When you start doing your own self-work, or self-coaching, you may be surprised how your priorities reorganize themselves when you start focusing on your needs instead of your wants. Your needs are healthy and have a right to be met.
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It is so meaningful—so personal. It is intimate in a way we don’t ordinarily associate with intimacy. Platonic service can be boldly intimate, in a beautiful and profound way.
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For those in-charge, controlling, decision-making people who recognize that they’re submissive, it’s not that you can or will (or should) submit to just anyone. We submit to the person who earns our trust and confidence. Being in control of one thing does not mean we can’t surrender to someone in our relationships.
Read The Article | Find SimilarEvery day throughout the month of November 2013 there was a new post from me answering the questions posed in the 30 Days of Submission meme that I’d seen going around. You gain a glimpse into who I am as a submissive and my relationship with KnyghtMare.
Read The Series | Find SimilarNot long after my first step into the real world of BDSM I learned of a phrase that to this day has no real definition that I can pin to it. That phrase is “speaking submissively.” To me, there is no way to speak submissively that isn’t also speaking respectfully and with deference. Many other people speak the same way in situations that call for it, like in front of a judge or to the president for instance.But I still get questions about how a submissive is supposed to say x, y and z so I thought that I’d do my best to convey what I think would work in a variety of circumstances so that if the occasion arises that you need to “speak submissively” you’ll have something you can say.
Read The Series | Find SimilarI’ve read a lot about what it’s like to be a submissive without a Dominant. I never really thought I’d find myself here, but here I am.
Read The Article | Find SimilarGiven that submissives and slaves have their feet to the fire when it comes to following through, it’s important to carefully consider potential resolutions and goals.
Read The Article | Find SimilarLetting go is not an easy thing to do. Offering forgiveness is even harder.
Read The Article | Find SimilarYou can most certainly be independent and submissive. Just be sure that you’re honest about what you want in your submission.
Read The Article | Find SimilarSetting goals is a great way to improve your lifestyle, whether you’re a single submissive or in a relationship.
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