Finding Domesticity In You

Chores just happen to be the reality of a submissive sometimes

How to Create a Morning Ritual to Streamline Your Routine

Morning rituals are fantastic ways of setting routine and developing a focusing meditation bright and early in the day. I've had morning rituals off an on throughout my service and they are quite enjoyable. I've not maintained one since I became a stay at home submissive and certainly this would be a good time to recreate one, I think.

Some Thoughts on Domestic Service from a Male Submissive

When luna indicated that she was going to emphasize domestic service at the Sub Guide this month, it reminded me that when I tell people I am primarily a service submissive I am frequently asked: “What is that?”. The follow-up question is often, “What do you get out of that?” It seemed an opportune time to tackle these questions. (Sometimes the follow-up question is “What are you secondarily, then?” To which I always reply, “Whatever She needs me to be, of course.”)

So what is a service submissive? Simply put, it’s a sub (male or female) that takes care of household chores and similar tasks. Cooking, cleaning and other domestic duties might be performed by a service submissive. We essentially take the role of butler, maid, chauffeur, gardener or cook.

Tips for Taking Care of Your BDSM and Sex Toys

If you follow some simple guidelines you will be able to keep your BDSM and sex toys safe and extend their life expectancy.

31 Days To Better Domestic Service

I'd like to be a part of giving submissives a boost (or a kick in the butt) and hopefully, in the process give them motivation (and practical know how) to get their home and life more in order and reaching their service potential.

31 Days To Better Domestic Service: FLYing with FlyLady.net

Flylady can help you learn how to make cleaning a fun routine! Get dressed to your shoes and shine your sink, just to get started on the way.

Everything You Need to Know to Have an Amazing Anal Sex Experience

Have no fear, anal play doesn't have to be scary! Let's answer some common questions about anal sex before you dive in... hehe.

Bullet Journal: BDSM Scene Reflection Spreads

Using your bullet journal to create scene reflection spreads is a great way to cement memories and your own feelings of the play you engage in. Here are two spread designs that you could use.

31 Days to Better Domestic Service: Create Daily, Weekly, Monthly and Seasonal Cleaning Lists

[Free Printables!!] Seasonal, weekly and monthly cleaning list for your home.

31 Days To Better Domestic Service: What is a Grocery Price Book and How Can It Help Me?

Fix your shopping game with a grocery price book and always pay the cheapest price. This is a great tool for your budget-saving arsenal.