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Everything we do is service, learn what gives you the heart to serve and what you can do with your talents.

DIY View All

Learning Your Way Around the Kitchen-Homemade Pizza Dough and Pizza Sauce

It was about a year or so ago that I got this idea to make homemade pizza one weekend when Daddy, Schnubbi, and I were all together. Don’t ask me where this idea came from. It just happened. Usually when this happens, all that matters is that I do it. While I was planning this [...]

13, September | Leave a comment

Cheese Stuffed Meatballs & Magic Chocolate Flan Cake

I thought I’d switch things up a bit and share a couple of recipes that worked out really well and would be perfect for a special evening with your Master or a dinner party with guests. The menu will consist of homemade ground chicken meatballs stuffed with cheese and Magic Chocolate Flan cake from scratch! [...]

29, April | Leave a comment

DIY BDSM Toy Instructions Online

I’m crafty. I learned how to make BDSM gear almost within months of my entrance to the lifestyle. I love how easy some of these are. I always get compliments for my work. I’ve started a list of all the places online where you can find instructions for DIY projects to fill your dungeon. Many [...]

26, March | 5 comments

Domestics View All

Learning Your Way Around the Kitchen-Copycat Ikea Meatballs

When I lived in the US, I heard of this magical store, Ikea. Not only did it have all kinds of home furnishings and accessories, but it also had a restaurant where you could eat Swedish meatballs. Unfortunately, I didn’t live anywhere near a store, so I never got the chance to visit one. Fast [...]

19, April | Leave a comment

31 Days To Better Domestic Service: Do Coupons Really Save You Money?

Coupons and couponing have been given a bad wrap with the reality TV shows that show extreme coupon users. I know I’ve sat in awe of the people who use hundreds of coupons for their grocery order and somehow get their purchase to mere cents. Of course what they aren’t sharing in the TV show [...]

31, October | Leave a comment

31 Days To Better Domestic Service: Shop in Season to Maximize Savings

By now you should have a handle on your stockpile, meal plan and understand how to use a price book. Today we’ll cover shopping in season. When we talk about shopping in season it often relates to produce but that’s not the only thing that has a season. What other things can you think of [...]

30, October | Leave a comment

Health and Beauty View All

Aging in the Lifestyle: Doing it with Grace

When I first came to the community, I, as well as others like me, was a bit of a unicorn. During that time, it wasn’t the norm to see younger people in the community – younger as in under 36 or so. Most of the people I knew were 40+, and there I was in [...]

1, July | 3 comments

M/s and When Life Happens: Dealing With Health Challenges and Death

When we imagine an ideal world, it’s pretty safe to say that for most of us, that perfect world wouldn’t include illness, disabilities, and death. Everyone would have bodies that are strong, capable, and able to do any and all activities the heart desires. On this side of creation, that type of world doesn’t exist, [...]

3, September | 4 comments

Laney’s Top Ten Personal Hygiene Reminders

There are a lot of times that things are so obvious you think “surely no one has to be reminded.” However, if you spend any amount of time around people (vanilla, lifestyle, strangers etc) you will certainly notice that “yes, sometimes someone needs to be reminded.” Since I have submitted several articles here about table [...]

13, March | 4 comments

Rituals and Routines View All

Our Ceremony of Roses, Vow Renewal, and Re-collaring

A couple years ago, the MR and I decided to renew our wedding vows. We had been through a rocky start to our marriage and had transformed since originally marrying from a vanilla, egalitarian relationship to a kinky, Dominant and submissive one, and finally we had arrived at Master and slave. We felt at home [...]

16, August | Leave a comment

[Report] Writing Submissive Affirmations

Check out my new short report on writing submissive affirmations! If you’ve struggled with creating positive reinforcement and motivations in your daily life and submission then writing affirmations and using them just could be your key to happy submitting! Pick it up now! Download Now!

5, August | 1 comment

How I Started a Simple Protocol, and How You Can Too!

I didn’t always consider myself a slave with protocol. I’ve been with KnyghtMare for over 10 years and it’s been a journey of discovery the whole way. The idea of protocol and ritual to enhance our relationship came about in fits and starts, in small suggestions and ideas but it has grown. And that’s the [...]

22, February | 1 comment

Submissive Positions View All

Add The Bunny Dip to Your List of Submissive Positions for a Playboy Bunny Flair

How can you avoid ‘spillage’ when serving a drink in your sexiest fet wear? Try ‘the bunny dip’!

17, February | 1 comment

Regaining Submissive Mind-Space Through Ritual

Many submissives have jobs where they are managers, business owners, or in charge in some way or another. Sometimes it can be difficult to re-enter your submissive head-space at the end of a busy work day. A sub can use rituals in order to help her achieve the right mind-apace, leaving the outside world behind [...]

26, February | 13 comments

2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions – Day 14: Show Off Your Positions!

You have followed the whole series of Submissive Positions posts here at Submissive Guide. If not, start back at the beginning, I’ll wait for you here. Are you back? Ready to show them off? Today’s post is all about you! I want to see what you came up with for positions that worked best for [...]

4, May | Leave a comment

Talents and Skills View All

Book Review: The Ritual of Dominance & Submission: A Guide to High Protocol Dominance & Submission

One of the more selective skills of a D/s relationship is protocol. Many of the misconceptions is that it’s hard to do and that only the more serious power exchange relationships participate. KnyghtMare and I have some moderate protocol all the time since I love it and he likes control so anytime he gets opportunity [...]

26, June | Leave a comment

Master’s Banquet – A formal D/s Feast

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 9/28/13 This is a guest post from Slave Dove. I am unsure where it originated, but am sharing it here from a now defunct website. These dinners are what many would view as a “scene” but they are not play parties. No one is available for physical “use” it is formal [...]

6, January | Leave a comment

Bootblacking and Why I Love It

This is a guest post by Red Vinyl Kitty. You can read about her life as a slave kitty at Sub Mission. I was approached by LunaKM a few months ago to write a guest post for her blog.  I do not usually do guest posts, but she wanted me to write one about my [...]

12, February | 1 comment

Other Articles View All

Simply Service e-Zine: September 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: September 2005

We’re back again this month with another look back at a resource from the past.  Remember, much of the content of these newsletters is still relevant today so take some time to read it! From the newsletter’s description; Current contributors are all slave or submissive identified, and in real time relationships where obedience and service are necessary, valued skills, [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service e-Zine: August 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: August 2005

We’re back again this month with another look back at a resource from the past.  Remember, much of the content of these newsletters is still relevant today so take some time to read it! From the newsletter’s description; Current contributors are all slave or submissive identified, and in real time relationships where obedience and service are necessary, valued skills, [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service e-Zine: July 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: July 2005

I hope you are enjoying this look back on this wonderful resource. I know I am.  Remember, much of the content of these newsletters is still relevant today so take some time to read it! From the newsletter’s description; Current contributors are all slave or submissive identified, and in real time relationships where obedience and service are necessary, valued [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service e-Zine: June 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: June 2005

Let’s check out another lovely newsletter from Simply Service dating June 2005. Remember, much of the content of these newsletters is still relevant today so take some time to read it! From the newsletter’s description; Current contributors are all slave or submissive identified, and in real time relationships where obedience and service are necessary, valued skills, achieved over time. [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service e-Zine: May 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: May 2005

It’s time for another Simply Service newsletter. This one has some interesting communication articles and one really good one on leather care. Check it out! From the newsletter’s description; Current contributors are all slave or submissive identified, and in real time relationships where obedience and service are necessary, valued skills, achieved over time. I have been fortunate enough to [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
8 Secrets for Supporting a Stressed Dominant Partner

8 Secrets for Supporting a Stressed Dominant Partner

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 1-23-16 Stress comes in many forms. Perhaps your partner is having trouble at work. Or maybe he’s caring for his aging parents. Or perhaps there’s tension between your Dominant and an extended family member or close friend. Or maybe your Dominant is sick, suffering from a health problem or concern. [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships, Service
Simply Service e-Zine: April 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: April 2005

Today I bring you another Simply Service newsletter. If you have enjoyed the series up to now, you’ll want to read this one! From the newsletter’s description; Current contributors are all slave or submissive identified, and in real time relationships where obedience and service are necessary, valued skills, achieved over time. I have been fortunate enough to meet these [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service

[Video Post] What Does Service Submission REALLY Mean?

Service. It’s something that a lot of submissive say they are into giving. But what does that mean? I guess a lot of us, myself included, just assume that once you “get it” that you already understand what service entails, but the new submissives among us, and those that don’t perform service on a regular [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service, Video Posts
Simply Service e-Zine: March 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: March 2005

Today I bring you another Simply Service newsletter. This was an exceptionally lovely one and I highly recommend you check it out! From the newsletter’s description; Current contributors are all slave or submissive identified, and in real time relationships where obedience and service are necessary, valued skills, achieved over time. I have been fortunate enough to meet these lovely [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service e-Zine: February 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: February 2005

Last month I shared with you the first edition of an e-Zine that I loved when I first found submission and I’m continuing the re-run today with February’s issue. From the newsletter’s description; Current contributors are all slave or submissive identified, and in real time relationships where obedience and service are necessary, valued skills, achieved [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service

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