Service
Everything we do is service, learn what gives you the heart to serve and what you can do with your talents.
By SehAnru on August 17, 2010
These days there are so many chemicals out on the market that we don’t really know what kind of damage they can do to our bodies most importantly, as well as our clothes, furniture and so on. One of the biggest causes of health problems is allergic reactions to these chemicals. It’s time to get [...]
Posted in Domestics, Health and Beauty | Tagged cleaning, Eco friendly, Face Masks, health, Home, Honey, pampering your Dominant, recipes, Save Money |
By lunaKM on August 11, 2010
An activity in the Community area asks for everyone to start a 30 minute beauty routine once a week; taking time to care for your most important asset: yourself. When you start caring for your body and health one of the first things we think about is better skin. I’ve tried all of the different [...]
Posted in Health and Beauty | Tagged better skin, face mask, facial mask, health, milk of magnesia, oily skin, routine, smooth skin |
By lunaKM on July 21, 2010
Last February was a difficult month for me. Like many in this failing economy I found myself without a job. I was stressed and frustrated and knew that it would be very difficult to find another job when the competition was over 7% of the state’s workforce. Master wasn’t going to let me stay frustrated [...]
Posted in Service | Tagged dreams, fulfillment, home management, housework, lifestyle, personal fulfillment, personal life, satisfaction, Service, skills, stay at home, Staying-at-home |
By lunaKM on June 21, 2010
From Submissive Journal Prompts Do you have a morning ritual? Morning rituals are fantastic ways of setting routine and developing a focusing meditation bright and early in the day. I’ve had morning rituals off an on throughout my service and they are quite enjoyable. I’ve not maintained one since I became a stay at home [...]
Posted in Rituals and Routines | Tagged 15 minutes, meditation, morning ritual, morning rituals, rise and shine, ritual, time frame |
By lunaKM on June 18, 2010
One of the frugal and simple living things that you can do at home is to make your own laundry soap. I’ve been making my own for over a year and it’s only cost me about $15 in materials. For the soap flakes I grate castille (vegetable oil) soap that I get at the supermarket [...]
Posted in DIY, Domestics | Tagged DIY, Domestics, frugal living, green cleaning, making laundry soap, natural cleaning, simple living |
By lunaKM on June 9, 2010
To complete the series on types of service, today I’m going to cover devotional service. If you’d like a refresher on the other types of service please see the other posts: Transactional Devotional Positional Situational In my search for understanding about devotion I looked to religious ideas. In many religions you devote your life and [...]
Posted in Service | Tagged devotion, devotional service, focus, meditation, pleasure, religion, series, Service, understanding, worship |
By lunaKM on June 2, 2010
Continuing my four-part series on types of submission today will be about positional service. As a reminder, the forms of submission are: Transactional Devotional Positional Situational Positional service is probably the most prevalent in non-D/s settings. This is essentially customer service; you are in a position to serve and so you serve. The service is [...]
Posted in Service | Tagged chauffeur, customer service, domestic service, expectations, household, positional service, series, Service, situational service, submissive, transactional service |
By lunaKM on May 21, 2010
This is a continuation of the series on the most common forms of service in a D/s relationship. The forms are: Transactional Devotional Positional Situational Today I’m going to talk about situational service. Situational service encompasses what I called conditional service. You serve only when presented with a specific set of circumstances, thus the situation is perfect [...]
Posted in Service | Tagged best behavior, deeper awareness, dynamic, event, focus, high protocol, player, protocol, ritual, series, situation, situational service, special circumstances, special service |
By lunaKM on May 12, 2010
Service can mean different things to different people. Just as submission is different depending on the person and dynamic, so is the type of service that submissive provides. In the list below I have what I call the four types of service that are most common in D/s relationships. I’ve come across several different ways [...]
Posted in Service | Tagged D/s exchange, Service, service styles, service types, submission, transaction, transactional service |
By lunaKM on April 16, 2010
Every relationship dynamic is different. If you’ve been following this blog for any length of time you have been exposed to some very unique relationships and the submissives in those relationships. There are submissives who are pets, some who are slaves, others who, like you’ve read recently, are hunt sluts for their owners. Today I’m [...]
Posted in Talents and Skills | Tagged activities, development, dominance and submission, dynamic, kink, Masochism, pleasure, requests, Sadism, Service, sexual personality, skills, topping from the bottom, understanding |
By nan {SL} on April 14, 2010
Hunting is a huge part of my Master’s life. As His submissive I could either consider that side of Him ‘vanilla’, or I could learn more about it and develop skills to become His ‘hunt slut’. ‘Hunt slut’ sounded fun, and it would give me a chance to spend more time with my Master! With [...]
Posted in Talents and Skills | Tagged camp slut, gun handling, hunt slut, hunting, hunting game, hunting references, social secretary, tracking game |
By lunaKM on April 7, 2010
The bedroom in most homes is supposed to be a refuge from the stress of the world; to reconnect with your partner and to recharge after a hard day at work. However, it is commonly the last room people clean and organize to suit their needs. I know in our house the bedroom is often [...]
Posted in Domestics | Tagged bedroom cleaning, cleaning, danae, Domestic Servitude, Domestics, homecare, housekeeping, organization |
By lunaKM on April 2, 2010
Not long ago I had someone ask me privately why I feel the need to help submissives with this website, and what qualifications I have to tell people how to improve themselves. And it’s true that I don’t have any life coaching training or experience with counseling, but for what I do here only one [...]
Posted in Service | Tagged experience, information, novice, perfection, understanding |
By lunaKM on March 24, 2010
With the wealth of information I write (and my new contributors write) it’s amazing to me to know that some of you haven’t taken a look at what else I have archived here for your education and growth as a submissive. One of the things that I love to re-read over and over are the [...]
Posted in Service | Tagged BootPig, must see, Resources, Service, simply service newsletter |
By lunaKM on March 10, 2010
As a part of my work to improve myself and make my submission fun and exciting always I am constantly searching for things I can add to my service that my Owner would love to see or have me do. One of these is today’s focus. Belly Dancing. I’m certain that pole dancing, burlesque and [...]
Posted in Talents and Skills | Tagged belly dancing, dancing, focus, new talents, skills, youtube |
By nan {SL} on February 26, 2010
Many submissives have jobs where they are managers, business owners, or in charge in some way or another. Sometimes it can be difficult to re-enter your submissive head-space at the end of a busy work day. A sub can use rituals in order to help her achieve the right mind-apace, leaving the outside world behind [...]
Posted in Mindset, Rituals and Routines, Service, Submissive Positions | Tagged connection, mind-space, Mindset, purpose, reminder of place, ritual, rituals, significance, submissive, submissive mindset |
By lunaKM on February 17, 2010
Almost every lady loves to wear make-up. I’m no different, but it’s taken a long time for me to feel confident that I don’t look like a clown when I walk out the door. I’ve started teaching myself a more professional make-up application process and in that I’ve found a lot of excellent resources online [...]
Posted in Health and Beauty | Tagged applying make up, beauty tips, blush, cosmetics, eye shadow, foundation, how-to, lipstick, make up, make up channels on YouTube, make up tutorials, makeup tips |
By lunaKM on January 22, 2010
Last month we were in the kitchen, this month I want to walk you through cleaning and maintaining a tidy bathroom. I feel that cleanliness in the bathroom shows guests how important cleanliness is in your home and your own person. While I currently don’t have much more than a hallway sized bathroom with a [...]
Posted in Domestics | Tagged checklist, clean, cleaning, cleaning routine, danae, Domestic Servitude, help, organization, routine, tips |
By Guest Author on December 9, 2009
This post is another guest post by Skylerpet. You can read her other posts here. She’s wants to help us all get through the holidays with less stress. Here’s some tips to help you. If you have other tips for holiday stress, please leave them in the comments! With the holiday season in full swing, [...]
Posted in Service | Tagged 24/7, bath, book, chat, christmas, Christmas tips, clean, D/s, dates, disposable, email, family, family visits, guest post, hands, health, help, holiday, holiday hints, holiday stress, learned, lifestyle, pet play, play, rt, safe, Safety, share, skylerpet, stress, submissive, tips, wants |
By lunaKM on December 4, 2009
I had a question sent to me via YouTube asking me about for information about dress protocols. I can only tell you what I am familiar with, so be aware that there are many many other forms of dress protocols and just as many (if not more) reasons behind them. I’m going to assume that [...]
Posted in Rituals and Routines | Tagged ask me, BDSM, clothing, Dom, dominant, dominants, dress, event, grooming, information, makeup, play, poses, preference, preferences, protocol, purpose, relationship, rt, rules, safe, sex, share, shaving, short, submissive, symbols, wants, what to wear |
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