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20 responses to “Where to Buy a Collar Online”

  1. Cinnamon

    I had someone recommend, and Master ordered my collar from there, and it wound up taking me 2 months to get my money back from the owner. The collar was never sent, and the woman refused to respond to any of my emails to question about the collar. I eventually had to make a transaction dispute and escalate that to a claim on Paypal before I received my money back. I was very dissatisfied. It also states on the home page of the site that they are coming out of a difficult time, and have several unresolved cases like this.
    .-= Cinnamon´s last blog ..I just want one good day =-.

  2. NightWolf74

    Another good site is It’s great for getting customized collars.

  3. patricialynn

    NightWolf – thanks for that site. I am in a poly relationship, and have been yearning for a public collar that would signify my relationship with BOTH Dominates. One has a shibari fetish, and one likes chains, so I was thinking a collar made of rope, twisted with a chain, would be perfectly symbolic of the two of them. But have not been able to find one – never thought of having one custom made.

    Thanks so much!


  4. hannah

    I recomend
    They have a lot of different styles of collars and a lot of fun toys.

  5. lunaKM

    Thanks for the recommendation!

  6. nafakcha

    I would also suggest working with artists who specialize in making handmade jewelry. I am a chainmaille artist and I make custom collars out of chainmaille in a variety of styles and metals. The nice thing about using something like chainmaille or another style of jewelry is that the piece can be designed to look like a nice piece of jewelry that is appropriate in casual to formal settings. It is often possible to design the piece to both be lockable and use a standard clasp for situations where the lock is not appropriate. I am still designing my website ( but I do have a gallery of photographs up. I do primarily custom work and am always willing to discuss what type of work I can do in detail. I never charge an extra fee for custom designs and after discussing your needs and desires in a piece I can give you a price quote for the item.

  7. Amber

    I would never recommend puretnt to anyone. It took me opening a dispute through PayPal to get my collar. The product I received was flimsy and not made of leather as stated in the discription. I have had to open another dispute about this and have gotten several rude emails from the owner claiming man made material is the same as leather! I advised her that if she is going to use flimsy plastic thread and call it leather she needs to put that in her description. She thinks that I need to read the definition of leather. Never go through puretnt! They are the worse site ever and have awful customer service.

  8. Mr Mystery

    I went through pure tnt and it was fine no problems (shipped to mi in like 3 days). I have noticed though that there website goes down every once in awhile, my guess is there servers are overseas ?? So maybe that’s more the problem. Any way I nv needed their customer service so i can’t say anything about that. I would just say if you like something a lot (like really a lot) buy it. At worst you can dispute the charge and get your money back :) Plus they have a very nice selection, stuff you really can’t find anywhere else, so at least check it out.

    Mr Mystery

  9. Rasputin Leather

    I would love to add my site:
    I handcraft all the leather collars and cuffs using high quality latigo and bridle leather.

  10. Rachel

    If you’re being insanely fancy with your jewellery and have money to spare… the Cartier LOVE collection bracelets are a screw motif and they actually screw on. There is one on pure tnt that looks a lot like the cartier one actually.


    I agree with all the above. Most of those BDSM shops are well know and reliable.
    I thought I could share with you my experience with is new store I found a while back.
    They called and it has been a fully satisfying purchase.
    quick and quality gear with good price.

  12. Naotic Angel

    Dont forget about Von Bondage!!! I’ve been making Bondage gear for 20 years now. With over 10 types of leather and 4 colours to choose from- – including Patent Leather, Napa Leather, Chahin Bridle Leather and Latigo, my website also offers free custom fitting for all collars!! Im also on Etsy as I hand-make every single collar for my customers. I love questions and helping people choose or create the perfect design too. 5 Star Ratings on Etsy if you want to check out reviews :)

  13. Naotic Angel

    whoops forgot to leave the website address!!

  14. Miss

    HI there,
    DiscreetSlave specializes in different kinds of discreet day collars and also tokens for the Masters.

  15. K. P.

    To Be His has some awesome collars made from sterling silver and steel, as well, and are the only shop that offers solid sterling silver working padlocks!

  16. LB

    I have a very specific, elaborate collar design that I am interested in making into reality. Do you know of any creators who do such work? Thank you so much! Great article, very helpful.

  17. Sylvia Ryan

    There is an amazing collar website — for both custom made and premade collars. It’s where I got mine. Check it out. You won’t be disappointed.

  18. Luka

    Hi! If you are interested in slave collars or other fancy BDSN accessories, visit for great reviews and deals!

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