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Positions can be adopted in many different situations. Some higher protocol relationships specialize in a positions set of their own. Articles here deal with generic submissive positions that you can customize.

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The Bunny Dip

The Bunny Dip

How can you avoid ‘spillage’ when serving a drink in your sexiest fet wear? Try ‘the bunny dip’!

1 comment Posted by nan {SL} | Posted in: Service, Submissive Positions, Talents and Skills

Regaining Submissive Mind-Space Through Ritual

Many submissives have jobs where they are managers, business owners, or in charge in some way or another. Sometimes it can be difficult to re-enter your submissive head-space at the end of a busy work day. A sub can use rituals in order to help her achieve the right mind-apace, leaving the outside world behind [...]

Show Off Your Positions! [Day 14 - 2WBSP]

Show Off Your Positions! [Day 14 - 2WBSP]

You have followed the whole series of Submissive Positions posts here at Submissive Guide. If not, start back at the beginning, I’ll wait for you here. Are you back? Ready to show them off? Today’s post is all about you! I want to see what you came up with for positions that worked best for [...]

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Altering Positions [Day 13 - 2WBSP]

Altering Positions [Day 13 - 2WBSP]

Reading the past posts on the Submissive positions project may bring some of you to the realization that you can’t perform these poses for health or body size reasons. This is to be expected. I can’t kneel back on my heels at all. So what is a good submissive to do? You alter the positions [...]

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Stop Fidgeting! [Day 12 - 2WBSP]

Just 2 days left in the Submissive Positions project here at Submissive Guide. If you need a review, please take a look at the primary post; it has links to all of the posts in the project. Today I’d like to talk about the bane of many a submissive; fidgeting. Sitting still is really hard [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Submissive Positions

A Grand Apology [Day 11 - 2WBSP]

Today’s task is to learn an appropriate pose to take when apologizing for wrong-doing. If you need to review the past posts in this series, please take a look at the leading post. This position is hopefully something you don’t have to do often but since we are all human, it is going to happen. [...]

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Worship and Obedience [Day 10 - 2WBSP]

Worship and Obedience [Day 10 - 2WBSP]

Nearing the end of our 2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions here at Submissive Guide. Today we are going to learn positions of worship. There will be moments in your submission that a feeling wells up inside of you to show your devotion and respect to your Dominant. You may also be asked to show [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Submissive Positions
Offering Your Body for Service [Day 9 - 2WBSP]

Offering Your Body for Service [Day 9 - 2WBSP]

An intense and beautiful display of your body and offering yourself for service to your Dominant can be intimate, powerful and elegant. Today we are going to brainstorm ways you can offer yourself to your Dominant with them in mind. There is no proper way to do this, but once you find a way that [...]

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Offering Your Neck for Collar [Day 8 - 2WBSP]

Offering Your Neck for Collar [Day 8 - 2WBSP]

We are just over half way through the two weeks of submissive positions here on Submissive Guide. Here’s a review of what we’ve covered so far: Learning to Kneel Standing at Attention Lowering to the Floor Rise from the Floor The Bow and Curtsey Active Attending Serving Food and Drink Next up is talking about [...]

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Serving Food and Drink [Day 7 - 2WBSP]

Serving Food and Drink [Day 7 - 2WBSP]

Welcome to another day of learning and enhancing submissive positions. Today we are going to cover food service etiquette. Some of this may be familiar to you. If this is the case, try to enhance it and make it more personal and unique to your relationship. If you’ve ever been to a more formal restaurant [...]

8 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Submissive Positions
Attending Your Dominant [Day 6 - 2WBSP]

Attending Your Dominant [Day 6 - 2WBSP]

In the previous posts we covered basic positions that should now be familiar and perhaps you have worked out in your relationship that you want to employ them. If you need to review you can do that by going to the initial post. Today we will be learning an active position and one that can [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Submissive Positions
To Bow and Curtsy Appropriately [Day 5 - 2WBSP]

To Bow and Curtsy Appropriately [Day 5 - 2WBSP]

This is a continuation of the ongoing project for submissive positions here at Submissive Guide. Today we will cover bowing and curtsying. Every culture has a different way to show respect and acknowledge a title holding member of their society. I believe most of them us a form of bow or curtsy to honor that [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Submissive Positions
Rise From The Floor With Finesse [Day 4 - 2WBSP]

Rise From The Floor With Finesse [Day 4 - 2WBSP]

The next part of this two week series is about getting up from the floor. You’ve already learned about kneeling, standing at attention and lowering yourself with grace. Stick around, we have a lot to learn. If you’ve ever watched Memoirs of a Geisha you have seen how graceful it  can be to rise from [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Submissive Positions
Gracefully Lowering Yourself [Day 3 - 2WBSP]

Gracefully Lowering Yourself [Day 3 - 2WBSP]

We have covered standing and kneeling so far in the positions project here at Submissive Guide. Today we will cover going from standing to kneeling in a graceful way. It’s not as easy as you think. First you have to pick out one kneeling posture and one standing posture from the previous posts. This way [...]

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Standing at Attention [Day 2 - 2WBSP]

Standing at Attention [Day 2 - 2WBSP]

Today’s challenge  in the two week project here at Submissive Guide is all about standing at attention. One of the most common ways you can present yourself as submissive to a Dominant is by the way you stand. You may do it now even though you don’t have any specific rules as to how to [...]

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Learning to Kneel [Day 1 - 2WBSP]

Learning to Kneel [Day 1 - 2WBSP]

Today’s post  in the two week project here at Submissive Guide is focused on kneeling. Do you kneel in front of your Dominant partner at any point of your service? Is there a specific way to do that? For someone new to BDSM, it is common to think you must kneel a lot of the [...]

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Two Weeks to Better Submissive Positions

Two Weeks to Better Submissive Positions

Submissive Positions are talked about all over like everyone is supposed to be doing them or something. Not every relationship is set up to provide that level of protocol and you should never expect a relationship to automatically have that. If you are interested in positions, ask your partner or perspective partner if they’d be [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Rituals and Routines, Submissive Positions

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