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lunaKM has been a full-time slave in an M/s relationship for over 10 years. She is the founder and editor of Submissive Guide. Learn more about her here and connect with her on lunaKM.me, Twitter, Google+, FetLife.

4 responses to “The BDSM Checklist that Will Really Help You”

  1. tyli

    i’m looking for a checklist that you can fill out before entering a leather household. I’m not talking about a BDSM checklist, this is more for getting to know the sub/slave like knowing personal stuff, as in their past, credit, can they drive, medical information and stuff like that. Does any one know where i can get something like that?

    I was collared to a M/F couple and had to fill it out before they collared me, but they don’t have it anymore, so i’ve been searching and that is how i found this website, which i love by the way!

    So if you can help me out i would appreciate it.

    boi tyli

    1. lunaKM

      The best ones I’ve seen are ones that people made themselves. What’s keeping you from writing up all the important information you think is necessary? Do you really need all the questions and prompts that a premade questionnaire would have?

      Try taking a look at the training resume section on this site. It’s practically a self-written document that you would present to the head of a household instead of them giving you something to fill out. It can have all the information in it that you have asked about and would be more personal.

  2. Alicat3266

    This is a fantastic article and the whole site is brilliant for newbies like me just starting out. Thank you so much for giving me ideas about what to think about with regard to play.

  3. brattyphoenix

    this is a very good article because it helps newbies understand what they can do and what they can’t. It also helps understand how to go about finding out what your likes and dislikes are so that the fellow dom/master/domme or whatever knows what they can and cannot do for the person they are topping etc.. Thank you so much for sharing this.

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