March is Question Month

As so many bloggers are known to do, I am opening up this site for your questions… even the personal ones. March is the month known in a small sphere as Question Month!
If you have a question about submission, your own struggles or anything to do with BDSM this is your chance. I’ll also take [...]

Submissive Guide is Looking for a Writer

Did you enjoy the posts that past 2 weeks about BDSM activities? Did they inspire you in some way to explore your own sexuality or kink?
I’m always looking for guest posts about anything pertaining to BDSM and submission. If you think you are a good fit for the writing that already exists here I’d love [...]

Poll: What Book are You Most Interested in?

I review books once a month here at Submissive Guide.  I use the affiliate money I get from Amazon to buy those books. Because of the holiday season I will have a bit of money to buy a few review books for the coming year. I have put together a poll on the sidebar (and [...]

Happy Holidays

Happy Holidays everyone! Submissive Guide is going on a break for the holiday season from tomorrow through the 1st of the year. New posts will resume January 4th, celebrating one full year of Submissive Guide. It’s been an amazing year. Time for a bit of rest.
See everyone then and please have a peaceful and happy [...]

Donate to Submissive Guide

Submissive Guide is run by your donations, and affiliate purchases. I’m looking ahead into my 2nd year providing quality writing that is meant to help submissives everywhere learn about themselves and the services they wish to provide. I could use your help.

If you find Submissive Guide to be a valuable resource, please consider making a [...]

Curious about Me? Listen to the Interview!

I’ve been interviewed! Dungeon Place Fetish Podcast interviewed me a few weeks ago and it is now live. You can learn about my and my beginnings as well as the birth of Submissive Guide. It’s all there.
Hop on over and listen, and please please leave comments!
Dungeon Place Podcast about 24/7 with Kids, and my interview!

Open for Questions

Submissive Guide.com is doing wonderfully as a start up site and I hope that each and every one of you has learned and grown in your submission since you found this site and it’s associated resources. I’m just one person hoping to provide you with something you may not be able to find somewhere else.
A [...]

Winners of Gift Certificates!

All of last month I held a fund raiser for the National Leather Association – International Domestic Violence Project. Everyone that donated $10 was placed in a drawing for a $100 gift certificate to JT’s Stockroom. Thanks to random.org the winner is….
SirTom52
The winner has been contacted by email to set up electronic delivery of the [...]

Write About Your Favorite BDSM Play Activity for Submissive Guide

I’m planning a series of posts in JANUARY related to BDSM activities. Are you an avid fan of a particular play activity? Would you write a short post about what you experience during the play time; from how it feels, how you respond, what it does to you emotionally and recovery. Sorry, no Dominant posts!
Some [...]

Scheduled Maintenance 11/8/09 for Redesign

I just wanted to let everyone know that Submissive Guide will be unavailable Sunday 11-8-09 for about 3 hours in the afternoon while I apply a redesign. That’s right, Submissive Guide is getting a new look! I would like to thank those of you who helped me out with reviews of the sneak peak early [...]

Time is Running Out for Your Chance to win $100 Gift Certificate!

What’s better than $100 you can spend however you’d like? How about the fact that there are currently only 5 others to compete against you? That’s a 1 in 5 chance you’ll win! Come on folks, donate just $10 to NLA-I DVP and you will be well on your way. See the sidebar on the [...]

Want To Win $100 Gift Certificate from Stockroom.com?

It’s quite simple really. All you need to do is donate $10 to the National Leather Association-International Domestic Violence Project. The way you do that is go to this page or check out the blue box in on the right side of this site and submit your donation. The money goes directly to the charity; [...]

Chat Night Rescheduled Due to Technical Issues

I’m sorry everyone. The chat room stopped working and I had to scramble to find another one. There is a new one in place and I will reschedule the chat night. Please watch for the announcement for the new chat night on Thursday. The topic will be the same.

ATTENTION Graphic Web Designers

I am in need of someone to make 2 banners for Submissive Guide. Now before you go running off to make them, please contact me. They aren’t specifically for the website but something I have coming up in the next few days.
This is a paying job! Contact me for more information please.
–lunaKM

Here’s Looking At You

This week I’m going to take it easy. I was so very sick last week that I had to postpone any writing because I just couldn’t put my words together into sentences. That means that this week’s posts aren’t written. I had the worst chest cold or bronchitis or something but holy cow did it [...]

Would you like to get a topical newsletter sent directly to your email on a regular basis?

Submissive Guide now has a bi-weekly newsletter that can help you improve submission and explore BDSM, just like the website. Why subscribe to the newsletter?

Unique, quality content delivered directly to your email!
Essays and tips not available on the website!
Each newsletter is on a different topic, and you drive the suggestions for topics!
Occasional updates about Submissive [...]

Spread The Word about Submissive Guide

Can you do me a favor? I know this is essentially self-promotion, but if you find this site useful and worth keeping going, could you help me out?
First, you could always donate a bit of spare change to keep me buzzing with hot tea and chocolate. You can send it to me via the donate [...]

Submissive Guide Town Hall Meeting

Submissive Guide is just over 7 months old now and with a decent number of well received posts I’d like to get your feedback as to where Submissive Guide is going. Let me go through what I’ve seen happen on the site and what I’m working on for the future. I want your input too, [...]

Where Do You Chat?

I’d like to provide a chat night on a specific topic once a week but the chat room I have on the website really is lacking in capabilities. So, I’d like to know from you the best places to hold a chat night. I used to be a regular user of IRC, I’ve found tweetchat.com [...]

Announcing the Winner of the 2 Book Contest

Hi folks! Just a quick post today to announce the winner of the 2 Book Contest! I had a huge response and the list was really long. In the end the randomizer put this name at the top! Congratulations to:
arisl
Please contact me via twitter or email with your mailing address and I’ll get the book [...]