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A broad mish-mash of opinions, views and thoughts that don’t fit in any one category.
By lunaKM on September 2, 2010
It’s time again for another chat night here at Submissive Guide. I’d welcome everyone to come on in Tuesday 9/7 for a bit of conversation. The topic is going to be free chat. Anything and everything can be discussed. Please come with questions or a curiosity about Dominant/submissive relationships. Info When: 9/7/10 8 PM CST [...]
Posted in Views & More... | Tagged chat night, chat room, discussion, IRC, submissive chat |
By lunaKM on August 30, 2010
This month’s book review is about a different form of relationship structure than the traditional D/s that you read about on practically every site and book you browse. Domestic Discipline by Jules Markham is about creating harmony in your relationship through the use of consensual discipline. The basic form of discipline preferred by Domestic Discipline (DD) [...]
Posted in Reviews | Tagged amazon.com, balance, book review, DD, domestic discipline, emotional cycles, enemas, harmony, jules markham, spanking |
By lunaKM on August 25, 2010
Q: I am a relatively new submissive. I have had two previous D/s relationships. One was ended suddenly – just a week or so after being given a collar, he suddenly disappeared from my life with no explanation. I have since realised that the collar came without any understandings or pre-requisites should have been a [...]
Posted in Novice Q & A | Tagged expectations, learning, needs, novice, questions, safe words, SehAnru, trust, wants |
By lunaKM on August 18, 2010
From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 2/6/10 (Caveat: I am not an expert historian of BDSM. What I have learned I picked up along the way. I can’t say with certainty what is true and what is false. I have made every effort to let you know if I’m uncertain of the validity of a certain [...]
Posted in Newsletter Archive, Social Norms | Tagged acceptance, chat rooms, community, danger, false information, Impact, internet, munch, purpose, submissive guide newsletter |
By lunaKM on August 13, 2010
This video post is about an epidemic I’ve seen with submissives all over. A submissive, dating and seeing Dominants; rarely going past the first few dates can begin to wonder why they are constantly searching and never finding someone to serve. You can develop a closed heart and begin to fear opening yourself up for [...]
Posted in Video Posts | Tagged dates, dating, dominant, emotions, fear, feelings, Impact, relationship, sensitive, vulnerability |
By lunaKM on August 9, 2010
From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 5/8/10 Just under 3 years ago the BDSM community was a very differnet place. There has always been discussion boards and chat rooms. We could always connect via mySpace and Facebook, but there was never a centralized social network. Until FetLife came into being. I joined the site when it [...]
Posted in Newsletter Archive, Social Norms | Tagged BDSM, community, facebook, fetlife, information, opinion |
By lunaKM on July 30, 2010
If you follow my personal twitter or blog you already know this; Master and I are moving this weekend. Due to the move and mess of unpacking, I will not be posting any new articles during the week of August 1st. Rest assured that I will return on Monday, August 9th with new posts! In [...]
Posted in Webmaster Notes | Tagged suspension of posts, vacation |
By lunaKM on July 28, 2010
I’ve reviewed protocol based books here before but this one is far more unique than those read previously. Protocols isn’t just a book about protocols, it’s a handbook written from one Dominant to his slave. These are the actual orders and behaviors he expects out of his slave. While it reads like a handbook you [...]
Posted in Reviews | Tagged amazon.com, book review, handbook, protocol, review, Robert Rubel |
By lunaKM on July 26, 2010
Q: I have question. I’m a Sub newbie under a Dom’s consideration for a D/s relationship. Our relationship is not just confined to the bedroom but throughout our entire relationship. The only time we follow “norm” conduct is in the vanilla world. My Dom has made it clear that he practices domestic discipline (non abusive [...]
Posted in Novice Q & A | Tagged advice, DD, domestic discipline, Q&A, questions, vanilla relationship |
By lunaKM on July 12, 2010
From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 4/10/10 One of the most feared activities of a novice is getting up the nerve to meet other people face to face. Yet this is one of the first things that I and many others recommend for those wishing to get into BDSM. I encourage people to learn all they [...]
Posted in Newsletter Archive, Social Norms | Tagged activities, discussion, event, first time, groups, learning, local community, munch, munches, nerves |
By lunaKM on July 8, 2010
~ Featured Posts (Lilly’s Pick) ~ Why Pride is Still Important – When someone tells me that they don’t think Pride is necessary, I can’t help but believe that they go through life with tunnel vision. I live in New York where for the most part I can walk around being a big ol’ queen and [...]
Posted in Views & More... | Tagged blog carnival, digest, elust |
By lunaKM on July 7, 2010
I’m constantly exploring the internet and online libraries for information. Today I found a wealth of knowledge about Gorean Lifestyle. I personally can’t distinguish between online Gor and real life Gorean living so they are together in this list. Please feel free to leave a comment and add your own resources! Websites Gorean from Wikipedia [...]
Posted in Research Pages | Tagged chat, chat rooms, Gor, Gorean Lifestyle, gorean links, gorean resources, IRC, John Norman, research |
By lunaKM on July 2, 2010
I know that since the beginning of Submissive Guide that I’ve covered a wide range of topics. You may not have seen all of them so I’d like to take the time right now to feature the ones that I consider to be cream of the crop. Comments are always open, even on old articles! [...]
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By lunaKM on June 28, 2010
This month’s review is an etiquette book like no other. When I bought this book I wasn’t sure it would have any more information that Miss Manners or Emily Post but I was wrong, so very wrong. The Bride Wore Black Leather…And He Looked Fabulous!: An Etiquette Guide for the Rest of Us by Drew [...]
Posted in Reviews | Tagged alternative etiquette, amazon.com, book review, definitions, Drew Campbell, Emily Post, etiquette, greenery press, manners, miss manners, review, social etiquette, The Bride Wore Black Leather, understanding |
By thisgirl on June 24, 2010
First of all, thanks to Luna for welcoming me to the team here at Submissive Guide. I am a 30 year old submissive living in the United Kingdom with my Master and fiancee, Grimly. Currently, we are in a long distance relationship of around about 200 miles so as Luna mentioned I’ll write something about [...]
Posted in Views & More... | Tagged biography, introduction, new authors, thisgirl, welcome |
By lunaKM on June 23, 2010
Each month I answer questions asked by readers like you. Come see what I’ve answered this month. Q: I’m quite new to the idea of being a submissive, but after a lot of research and buying a lot of books, I feel that I am ready to explore a bit more. I met an online [...]
Posted in Novice Q & A | Tagged amazon.com, commitment, D/s relationship, Dominance, information, needs, novice, questions, submission, understanding, wants |
By SehAnru on June 15, 2010
I have to say; probably the worst thing you can do to a writer is ask him or her to write about him or herself. It is the number one reason why I am not writing an autobiography, okay.. yet. We are hyper critical about ourselves in that manner. But I am always open to [...]
Posted in Views & More... | Tagged Alpha, facebook, fetlife, Irish, questions, SehAnru, submissive, Writer |
By lunaKM on June 8, 2010
I’m very pleased to announce that there will be 2 new voices to Submissive Guide! Joining our group of intelligent ladies are thisgirl and SehAnru. thisgirl is from the UK and writes her own personal blog about her life with Grimly at http://thisgirl.wordpress.com/. Hopefully she will share with us how she submits in a long [...]
Posted in Views & More... | Tagged contributors, new authors, SehAnru, thisgirl, writing for Submissive Guide |
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This month I'd like to feature Protocols: Handbook for the female slave by Robert Rubel PhD. A book on protocol in a D/s Leather Household.
My name is lunaKM and I’m a full-time submissive in a D/s relationship. I am webslut to 
