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Is sexual availability, being available to your partner any time he or she wants, part of your submission? Why or why not? Are there limits to this?

Sexual submission is a huge part of my relationship with KnyghtMare. If sexual compatibility wasn’t there I don’t think we’d be together. He has a very healthy appetite for sex, and while I can wear out before he does, the intensity hasn’t lessened.

The ultimate goal is to be available at all times whenever he wants it but that’s just not always possible. Stress, obligations and my menstrual cycle get in the way. But that’s not the only thing that can make sexy times not happen. I have to be in the mood. He feeds off of my energy so unless he demands that I just be his fuck meat (aka sex doll/masturbatory aid) then I have to be as active and into it as he is.

I’m also to be spontaneous and show my desire for him too, it’s not just a one-way street. He wants me to express when I’m horny and desire attention. It makes him feel sexy too - so I don’t just wait for him to give me an indication that he’s interested.

Sometimes I just can’t connect to it and make it happen. But I do try because who wants to turn down sex? Not me.

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