotic Lactation at Wikipedia or visit Land of Milk and Honey for more information.
We didn’t start 2009 with any kind of BDSM activities in our lives, so we have quite the journey over the last 12 months! For many couples an Adult Nursing Relationship is not considered kinky nor does it have any connection between lactation and BDSM. For us, lactation was a first step down a new path.
Our journey to re-lactation began as the first kinky request my husband made of me. We have been together for 13 years and while he suckled for my relief when our babies were breastfed, i hadn’t had any milk for over a year. He had been looking up on line how to induce and he asked me to do it one evening. While i didn’t think re-lactation was possible, i was excited about his enthusiasm and his request of me. We started with a pretty relaxed schedule, but he suckled 3x a day for about 20 minutes a side.
Suckling became totally intoxicating. i craved it and couldn’t wait for him to come home from work so we could sneak off and have our time together. Not surprisingly, all of the attention did wonders for my libido. My husband compared me to an old car. If you let her go too long without getting her started, she will take longer to get warmed up. Better to turn her over more often, keep her warm, she will start every time…and as it turned out i was now always warm! We went from having sex two or so times a week, to having sex two times a day. We spent so much time together, just the two of us, holding each other and that wasn’t something we had ever done before. Making time for just us was an amazing boost to our relationship, and it wasn’t easy, but it was so worth it. We found that we didn’t bicker at each other nearly as much as we used to and of course he was much more sexually satisfied. i guess i was, too.
Once milk began to come in, i loved the way my breasts felt. They were bigger (and they weren’t really small to begin with), but also firmer. They looked fine without a bra, which was not something i had ever really done before. They also felt full. i had nursed two babies and once that was over, my breasts felt like deflated balloons. So, we were both very happy with the physical changes.
Feeling sexier and being physically together so much more often, led to more, shall we say, creative sex for us. He opened up about wanting milky breasts and i was able to open up more about other, more submissive, behavior i was interested in exploring.
Now as my Master, he gives me shivers when he tells me to “milk” myself or to take good care of his breasts. i hate the term, “milking”, but when he tells me to do it, it sends me to the moon. We are still suckling regularly and while i don’t make as much milk as he would like, we both still love spending the time together a couple of times a day.
dani is a new submissive and this is her first guest post on Submissive Guide. You can reach her on FetLife at milkydani
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My name is lunaKM and I’m a full-time submissive in a D/s relationship. I am webslut to
Wonderful! Thank you! R has been doing some research into lactation. For us it would not be re-lactation. I was wondering, do you have any tips for starting out? Any websites you could share?
Thank you very much for this! :D
Dani provided some tips in her comment below mine, but I’m not sure if you saw the link at the top of the post http://www.landmilkhoney.com/index.html — Land of Milk and Honey that is all about erotic adult nursing relationships.
The only tip i have is to start with a good schedule, as often as you can realistically commit to. We started with three times a day together and once or twice a day i hand expressed and it worked for us. i did drink Mothers Milk Tea, that can be found at health food stores and my local Target carries it. I like it hot with honey, not recommended otherwise (it is kind of yucky without). There is a ton of resouces online, i like the Society of Nursing Couples list on Yahoo or http://www.hismilkmaid.com, the bloggers there are very insitefull and the original writer has a journal of her first year that i think is amazing. Good Luck!
Thank you for sharing your joys of ANR. I enjoyed an ANR with my ex-boyfriend. It was amazing. The bonding, nurturing, and closeness we felt was like no other I had experienced or have experienced since. I was not interested in lactation nor was he–it didn’t fit our lifestyle. We both craved the nursing and because we lived two hours away from each other when we would get together on the weekends or get in a week day visit here and there, nursing instantly connected us as if we had never been apart. He’s out of the country now but when he returns we still share, it seems we are forever bound.
I would also like to suggest http://www.anrspace.com for sharing, education, and interaction with many more men, women, and couples who enjoy adult nursing. I am familiar with the blog hismilkmaid.com and it is a wonderful blog.
Oops! Thank you, I missed the links!
Thanks you Dani!
Thank you dani for a very insightful post.
I fed both my children for almost a year each (eldest 10 month, youngest 11 1/2 month – he bit me).
My youngest is now three and i have only recently dryed up. Although I am not in an ANR or ever considered it, I must admit, it almost feels like the end of an era now I am dry. Having said that, holding a newborn baby, that letdown reflex still kicks in and still hurts even if there isn’t anything there!
For me, it was such a special and very close bond I had with my children at that time, if ANR creates that bond and feeling of closeness with a partner, you are very special and lucky ladies, all of you.
blessings
dina
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V. Interesting. I’m in a switch relationship- he’s usually Master, but when it is Mommy time, he’s not Master, he’s My little boy. I’ve been thinking about looking for information about this topic, because it interests me and I believe little boy might enjoy this. Thanks.