Video Posts
Sometimes it’s nice to have a face behind the words. These posts are done in front of the camera for you to enjoy.
By lunaKM on August 13, 2010
This video post is about an epidemic I’ve seen with submissives all over. A submissive, dating and seeing Dominants; rarely going past the first few dates can begin to wonder why they are constantly searching and never finding someone to serve. You can develop a closed heart and begin to fear opening yourself up for [...]
Posted in Video Posts | Tagged dates, dating, dominant, emotions, fear, feelings, Impact, relationship, sensitive, vulnerability |
By lunaKM on May 15, 2010
This is a video post about no limits slavery – or rather, why I think it doesn’t exist. Last month Rayne wrote a post about how she lives in a no limits slavery relationship and how it works for her. I like that she covered a few of the common challenges to her way of [...]
Posted in Submission, Video Posts | Tagged dominants, limits, no limits slavery, rt, slave, value |
By lunaKM on February 13, 2010
This video post is about what not to share on your online profile. We all have one somewhere. FetLife being all the rage right now, but also we have alt.com, collarme.com, bondage.com and others where we place ads and identity profiles up to get people interested. This interest can be friends or relationship related; it [...]
Posted in Safety, Video Posts | Tagged abuse, Alt.com, Bondage, Bondage.com, CollarMe, cons, danger, dangers, dating, depression, email, false sense of security, family, fetlife, friends, information, internet, online, Online dating, online profiles, profile safety, relationship, rt, safe, Safety, security, Service, share, share photos, sharing, support, tips |
By lunaKM on January 2, 2010
This week’s video post is about velcro collars. To submissives, a collar is one of the most important things they have. It is a symbol of their commitment, their service and their adoration of a special someone. In most situations, the offering or begging of a collar is not taken lightly. The weight of the [...]
Posted in Video Posts | Tagged begging, cheapen, collars, commitment, community, cons, disposable, Dom, dominant, dominants, experience, hands, Impact, important things, lifetime, marriage, mates, online, opinion, partners, relationship, Relationships, rt, rules, Service, submissive, symbolism, value, velcro collars |
By lunaKM on November 14, 2009
Submissive Guide.com is doing wonderfully as a start up site and I hope that each and every one of you has learned and grown in your submission since you found this site and it’s associated resources. I’m just one person hoping to provide you with something you may not be able to find somewhere else. [...]
Posted in Video Posts, Webmaster Notes | Tagged advice, ask luna, ask me, get advice, help, learned, mentor, questions, requests, Resources, rt, submission, submissive, suggestions, value |
By lunaKM on October 17, 2009
This week’s video post is about sub space. When you first heard about sub space it was probably something that you either thought you’d never experience or something that seemed so strange and foreign that you believed it to be a myth. Then you heard the stories and could swear that people were on drugs [...]
Posted in Playtime, Video Posts | Tagged connection, Dom, dominant, emotions, endorphins, experience, focus, happiness, information, love, masochist, play, prayer, rt, Service, slave, spirit, sub space, submission, subspace, trust, value |
By lunaKM on September 5, 2009
This week’s video post is about an issue that needs more awareness. I had someone ask me for some advice through my email the other day and it went something like this: I just started exploring my kinky side and I’ve only shared it with a few other people. One person that found out started [...]
Posted in Safety, Video Posts | Tagged abuse, advice, ask me, assistance, assistance programs, BDSM, cons, consensual, danger, Dom, domestic violence awareness, domestic violence awareness month, domestic violence project, email, family, fear, help, kinky, kinky side, leather, national domestic violence awareness month, national leather association, needs, NLA-I DVP, relationship, Relationships, rt, safe, Service, share, submission, submissive, support, value |
By lunaKM on August 8, 2009
This week’s video post is on First Meetings Safety. When you are ready to meet your dream Dominant for the first time, what goes through your mind? Do you think about safety at all or do the nervousness and excitment overload your common sense? You may not think that safety is necessary for someone you’ve [...]
Posted in Safety, Video Posts | Tagged blind date, choice, choices, comfort, common sense, D/s, danger, dates, dating, Dom, dominant, dominants, dress, first meetings, information, munch, nervousness, normal, online, personal safety, play, questions, relationship, rt, safe, safe call, Safety, security, short, value, wants |
By lunaKM on June 27, 2009
This week’s video post is a plea for your assistance with books for the review section of this site. I’m working on bringing you more book reviews more often. In order to do this I would love to have some help from all of you. There are different levels of help and please hear me [...]
Posted in Video Posts, Webmaster Notes | Tagged amazon.com, Aria, assistance, BDSM, bdsm books, book, book request, book review, books, certificates, Dom, dominant, dominants, donations, dress, email, experience, gift certificates, help, information, journey, library, love, novice, reading list, review, rt, submissive, suggestions, value |
By lunaKM on June 13, 2009
This video post is about how to deal with a submissive bout of PMS. It’s not your normal run of the mill PMS. You don’t have cramps or bloating or headaches or chills, but your mood is so out of whack that you are getting in trouble just by opening your mouth. You don’t know [...]
Posted in Mindset, Video Posts | Tagged attitude adjustment, bad mood, BDSM, blogging, discipline, Dom, dominant, event, focus, help, learned, manners, meditation, normal, PMS, purpose, rt, self-centering, self-discipline, Service, serving, slave, submissive, submissive pms, value |
By lunaKM on May 26, 2009
This week’s video post is about maintenance spankings. Maintenance spankings are a way to keep the relationship fresh, revive the roles on a regular basis and to not let life away from the dynamic interfere with what your relationship goals are. A maintenance spanking can be anything from a scheduled night of the week where [...]
Posted in Relationships, Video Posts | Tagged 24/7, Aria, attitude, blogs, control, D/s, deeper roles, discipline, Dom, dominant, dynamic, focus, health, help, intimacy, maintenance spanking, masochist, orgasms, play, punishment, purpose, relationship, roles, rt, scheduled spanking, sex, short, spanking, submission, value |
By lunaKM on May 19, 2009
This week’s video is about online training and submission. The world of online Dominance and submission is riddled with skepticism and disbelief that anyone can really live and enjoy a relationship online. The fact of it all is that there are an endless numbers of people experiencing a form of D/s called cyber D/s. Whether [...]
Posted in Online Submission, Video Posts | Tagged BDSM, chat, chat room, chat rooms, D/s, discipline, Dom, Dominance, dominant, email, experience, grooming, learned, learning, mentor, online, online D/s, online dominance, online training, partners, play, questions, relationship, Relationships, ritual, role play, rt, rules, safe, serving, sex, structure, Study, submission, submissive, tasks, training, trust, value, websites |
By lunaKM on May 12, 2009
This week’s video post is about masochism and submission. I mentioned this in the post about myths that submissive’s aren’t always masochist. I thought this topic deserved a more in depth discussion. I’m a masochist. I get sexual pleasure from pain. That’s wired into me. I’m also submissive. It’s who I am. For me, [...]
Posted in Online Submission, Video Posts | Tagged BDSM, discussion, Dom, Domestics, dominant, dominants, email, female, learning, Masochism, masochist, myths, play, punishment, questions, rt, Service, sex, sexual pleasure, submission, submissive, value |
By lunaKM on April 7, 2009
This week’s video tip is on Red Flags of Fake Dominants. The question I was asked today is, “How do you identify fake Dominants and what are some red flags to be watchful of?” First, what is a fake Dominant? A fake Dominant is someone who is just out for sex, fantasy and an easy [...]
Posted in Online Submission, Relationships, Safety, Video Posts | Tagged changing, chat, common sense, Dom, dominant, dominants, dress, email, experience, fake dominants, fantasy, first meetings, friends, information, on a break, online, play, predators, real life, red flags, relationship, rt, rules, safe, safe call, safety advice, sex, share, submission, tricks, value |
By lunaKM on April 3, 2009
This week’s video tip is on the BDSM Checklist. If you’ve just started out in BDSM and have asked a few questions, it is very likely that you have been directed to use a checklist to become familiar with what you may or may not like in play and roles and fetishes. If you haven’t [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Training Resume, Video Posts | Tagged abuse, activities, BDSM, bdsm checklist, bdsm play, checklist, email, event, fetishes, help, limits, links, paraphilias, play, play activites, questions, relationship, resume, roles, rt, Safety, share, training, Training Resume, value |
By lunaKM on March 17, 2009
This week’s video tip is about collars. Collars are a commonly discussed topic in BDSM. There is a wide range of information and opposing viewpoints on a lot of ideas surrounding collars and collaring. One of the ideas I’d like to cover today is the idea that a collar means more than a wedding ring [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Video Posts | Tagged BDSM, cheapen, collaring, collars, commitment, discussion, Dom, dominant, information, online, play, relationship, Relationships, rt, symbols, value, velcro collars, viewpoints |
By lunaKM on March 10, 2009
This week’s video tip is about mentors. A mentor is a person more experienced in certain aspects of life than you are. They are also more open to varying viewpoints, have a desire to teach and aide others. A mentor is a role model and a very special counselor to those they council. In business [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Video Posts | Tagged advice, BDSM, communication, development, Dom, dominant, experience, get advice, help, learning, mentor, movement, novice, novices, questions, rt, skills, submission, submissive, training, value, viewpoints |
By lunaKM on March 3, 2009
This week’s video tip is about what to expect at your first munch. So you are ready to venture into the great wide expanse of public life and meet people face to face. That’s great! A munch is a safe and fun environment to do that in. A munch is a meet and greet of [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Video Posts | Tagged BDSM, boundaries, chat, comfort, common sense, community, Dom, dominant, dress, friends, hands, help, kinky, munch, munches, protocol, questions, rt, rules, safe, Safety, submissive, support, value, wants |
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