Chat night transcript from the Pervertables Chat with froggyKM on  7/16/13

froggyKM: ok lets get things started! Hello and welcome to another chat night here on Submissive Guide. Please feel free to talk about the subject whenever a thought comes to mind, this is not a moderated talk and you do not have to ask permission to speak or ask a question. Please be courteous to others and do not private message them without permission in public chat first. Dominants are welcome in the chat but are reminded that this is not a pick up chat room. Name tip: to easily type someone’s name, start with a few letters and then press the TAB key. It will auto fill it out for you. hi Morgan Morgan: Hey froggyKM :) froggyKM: Let’s start with introductions. Share whatever you feel comfortable sharing; age, experience level, the labels you apply to your submission (sub, slave, pet, etc.) and a general location you are talking to us from. azra-sevda: I'll go first.... if thats okay froggyKM: no need to wait turns, just jump right in everyone! vita68M: vita, 44 new to this and loving it :) I am sub to my Sir and from MD ~lunaKM: Hi folks I'm lunaKM. I'm a 30 something slave from Iowa. I've been collared to KM for 9 years and married for 2. azra-sevda: azra, 53, been around for a while....lol...I am slave to my Master and we are in Illinois froggyKM: Hi I'm froggyKM your lovely host for the evening! I am owned and collared by KnyghtMare, as his bitch and submissive, and in a poly group with lunaKM. I'm 33 and live in Iowa. I've been involved in the lifestyle almost 8 years now, and still learning everyday! azra-sevda: collared for almost 3 years Morgan: I'm Morgan. Been in lifestyle for about 4 years. I'm the lead contributor for the Dominant Guide. and just recently taking someone under consideration! wooot! ~lunaKM: woot! Morgan: :D azra-sevda: yay Morgan: Very exciting. thanks. froggyKM: Welcome everyone! I'm glad you chose to come tonight! \ wtg Morgan! vita68M: :) Morgan: :) TY. We shall see. But very good so far. froggyKM: onight's topic is Pervertables! It's a fun subject and one of my personal favorites to talk about. Best of all, it's a great way to keep money in the bank and keep a low budget on toys! What are Pervertables? Pervertables in my definition are any common household item turned kinky! So what is your definition of Pervertables? or what would you add to my defini hehe i cut off the T Morgan: lol I like your definition vita68M: it covers it lol ~lunaKM: anything that isn't a kink item that is turned kinky froggyKM: lol yes ~lunaKM: doesnt' have to be a household item vita68M: true... froggyKM: Tonight I will not be asking a lot of questions of you, but wanting to hear what your thoughts and ideas are that you can add to the list that I have. Morgan: I was a pervertable at one point. Now I'm just a pervert. froggyKM: LOL, love it Morgan vita68M: lol Morgan: ;) froggyKM: Disclaimer: I'm hosting this chat tonight as an opportunity to share personal experiences and anecdotes. YOU are responsible for doing your own research before following any advice given here... or anywhere else on the web, for that matter. My best advice to you is to use common sense! azra-sevda: ouch...got kicked out vita68M: good advice, thank you Morgan: welcome back azra-sevda azra-sevda: thank you Morgan froggyKM: IN THE KITCHEN There are so many pervertables in the kitchen that I have divided the items into sections of BDSM and fetish interest. welcome back azra-sevda azra-sevda: thanks froggyKM Morgan: nice. :) Kitchen is a GOLD MINE! froggyKM: CLAMPING Chop Sticks, place a nipple between the middle of two chopsticks. Wrap an elastic band around either end to keep them in place. You can move the elastic bands to increase or decrease the pressure. Can also be improvised as a percussion toy. Refrigerator magnet clips. Don't forget about the chip clips. anything else in the kitchen for clamping? vita68M: clothespins Morgan: Tongs froggyKM: hehehe, i don't keep clothespins in the kitchen, but yes they are good one Morgan Morgan: Ooo...chip clips. Didn't think of that. froggyKM: i've never had the chopstick method used on me, has anyone else? azra-sevda: nope...have seen it done.....but never experienced it ~lunaKM: I have KM used skewers instead of chopsticks froggyKM: lunaKM: do you feel its different than any other clamp? ~lunaKM: yes and no. you can twist them better since there's so much more to twist but I'm not a fan of nipple play so.... i hate clips altogether vita68M: I love them froggyKM: nods, good to know, and you know he's gonna keep track of all this and know what i have and have not done... LOL ~lunaKM: of course pandahearts: Oh my gosh, I totally forgot about the chat. lol Morgan: hi pandahearts! froggyKM: welcome back pandahearts vita68M: wb azra-sevda: wb pandahearts pandahearts: lol thank you froggyKM: BONDAGE Clingfilm, wrapping your sub up in cling film can be fun. Saran wrap is also a good choice. Good for sensory deprivation and bondage. Body parts can be left free of the film for play. String is good for miniature bondage on hands, tying back toes or tying down balls. Morgan: twisty is good So, does kitchen wrap work just as well as the stuff you pay a lot for? froggyKM: Duct Tape can be used as a makeshift gag. More pain is in store when it needs to be removed especially if you have facial hair! Or you can opt to use knee high nylons to make it less painful. Dixie cups filled with cold water and place on your subs body. Then do something else that will make them want to move. ~lunaKM: yes, in fact the cheaper plastic wrap works best Morgan: cool. thnkx froggyKM: i think it's a bit more flimsy which turns out better If or when they do they will get a cold splash and you can threaten other punishment for spilling the water. pandahearts: Twisty ties! ~lunaKM: or freezing the keys then it thaws they can get out froggyKM: Twisty ties!!!!!! Morgan: twist ties! What have you guys done with twist ties? vita68M: I like the Dixie cup idea.... Morgan: oh, that's delightfully evil lunaKM ~lunaKM: yup, the amount of water controls how long they are bound froggyKM: yes works good for bondage! azra-sevda: predicament bondage....! ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: cling wrap is good for the breath play :) froggyKM: I've never done that Master! vita68M: or twisty ties as nipple clamps as well Morgan: Ah I see. ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: yeah ... right ~lunaKM: tie to fingers together on opposing hands froggyKM: lol ~lunaKM: or toes froggyKM: ewww toes Morgan: At a party, a friend had duct taped his subs mouth and poked a hole in the middle, so she couldn't talk, but she could drink out of a straw. it was adorable. pandahearts: hmm what good who a whisk do? froggyKM: LOL, that's my question!!!!! ~lunaKM: if it's the flat variety a good spanking tool froggyKM: great insertable pandahearts azra-sevda: those can be interesting in conjunction with a violet wand ~lunaKM: I bet you could get tickled with the round one pandahearts: lol azra-sevda: ewww tickled froggyKM: SPANKING Wooden spoon or spatula for spanking that gives a similar sensation to a paddle. Experiment with different sizes and materials for different sensations. Silicon pan holder is a round silicon mat designed to prevent pans burning the work surface. Makes a great flexible paddle for spanking. Leaves a big red mark. Morgan: small cutting boards too ~lunaKM: cutting boards, frying pans, rolling pins Morgan: rolling pins! hmmmm.... azra-sevda: i once found a "paddle cutting board" had to buy it froggyKM: Electric fly swatters for spanking with a bit of an electric zap, an electric flyswatter produces an unusual sensation. Small cutting boards with handles make nice paddles. Rice spoon makes for an interesting sensation. Rolling pins, make sure to only hit fleshy parts of the body as these hold a lot of mass to them. The pizza paddles work great from the kitchen stores! azra-sevda: Master smacked me with a cookie sheet the other night froggyKM: love it azra-sevda Morgan: :) azra-sevda: :) froggyKM: Can you think of anything else in the kitchen for spanking? pandahearts: Oh oh, a grill cleaning spatula! froggyKM: awesome pandahearts pandahearts: Cleaned and sterile of course Would leave some lovely little red dots. azra-sevda: a regular metal serving spoon froggyKM: oh that's great too if you wet it and freeze it before hand azra-sevda Morgan: Excellent idea! dude. You guys are mean. ;) azra-sevda: *shaking my head...yep Morgan: lol froggyKM: I'm just an innocent submissive.... giggles Morgan: Riiiiiight.... ;) pandahearts: uh huh vita68M: lol froggyKM: LOL OK so lets move onto TORTURE items in the KITCHEN! pandahearts: blenders vita68M: lol froggyKM: roflmao pandahearts: lol Morgan: !!!!! hahahaa hardcore vita68M: defo Morgan: metal scrubbies azra-sevda: lollol froggyKM: Wasabi powder available from the World Foods section in the supermarket. Wasabi powder is mixed with water to make a bright green Japanese horseradish paste often served with sushi. When applied undiluted to mucus membranes it gives a burning, stinging sensation. pandahearts: It was the first thing that came to mind Morgan: :D wasabi?!?!?! froggyKM: that's a good idea Morgan ~lunaKM: ginger azra-sevda: ginger Morgan: okay. Is that safe? lol froggyKM: yep geinger ginger* ~lunaKM: as safe as chemical play is Morgan: I guess I don't know much about that. ginger, yes. froggyKM: Blunted Cheese grater (or not) for grating or threatening to grate skin. Bottle of Coke (other carbonated beverages available) for a very painful time and quite probably a nosebleed shake the bottle and stick it near your sub’s nose. This technique is used in genuine torture, be careful. Morgan: I saw someone play with a cake cutter the other night. ~lunaKM: rice for kneeling on plastic knives for mind fuck cutting froggyKM: Ginger, carve a peeled piece of fresh ginger into a dildo shape to partake in the Victorian favorite disciplinary activity of figging. pandahearts: huh? ~lunaKM: paper sacks for humiliation and "glory hole" ideas froggyKM: nods Morgan: nice pandahearts: Umm...should I ask what figging is? ~lunaKM: figging is placing ginger in your ass froggyKM described it above the older the ginger the stronger it is pandahearts: What does it do? Morgan: you make a lil ole butt plug with it. ~lunaKM: burns froggyKM: Chili peppers often used in CBT and cunt torture to provide a long lasting burning and stinging sensation on the mucus membranes. Skewers for poking and prodding. Heat them up to create a painful and long lasting (possibly permenant) brand on the skin. Can be used for a dramatic visual effect through an existing healed piercing. Ginger is quite similar to chili peppers, put is better suited for carving and placing it in the ass ~lunaKM: ginger stops burnign as soon as it's removed peppers do not froggyKM: Butter knife when made cold feels like you're being cut open. i have actually been fisted after someone cut jalopenos owie burny Morgan: woooooow. azra-sevda: woa.....eouch froggyKM: i poured a gallon of milk in my pussy after that.... wow! Morgan: an aside, is there going to be a transcript of this chat? ~lunaKM: sure? if everyone is okay with that froggyKM: l'm fine with it pandahearts: Yeah azra-sevda: absolutely vita68M: yes froggyKM: would be great to reference it later! ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: maybe froggyKM: what do you mean maybe Master? Morgan: okay. I'll keep copying and pasting. :) ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: :P froggyKM: LOL Morgan Morgan: or not... hahaa vita68M: lol azra-sevda: where will we be able to find it? ~lunaKM: on the website froggyKM: and that brings us to DISCIPLINE azra-sevda: ok thank you lunaKM froggyKM: Rice when spread it on a tray and then make your sub kneel on it for a very painful time. The longer they are there, the more it hurts. Elastic Bands to discipline your sub in public ask them to wear an elastic band and then ‘twang’ it whenever you feel it is necessary. lunaKM: had already mentioned the rice knealing before Morgan: Oh! I like the rubber band idea in public. what about frozen peas? Similar to rice, but ...bigger and not as owie? vita68M: that was under torture not discipline lol froggyKM: maybe, depends on the person ~lunaKM: beans they don't mush as they thaw ;) dried beans aren't as ouchie either Morgan: ah, good point. :) though I could make 'em clean it up. ;) azra-sevda: :) Morgan: with their tongue. Peas! It's what's for dinner lol vita68M: coffee beans ~lunaKM: barf I hate peas Morgan: lol froggyKM: LOL i love peas, i'd be all over that! but no Master please don't...LOL azra-sevda: me too! filthyprincess: Hi all :) vita68M: at least it smells good lol Morgan: hi filthyprincess! froggyKM: hi filthyprincess azra-sevda: hi filthyprincess vita68M: hi filthyprincess froggyKM: OK we've been mean for a bit now, lets change it up to sensation play filthyprincess: So it's my first time in this chatroom, or exploring something like this...a little intimidating. Hope I'm not interrupting the current convo! Morgan: not at all :) vita68M: welcome, I'm new too :) froggyKM: we are discussing Pervertables jump right on in! Morgan: sensation! bah. Let's get to the bloody stuff. ;) filthyprincess: Pervatables? Morgan: I'm kidding. Sensation is...awesome. ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: pfft! MORE PAIN froggyKM: Ice cubes for sensation play. Run it over each other or stuff it in orifices. If you have someone bound, blindfolded and in the right state of mind ice can be used to give a very similar sensation to being burned. Pen or Black Magic Marker allows you to write choice phrases on each other. If used for writing on the feet, this can be very tickly. Paint brush can be used to gently run over the body. Can be used to tease the clit or cock if dampened. Scouring pad can be used lightly on the skin for a tickling sensation or more firmly for a rough, prickly sensation. vita68M: warm caramel Morgan: lol knyghtmare! Right? :) froggyKM: Candles for dripping hot wax onto each others bodies. Make sure you check the burning temperature to avoid burns on the skin. The saints candle you find in the grocery store seem to be a favorite and low heat burn. filthyprincess: Ouch :o Morgan: oh! I just remembered those rubber spatulas for pussy spanking. That's a sensation, right? ;) azra-sevda: indeed Morgan: lol froggyKM: What about foods for sensation play! other than that we've already mentioned? vita68M: the best kind Morgan: Mashed potatoes. froggyKM: Eating strawberries and cream off each other is always a laugh. Use yogurt with your male partner’s cock as a spoon for your favorite yogurt. Morgan: cucumbers? froggyKM: yep yep yep Morgan you got the idea! ~lunaKM: only english cucumbers vita68M: bananas ~lunaKM: the garden ones have spines Morgan: yeaaaah... knobby. froggyKM: nods lunaKM ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: I always thought summer sausage was just firm enough... froggyKM: LOL Morgan: ah, right. Would you always use condoms on food that's inserted? froggyKM: only you knyghtmare Morgan: i think yes, but some people say eh. I've seen sausage inserted! froggyKM: OH OH OH OH Here's a good one! vita68M: I think yes too morgan azra-sevda: yes for me Morgan: but meat... I mean. the innards have a sensitive ph balance n stuff... froggyKM: Spaghetti and a paper plate: cut a hole in the paper plate and pull your male partner’s cock and balls through it. Cook some spaghetti and then cool it by draining it and running it under plenty of cold water. Put the spaghetti on the paper plate and eat it with no cutlery Morgan: LOL! That's aaaawesome! gods, I'm hungry... froggyKM: lol azra-sevda: love the spaghetti idea vita68M: lol Morgan: For my birthday a couple years ago, someone offered to be my sushi platter. azra-sevda: sweet Morgan: nyatimori? I think it's called ~lunaKM: I was a human sundae for my birthday a few years ago froggyKM: Raw carrot can be used as a dildo, make sure you hang onto the end or get your partner to grip it with their teeth while you ride it. Morgan: nice! human sundae... hunnnngry. *ggrrroooowwwwl* pandahearts: Just make sure to peel it well lol froggyKM: PEANUT BUTTER AND CHOCOLATE! Morgan: lol azra-sevda: LOL froggyKM: what about bacon! ~lunaKM: eat it froggyKM: LOL lunaKM eggs! vita68M: lol lunaKM azra-sevda: butter Morgan: O_O eggzez? oooo...butter. yeah. froggyKM: LOL Morgan: what would you do with eggs froggyKM ? froggyKM: place them between knees and "DON Don Don't let it fall! or you get spanked pandahearts: eggs on the breasts and bacon on the vagina, breakfast in bed. froggyKM: lol Morgan: ooooooh... yeah. vita68M: hard boiled as ben wahl balls? Morgan: I love people as platter for anything. just be careful of temperature. or not. pandahearts: Hmm, good idea Morgan: nice vita68M ! froggyKM: i'd be care of ben wahl balls as eggs, something just says yeast infection to me, just sayin azra-sevda: just as i was thinking froggyKM ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: and they are horrible on toast vita68M: true froggyKM: What about the IN THE BATHROOM, no not the eggs but pervertables vita68M: but getsvthe mind a roaming.... ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: toilet brush (a clean one :P) *cough* Morgan: hairbrushes, fo sho. azra-sevda: toothpaste froggyKM: no way Master vita68M: toothbrush ~lunaKM: loofa Morgan: yes! KnyghtMare- I just heard of that yesterday. azra-sevda: oooo..listerine froggyKM: Electric Toothbrush: The handle can be used as a vibrator. The brush end can be used for sensation play either on the skin or on the genitals for rougher play. Morgan: i've already bought the bottle brush and toilet scrubber for use on me... LOL vita68M: combs Morgan: :) That impresses me. lol ~lunaKM: razors vita68M: hair dryer ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: the fucking shower itself :P ~lunaKM: hell i used curling irons for years as a teen froggyKM: Mint Shower gel: When put on the genitals it gives a tingling sensation that can be quite long lasting. Hairbrush and Baby oil: You can use the flat side of the hairbrush for spanking. The bristles can be used for sensation play that feels especially intense when combined with baby oil applied to the skin. Morgan: bobby pins, barrettes froggyKM: For example, cover the feet in baby oil and then rub the soles vigorously with the hairbrush for complete sensory overload ooooo bobby pins! ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: froggyKM has had a couple of good times in my shower Morgan: :) froggyKM: LOL Master vita68M: hair clips froggyKM: Great for catching leftover goldenshowers Shaving foam: Can be used in fire play. It’s also handy for shaving faces and genital areas for new and interesting sensations during oral sex. Deep Heat and Tiger Balm: Creates an intense burning sensation on mucus membranes for CBT and cunt torture. azra-sevda: icy hot for the same froggyKM: Bath scrubby as part of a gag. Dental floss delicately placed makes for interesting scenarios. Miniature hair clips can be placed all over the body, but I especially like seeing them on the scrotum. I've been threatened with the Icy Hot several times ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: :) vita68M: I like them on the nipples froggyKM: What about in the CLOSET? ~lunaKM: I dont' like them in the closet :P Morgan: lol vita68M: coat hangers froggyKM: Clothespins, for nipples, genitals, and other loose body parts. Broom handles, can be used as a spreader bar with added eye hooks to each end. Rug beater can be used for a harsh spanking. Ceiling fan pull chain: run taught against the skin (clit) is always fun, but can be used like a whip or a tickler. Need a good laugh, beat someone with a rubber chicken... LOL! vita68M: closets are fun places :) Morgan: :D froggyKM: the closet can be the cage! Morgan: hangars... excellent. azra-sevda: well folks it is my time.... Morgan: you going azra-sevda ? azra-sevda: yes i am afraid i must froggyKM: oh azra-sevda wish you could stick around :( azra-sevda: me too....maybe next time....thanks for all the ideas Morgan: have a great night! azra-sevda: take care all..... vita68M: bye azra-sevda Morgan: I know! I'm totally inspired. azra-sevda: *waves to all vita68M: me too :) froggyKM: goodnight azra-sevda But what about the rubber chicken? Morgan: lol i love that idea actually froggyKM: who would love to be beaten by the rubber chicken... LOL Morgan: I'm often threatening people online with rubber chicken beatings. vita68M: lol Morgan: well, not often, but some people...you know... >.< froggyKM: lol Morgan: I used to use nylons and knee highs for bondage before I knew about options. vita68M: can I ask a question off topic? froggyKM: Hat full of slips of paper with suggestions:Write down some sexual activities that you and your partner(s) enjoy, each on a separate slip of paper. Put the papers into a hat or other vessel and then ask your partner to choose one. Do what it says on the paper. Shoe Horn: For spanking can be used as a painful and hard hitting paddle. Morgan: you can vita68M oh. I think. i should let the bosses answer :) froggyKM: go ahead ~lunaKM: lol, Morgan you can answer :P Morgan: :) froggyKM: Morgan you are more of a boss than I am Morgan: I think this is my first TOPIC chat well, lol! I know my arenas. ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: oh an arena sounds fun Morgan: Doesn't it? I'm hungry... lol froggyKM: Morgan will you please stop giving Master ideas... LOL Morgan: where'd vita68M go? :) ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: call up the consideration person and have them bring you food Morgan ;) Morgan: I will try. as if that could happen. vita68M: is there a place online that I could blog a slave journal that my master could place his input as well? I'm here lol Morgan: lol! I thought of that. She's 2 hours away. Was hoping she could get here. there you are! oh, good question. I want to hear this answer too. we've been discussing this. ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: we kinda run a blog host :P ~lunaKM: kinky-blogging.com subguide and domguide run on it Morgan: oh... doy... so... we can create a private journal here? ~lunaKM: yes Morgan: I did not know that. cool vita68M: so we can blog there as well? ~lunaKM: yes kinky-blogging.com vita68M: excellent! ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: you can use the privacy settings to lock out anybody you don't want vita68M: that is totally what we wanted Morgan: awesome. I'll check it out. vita68M: thank you! froggyKM: i know most have gone for the evening, but filthyprincess: . froggyKM: Thank you to Everyone for coming tonight and bringing some very creative thoughts and ideas. Thank you for sharing your experiences, and I hope everyone leaves tonight with inspiration! vita68M: I have! froggyKM: The possibilities are endless! The only thing that holds you back is your own mind. Play responsibly! Know your stuff! Have tons of fun! Morgan: This is a great topic froggyKM. Thank you~ vita68M: yes it is froggyKM: We might have to do it again in about 6 months Morgan: :) froggyKM: Thank you Everyone! Your guys are great! Morgan: you are! vita68M: :) froggyKM: awww thanks Morgan: is there a chat next tuesday here? ~lunaKM: yes vita68M: this is great :) froggyKM: Yes there is ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: hooray, windows 8 is forcing me to restart Morgan: sweet! Any topic? froggyKM: free chat! ~lunaKM: nope. free chat ~KnyghtMare|Laptop: I literally do not get a choice :/ Morgan: chaos!!!! yay! hahahaa knyghtmare froggyKM: LOL vita68M: same time? froggyKM: yes 8pm CST vita68M: lol morgan Morgan: I will try to make it. Dom Guide chat the last thursday of the month. Everyone welcome. froggyKM: I'll try to remember Morgan! Morgan: I know how it is. It would be great to have you if you can make it. <3 vita68M: nice chatting with you all Morgan: you too vita68M! g'night froggyKM: it was very nice meeting you vita68M Morgan: kay. Guess I'm off then. vita68M: I'll see you again nextweek :) ~lunaKM: night ngiht Morgan: g'night everyone. vita68M: you too :) bye all froggyKM: i have bedtime arriving very soon also, everyone else is free to stay and chat amongst yourselves, the chat room is always here and is available! Goodnight All!

FroggyKM didn't get to everything on the Pervertables list, so she provided the document to me. I'm sharing the list in its entirety here.

IN THE KITCHEN

There are so many pervertables in the kitchen that I have divided the items into sections of BDSM and fetish interest.

CLAMPING

  • Chop Sticks, p

    lace a nipple between the middle of two chopsticks. Wrap an elastic band around either end to keep them in place. You can move the elastic bands to increase or decrease the pressure. Can also be improvised as a percussion toy. Refrigerator magnet clips. Don't forget about the chip clips. 

BONDAGE

  • Clingfilm, w

    rapping your sub up in cling film can be fun. Saran wrap is also a good choice. Good for sensory deprivation and bondage. Body parts can be left free of the film for play.

  • String is good for miniature bondage on hands, tying back toes or tying down balls.
  • Duct Tape c

    an be used as a makeshift gag. More pain is in store when it needs to be removed especially if you have facial hair! Or you can opt to use knee high nylons to make it less painful.

  • Dixie cups filled with cold water and place on your subs body. Then do something else that will make them want to move. If or when they do they will get a cold splash and you can threaten other punishment for spilling the water.

SPANKING

  • Wooden spoon or spatula for spanking that gives a similar sensation to a paddle. Experiment with different sizes and materials for different sensations.

  • Silicon pan holder is a

    round silicon mat designed to prevent pans burning the work surface. Makes a great flexible paddle for spanking. Leaves a big red mark.

  • Electric fly swatters f

    or spanking with a bit of an electric zap, an electric flyswatter produces an unusual sensation.

  • Small cutting boards with handles make nice paddles.

  • Rice spoon makes for an interesting sensation.

  • Rolling pins, make sure to only hit fleshy parts of the body as these hold a lot of mass to them.

TORTURE

  • Wasabi powder

    available from the World Foods section in the supermarket. Wasabi powder is mixed with water to make a bright green Japanese horseradish paste often served with sushi. When applied undiluted to mucus membranes it gives a burning, stinging sensation.

  • Blunted Cheese grater (or not) f

    or grating or threatening to grate skin.

  • Bottle of Coke (other carbonated beverages available) f

    or a very painful time and quite probably a nosebleed shake the bottle and stick it near your sub’s nose. This technique is used in genuine torture, be careful.

  • Chili peppers o

    ften used in CBT and cunt torture to provide a long lasting burning and stinging sensation on the mucus membranes.

  • Skewers f

    or poking and prodding. Heat them up to create a painful and long lasting (possibly permenant) brand on the skin. Can be used for a dramatic visual effect through an existing healed piercing.

  • Butter knife when made cold feels like you're being cut open.

DISCIPLINE

  • Rice when s

    pread it on a tray and then make your sub kneel on it for a very painful time. The longer they are there, the more it hurts.

  • Elastic Bands t

    o discipline your sub in public ask them to wear an elastic band and then ‘twang’ it whenever you feel it is necessary.

SENSATION PLAY

  • Ice cubes for

    sensation play. Run it over each other or stuff it in orifices. If you have someone bound, blindfolded and in the right state of mind ice can be used to give a very similar sensation to being burned.

  • Pen or Black Magic Marker allows you to w

    rite choice phrases on each other. If used for writing on the feet, this can be very tickly.

  • Paint brush can be u

    sed to gently run over the body. Can be used to tease the clit or cock if dampened.

  • Scouring pad can be used

    lightly on the skin for a tickling sensation or more firmly for a rough, prickly sensation.

  • Candles f

    or dripping hot wax onto each others bodies. Make sure you check the burning temperature to avoid burns on the skin. The saints candle you find in the grocery store seem to be a favorite and low heat burn.

FOOD PLAY

  • Eating strawberries and cream off each other is always a laugh.
  • Use yogurt with your male partner’s cock as a spoon for your favorite yogurt.
  • Spaghetti and a paper plate:

    c

    ut a hole in the paper plate and pull your male partner’s cock and balls through it. Cook some spaghetti and then cool it by draining it and running it under plenty of cold water. Put the spaghetti on the paper plate and eat it with no cutlery.

DILDO

  • Ginger, carve a peeled piece of fresh ginger into a dildo shape to partake in the Victorian favorite disciplinary activity of figging.
  • Raw carrot can be used as a dildo, make sure you hang onto the end or get your partner to grip it with their teeth while you ride it.
  • Food is almost endless, let your imagination run wild: carrots, bananas, eggplant, eggs, cucumbers, and even bacon! What have you used from the pantry?
  • Can you think of how you could use a whisk during play?

IN THE BATHROOM

  • Electric Toothbrush:

    The handle can be used as a vibrator. The brush end can be used for sensation play either on the skin or on the genitals for rougher play.

  • Mint Shower gel:

    When put on the genitals it gives a tingling sensation that can be quite long lasting.

  • Hairbrush and Baby oil:

    You can use the flat side of the hairbrush for spanking. The bristles can be used for sensation play that feels especially intense when combined with baby oil applied to the skin. For example, cover the feet in baby oil and then rub the soles vigorously with the hairbrush for complete sensory overload.

  • Shaving foam:

    Can be used in fire play. It’s also handy for shaving faces and genital areas for new and interesting sensations during oral sex.

  • Deep Heat and Tiger Balm:

    Creates an intense burning sensation on mucus membranes for CBT and cunt torture.

  • Bath scrubby as part of a gag.
  • Dental floss delicately placed makes for interesting scenarios.
  • Miniature hair clips can be placed all over the body, but I especially like seeing them on the scrotum.

IN THE CLOSET

  • Clothespins, for nipples, genitals, and other loose body parts.
  • Broom handles, can be used as a spreader bar with added eye hooks to each end.
  • Rug beater can be used for a harsh spanking.

  • Ceiling fan pull chain: run taught against the skin (clit) is always fun, but can be used like a whip or a tickler.

  • Need a good laugh, beat someone with a rubber chicken... LOL!

IN THE BEDROOM

  • Clippy Coat hangers:

    One of those coat hangers that you get for hanging up trousers with the clips on them. Use the clips as clamps to attach to nipples and use the hook for bondage if desired.

  • Hat full of slips of paper with suggestions:

    Write down some sexual activities that you and your partner(s) enjoy, each on a separate slip of paper. Put the papers into a hat or other vessel and then ask your partner to choose one. Do what it says on the paper.

  • Shoe Horn:

    For spanking can be used as a painful and hard hitting paddle.

  • Belts:For strapping your partner. Try different widths of belt for different sensations. Or use a belt for fast bondage.
  • Too tight clothes:

    Keep your too tight clothes to use as role play costumes in the bedroom.

  • Hair Dryer:

    When blown gently onto sensitive parts a hairdrier can produce a warming and erotic sensation.

  • Feather:

    Run over the body for sensation play.

  • Vac Bags:

    Usually used to store clothes eg. Winter coats over Summer. A small sub can get inside the bag and then the air can be sucked out with a vacuum cleaner for breath play and bondage.

  • Cotton Cloth:

    Cut to the right size a piece of cloth can make an attractive blindfold or gag. It can be drenched with water and used for strapping.

  • Goggles:

    Paint the inside of a cheap pair goggles black to make a ‘mindfold’ for complete visual deprivation.

IN THE TOOLSHED/GARAGE

  • Rope:

    Paracord or cotton rope works well for bondage which includes lots of knots such as Chinese inspired, fusion or Western style bondage. There are many excellent books to help you learn this style of bondage. ‘The Two Knotty Boys: Showing you the ropes’ is a favorite. You can also bundle rope together to create a flogger. Jute cord is inexpensive and has a scratchy sensation.

  • Chain and padlocks:

    Use it for cold, harsh bondage. Dog chains or choker chains from pet shops are often suitable for this.

  • Cable ties:

    Can be used as cheap but impossible to escape from handcuffs.

  • Sand paper for rubbing, but not to much.
  • Airflow golf ball and some ribbon/string and duffel bag fastener:

    Create your own home made ball gag! Apparently effective and easy to apply and to remove.

  • Pet grooming mitts:

    Can be used for sensation play in a similar way to 'Vampire Gloves'.

  • To name few more things, dog cages, collars, crops, horse whips, choker chain, muzzles, and quick release snaps.