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Service

Everything we do is service, learn what gives you the heart to serve and what you can do with your talents.

DIY View All

Learning Your Way Around the Kitchen-Homemade Pizza Dough and Pizza Sauce

An easy recipe for pizza dough and pizza sauce by Tequilarose!

13, September | Leave a comment

Cheese Stuffed Meatballs & Magic Chocolate Flan Cake

I thought I’d share a couple of recipes that worked out really well and would be perfect for a special evening with your Master or a dinner party with guests.

29, April | Leave a comment

DIY BDSM Toy Instructions Online

I’ve started a list of all the places online where you can find instructions for DIY projects to fill your dungeon. Many are very cost efficient. I recommend looking at all of them!

26, March | 5 comments

Domestics View All

Learning Your Way Around the Kitchen-Copycat Ikea Meatballs

tequilarose shares her copycat meatballs recipe.

19, April | Leave a comment

31 Days To Better Domestic Service: Do Coupons Really Save You Money?

Not all coupons are for every family or shopper. That doesn’t mean that I can’t make coupons work for the way I shop. You can too.

31, October | Leave a comment

31 Days To Better Domestic Service: Shop in Season to Maximize Savings

Savvy shoppers know when the best time to get the greatest deals. I’ve got the details inside on when to shop for electronics, home furnishings, cars and more!

30, October | Leave a comment

Health and Beauty View All

Aging in the Lifestyle: Doing it with Grace

Maturity ripens a slave in the most delectable way. Learn about Mama Vi and her confidence in Leather as an older slave.

1, July | 4 comments

M/s and When Life Happens: Dealing With Health Challenges and Death

Illness and grief don’t have to be an experience that leaves the soul crushed and defeated, helping others hold on to the silver lining and lean into the light at the end of the tunnel no matter how bleak circumstances may seem.

3, September | 4 comments

Laney’s Top Ten Personal Hygiene Reminders

There are a lot of times that things are so obvious you think “surely no one has to be reminded.” However, if you spend any amount of time around people (vanilla, lifestyle, strangers etc) you will certainly notice that “yes, sometimes someone needs to be reminded.”

13, March | 4 comments

Rituals and Routines View All

Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 7 of 7) – In Closing

The last part of Ambrosio’s series on Leather and Etiquette. This article contains further reading, links, and resources you can use to improve your own knowledge!

10, April | Leave a comment

Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 6 of 7) – A Few Notes on High Protocol

While good manners are important in all situations, leather protocol should not be a source of anxiety for novice doms and subs. In part 6 of Ambrosio’s series on Protocol and Etiquette, a few rules for formal introductions, dining and general “vanilla” etiquette are covered.

27, March | Leave a comment

Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 5 of 7) – Flagging, Symbols, and Rituals

In this part of Ambrosio’s series, you learn all about Flagging, the Hanky code and Symbols or Rituals you can use to identify others interested in similar kinks and power exchange styles.

6, March | Leave a comment

Submissive Positions View All

Add The Bunny Dip to Your List of Submissive Positions for a Playboy Bunny Flair

How can you avoid ‘spillage’ when serving a drink in your sexiest fet wear? Try ‘the bunny dip’!

17, February | 1 comment

Regaining Submissive Mind-Space Through Ritual

Many submissives have jobs where they are managers, business owners, or in charge in some way or another. Sometimes it can be difficult to re-enter your submissive head-space at the end of a busy work day. A sub can use rituals in order to help her achieve the right mind-apace, leaving the outside world behind [...]

26, February | 13 comments

2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions – Day 14: Show Off Your Positions!

You have followed the whole series of Submissive Positions posts here at Submissive Guide. If not, start back at the beginning, I’ll wait for you here. Are you back? Ready to show them off? Today’s post is all about you! I want to see what you came up with for positions that worked best for [...]

4, May | Leave a comment

Talents and Skills View All

Book Review: The Ritual of Dominance & Submission: A Guide to High Protocol Dominance & Submission

If you are interested in protocol and want to read about high protocol and what it might look like in your dynamic I suggest you give this book a try.

26, June | Leave a comment

Master’s Banquet – A formal D/s Feast

Formal D/s dinners are what many would view as a “scene” but they are not play parties.

6, January | Leave a comment

Bootblacking and Why I Love It

The thing for me which is so very wonderful about polishing Master’s shoes is that it is something that I can do on my own to show Master how much I am thinking about him. My focus is always on what I can do in order to make Master’s life better.

12, February | 1 comment

Other Articles View All

Simply Service eZine: May 2008

Simply Service eZine: May 2008

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from May 2008. Topics include Productivity Tools, Is Slavery Real?, Rules of Bedding and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service eZine: November 2006

Simply Service eZine: November 2006

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from November 2006. Topics include Personal Responsibility in BDSM, The Role of Slavery in Modern Society, a Dominant’s View of Service and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service eZine: February 2006

Simply Service eZine: February 2006

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from February 2006. Topics include nonverbal communication, smoking pipe service, traveling and tipping guide and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service

Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 3 of 7) – Cruising With Class

Ambrosio covers “cruising” in part 6 of this series on Leather protocol and etiquette. Take head of the warnings and tips for those casual experiences.

Leave a comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Rituals and Routines
Simply Service e-Zine: November 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: November 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from November 2005. Topics include time management, decluttering, domestic violence in BDSM relationships and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service

Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 2 of 7) – More Specific Guidelines

In this part of Ambrosio’s series on Leather protocol and etiquette; appropriate behavior at munches and other gatherings where socializing happens as well as how to handle trolls and other inappropriate behavior.

Leave a comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Rituals and Routines
Simply Service e-Zine: September 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: September 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from September 2005. Topics include Time Management, Encouraging departure, Ledgerbook Service and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service e-Zine: August 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: August 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from August 2005. Topics include Aromatherapy Uses in Service, Speech Protocols, Grace in Service and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Our Ceremony of Roses, Vow Renewal, and Re-collaring

Our Ceremony of Roses, Vow Renewal, and Re-collaring

There are a lot of people curious about collaring ceremonies and the such, and since we had a pretty open Ceremony of Roses, I have decided to share the ceremony itself.

Leave a comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Relationships, Rituals and Routines
[Report] Writing Submissive Affirmations

[Report] Writing Submissive Affirmations

Check out my new short report on writing submissive affirmations! If you’ve struggled with creating positive reinforcement and motivations in your daily life and submission then writing affirmations and using them just could be your key to happy submitting!

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Rituals and Routines