Last week I asked you to talk about the easiness of obedience to you. Here are the submissions I got. There is some excellent advice here folks! Check it out. Make sure you leave comments!
(Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.)
The conversation isn’t over. If you would like to share your advice, please do so in the comments!
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I started blogging when I was exploring D/s online in 2003. I needed advice, mentors and helping hands. Since then I’ve made it my mission to help novice submissives understand themselves and the services they wish to provide. Read more >>
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My name is lunaKM and I’m a full-time submissive in a D/s relationship. I am webslut to My Personal Blog, The Iron Gate, Submissive Journal Prompts, and help my Master KnyghtMare with Kink Network Sites.
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Obedience is something that has been on my mind alot this week. I am what I would consider in the negotiation period to become an owned slave for the first time. Because i’m what i would consider a ‘novice’ to this part of the lifestyle, obedience is something my Master has been pushing me on. I am a strong, dominate woman in many parts of my life, but have recently realized my need to be submissive. The draw is so strong within me, that i can no longer deny it. But i find this internal struggle to obey and to deliberately disobey. I realize that this is something i personally will have to learn, and after my punishment last night (the worst part the disappointment in my Masters face and voice)a light finally went on and i now get it. I get why it is important and i get that i have to fully trust to give my obediences. I like others don’t want to be forced to be obedient, i want to want to give my obedience. So I try to understand and recognize my initial rejection and then i try to grow and change. And i realize that is all i can do at this point.