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From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 2-4-12 If you can’t get out to munches in your community or conventions held around the world the next best thing is a website focused on kink education. I have nothing but praise for Kink Academy and the quality educators and topics that they cover on Kink Academy.  Here at Submissive [...]

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 12-17-11 We’ve all seen them on other people’s blogs. You may have even done them as a way to prompt yourself with something to write. They are fun. They are memes. Memes are the quizzes, questions, and games that seem to spread like a virus all over the blogging scene [...]

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 11-19-11 Thinking back on the beginning of my exploration into submission I came to realize some simple things about submission. It’s personal. So many of the websites, including Submissive Guide try hard to define submission in terms that others can understand and hopefully identify with, but there are plenty of [...]

One of the very first BDSM related websites I encountered when I was learning about it myself is still in existence and has barely changed. It has gotten bigger though. Ambrosio’s BDSM Site is a single person developed website created in 2000. Ambrosio is from Texas and has worked hard to develop and build his little corner [...]

I talk about all sorts of things on this blog, sex being one of them that needs more coverage I think  - I am also all about sharing new books with you. But you may know that already seeing as I’ve reviewed over 20 books so far.  So when the folks at Tickle Kitty contacted me to [...]

It’s been awhile since I’ve reviewed a book here on Submissive Guide and this one has come recommended from readers. You want to know if this one is worth buying! Let’s get down to it. Living M/s: A Book for Masters, slaves and Their Relationships* is written by Dan and Dawn Williams of The Erotic Awakening [...]

I know what you are thinking. Who would even consider buying BDSM gear from Amazon.com? What about quality? Can I really get my kink supplies from the world’s largest marketplace? The answer is yes. We already know that you can get a ton of books, both physical and digital from Amazon. I have a whole [...]

I was introduced to iTaboo not that long ago by the owner of the site. He knows that he is in direct competition with FetLife and yet, he’s not. His site is dating and personals directed with all the social tools that FetLife has developed. It’s still in its infancy but I think it could [...]

This post features Submissive Guide affiliates, meaning that if you buy something featured, you’ll be financially supporting this site’s mission of bringing awesomeness to readers everywhere. If you are anything like KnyghtMare and myself you have a lot more toys than you do storage. I have them in under the bed boxes, a trunk at [...]

We talk about subspace a lot in our descriptions of play and scenes we may get into. As an experienced submissive I tend to forget that moment early on when I wanted so badly to experience subspace but had absolutely no clue how to get there or if I would know I had reached it [...]

There are a lot of things on the internet talking about topping from the bottom as being a bad bad submissive thing. It’s made people terrified that everything they do could be crossing that terrible line. It’s not true. I’ve mentioned it before and I’ll say it again. Bottom topping isn’t as bad as it is [...]

This is a video post about how to get started once you decide you want to explore submission. I’d have to say that the most common question I get from people who contact me via email is “where do I start?” and I’d have to agree that it’s an overwhelming feeling when you are facing [...]

It’s been a pretty busy week for Submissive Guide. Instead of giving you some personal news I’d like to share what changes the site has gone through and what’s planned for the near future. We have migrated the site to Kinky-Blogging blog hosting. This is to afford KnyghtMare ease of maintenance with only one set of [...]

Play sessions are a less common happening in the KnyghtMare household lately but this weekend we had a wonderful session that he says was one of the best ever. While sex always has an element of exchange of power and pain, it’s great to connect in a sadist/masochist way once in a while and hopefully [...]

There really isn’t a whole lot of news coming out of our house recently so I’ll spare you a boring update and get right into the summary. Now for the week in review: This Week on Submissive Guide This section highlights the articles posted this week on Submissive Guide and other updates to the blog, [...]