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Sometimes it’s nice to have a face behind the words. These posts are done in front of the camera for you to enjoy.

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[Video Post] Define This! Punishment and Funishment

[Video Post] Define This! Punishment and Funishment

In this video series, I define terms that readers have asked me about! This one is the comparison of funishment and punishment. Do you have a term you’d like defined? Let me know.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Glossary, Video Posts

[Video Post] 3 Challenges of Having Rules in a D/s Relationship

Three challenges that come about after rules are selected and you are practicing them or have had them for a long time.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships, Video Posts

[Video Post] Adding Rules in a D/s (or M/s) Relationship

Adding rules to a dynamic, whether for the first time or continuing a list is not easy.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships, Video Posts

[Video Post] What Does Service Submission REALLY Mean?

Service. It’s something that a lot of submissive say they are into giving. But what does that mean?

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service, Video Posts

[Video Post] The Evolution of Submission or Why I’m Glad I’m Not the Submissive I Was Ten Years Ago

I’m not the submissive I was ten years ago. I’m someone different, someone more.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth, Video Posts
[Video Post] Beginning BDSM: Using Safewords for Safe Play

[Video Post] Beginning BDSM: Using Safewords for Safe Play

A safeword is how you can protect yourself with a trusting partner.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Video Posts

[Video Post] A Non-Romantic BDSM Relationship, Is It Wise?

Do you think it is wise to approach D/s as a non-romantic exchange, or am I just fooling myself? Do you have any advice on how I can remain focused in this kind of arrangement?

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics, Video Posts

[Video Post] Improving Your Submission – Setting Goals and Making a Plan

Now that you have a specific goal you need to develop a plan to reach that goal.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth, Video Posts

[Video Post] Improving Your Submission: Identify Your Focus

I want to help you figure out for yourself how to answer the question, “How do I improve my submission?”.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth, Video Posts
BDSM Basics – What Your First Date Might Look Like

BDSM Basics – What Your First Date Might Look Like

I’ll cover the non-play first date and the play on the first date …date.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Video Posts
BDSM Basics – How Do I Find Someone to Play With?

BDSM Basics – How Do I Find Someone to Play With?

How to find someone to experiment with and maybe have a relationship with.

9 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Video Posts

BDSM Basics: Staying Safe with SSC

Every new thing you try is full of risks, some you are willing to take and others you aren’t. So knowing about the safety precautions that can save your mind and body are always a good thing.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Video Posts

BDSM Basics: Am I Dominant or submissive?

One of the first questions everyone has is are they Dominant or submissive?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Video Posts

BDSM Basics: Am I Kinky If…?

Should you start saying you enjoy kinky sex? Is it bad to be kinky? What is kinky anyway?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Video Posts

Learning About Positive Pain Processing Methods

There are two common methods to positively process pain. Dispersion and Release are more like titles for a range of positive techniques.

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Video Posts

Learning About Negative Pain Processing Methods

When we enter into a play session the goal is the positive experience so we’ll talk about the negative ways we try to process pain that will be a detriment to your enjoyment of the scene and may cause your sadist partner to not enjoy themselves as much either.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Video Posts

Understanding Natural Pain Processing Techniques for Better BDSM Play

There are three natural pain processing methods. They are acceptance, denial, and devouring. Two of these methods are very common, and the third being rare.

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Video Posts
[Video Post] Your Responsibilities As A Submissive Go Beyond ‘Obedience’

[Video Post] Your Responsibilities As A Submissive Go Beyond ‘Obedience’

If all we have for responsibility is to be obedient then we are getting the easy job. And that’s just not the way I see submission. There is no power exchange if you just have to obey commands.

18 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Video Posts
[Video Post] How do I show my submissiveness long distance?

[Video Post] How do I show my submissiveness long distance?

My question is, how can I show him (aside from simply following the rules) that this is who I am. He knows that my nature is submissive. He has commented on it many times. but is there a way in a LDR to show the submissiveness I feel?

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics, Video Posts

[Video Post] How To Help Your Dominant Through Dom Drop

How do you care for a Dom/Master who is suffering dom drop? What should a sub do to help them through this? It seems that they get reclusive. Is this normal?

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Video Posts
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