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How do you know you are submissive or have the potential to be submissive? How do you feel when you express your submission?

I covered a bit in day one that I discovered submission through Yahoo conversations with Dominants and really took to that like a moth to a flame. But it took me over a year to really get into a level of submission that worked for me. I’m not naturally submissive, it was a choice I made to help me feel more in control of my life. I know that sounds odd, but it’s really true. I’ve never felt so active in my life before submission became my way of living.

I was relatively dominant in my previous marriage only because that is what I had to do to make things happen. I was miserable. Thankfully I found BDSM and submission. Unfortunately, my ex-husband didn’t want to come on the journey with me (along with other issues). We parted amicably.

The potential to be submissive is in everyone. How it manifests depends on a lot of things in your life and personality. For some it is present naturally, others have to work to bring it to the surface. Still, others only turn it on and off when it’s socially acceptable, like at work or when dealing with law enforcement. Not everyone can be a submissive in a relationship long-term, others with different conditions applied and still more only at specified times like playtime, on weekends or only in the bedroom.

When I’m focused on submission and my service I feel energetic peace. It’s hard to describe but it’s like a tingle buzzy feeling inside and a smile behind my eyes that bubbles just under the surface. Even when I’m not focused and it’s just in my every day I feel comfortable and content. KnyghtMare takes good care of me and I feel safe and secure.

You can participate in the 30 Days of Submission too! Check out this post and make sure you leave your responses in the Subguide Club under the correct day!

How do you know you are submissive or have the potential to be submissive?