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DIY View All

Learning Your Way Around the Kitchen-Homemade Pizza Dough and Pizza Sauce

An easy recipe for pizza dough and pizza sauce by Tequilarose!

13, September | Leave a comment

Cheese Stuffed Meatballs & Magic Chocolate Flan Cake

I thought I’d switch things up a bit and share a couple of recipes that worked out really well and would be perfect for a special evening with your Master or a dinner party with guests. The menu will consist of homemade ground chicken meatballs stuffed with cheese and Magic Chocolate Flan cake from scratch! [...]

29, April | Leave a comment

DIY BDSM Toy Instructions Online

I’m crafty. I learned how to make BDSM gear almost within months of my entrance to the lifestyle. I love how easy some of these are. I always get compliments for my work. I’ve started a list of all the places online where you can find instructions for DIY projects to fill your dungeon. Many [...]

26, March | 5 comments

Domestics View All

Learning Your Way Around the Kitchen-Copycat Ikea Meatballs

tequilarose shares her copycat meatballs recipe.

19, April | Leave a comment

31 Days To Better Domestic Service: Do Coupons Really Save You Money?

Coupons and couponing have been given a bad wrap with the reality TV shows that show extreme coupon users. I know I’ve sat in awe of the people who use hundreds of coupons for their grocery order and somehow get their purchase to mere cents. Of course what they aren’t sharing in the TV show [...]

31, October | Leave a comment

31 Days To Better Domestic Service: Shop in Season to Maximize Savings

By now you should have a handle on your stockpile, meal plan and understand how to use a price book. Today we’ll cover shopping in season. When we talk about shopping in season it often relates to produce but that’s not the only thing that has a season. What other things can you think of [...]

30, October | Leave a comment

Health and Beauty View All

Aging in the Lifestyle: Doing it with Grace

Maturity ripens a slave in the most delectable way. Learn about Mama Vi and her confidence in Leather as an older slave.

1, July | 4 comments

M/s and When Life Happens: Dealing With Health Challenges and Death

When we imagine an ideal world, it’s pretty safe to say that for most of us, that perfect world wouldn’t include illness, disabilities, and death. Everyone would have bodies that are strong, capable, and able to do any and all activities the heart desires. On this side of creation, that type of world doesn’t exist, [...]

3, September | 4 comments

Laney’s Top Ten Personal Hygiene Reminders

There are a lot of times that things are so obvious you think “surely no one has to be reminded.” However, if you spend any amount of time around people (vanilla, lifestyle, strangers etc) you will certainly notice that “yes, sometimes someone needs to be reminded.” Since I have submitted several articles here about table [...]

13, March | 4 comments

Rituals and Routines View All

Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 7 of 7) – In Closing

The last part of Ambrosio’s series on Leather and Etiquette. This article contains further reading, links, and resources you can use to improve your own knowledge!

10, April | Leave a comment

Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 6 of 7) – A Few Notes on High Protocol

While good manners are important in all situations, leather protocol should not be a source of anxiety for novice doms and subs. In part 6 of Ambrosio’s series on Protocol and Etiquette, a few rules for formal introductions, dining and general “vanilla” etiquette are covered.

27, March | Leave a comment

Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 5 of 7) – Flagging, Symbols, and Rituals

In this part of Ambrosio’s series, you learn all about Flagging, the Hanky code and Symbols or Rituals you can use to identify others interested in similar kinks and power exchange styles.

6, March | Leave a comment

Submissive Positions View All

Add The Bunny Dip to Your List of Submissive Positions for a Playboy Bunny Flair

How can you avoid ‘spillage’ when serving a drink in your sexiest fet wear? Try ‘the bunny dip’!

17, February | 1 comment

Regaining Submissive Mind-Space Through Ritual

Many submissives have jobs where they are managers, business owners, or in charge in some way or another. Sometimes it can be difficult to re-enter your submissive head-space at the end of a busy work day. A sub can use rituals in order to help her achieve the right mind-apace, leaving the outside world behind [...]

26, February | 13 comments

2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions – Day 14: Show Off Your Positions!

You have followed the whole series of Submissive Positions posts here at Submissive Guide. If not, start back at the beginning, I’ll wait for you here. Are you back? Ready to show them off? Today’s post is all about you! I want to see what you came up with for positions that worked best for [...]

4, May | Leave a comment

Talents and Skills View All

Book Review: The Ritual of Dominance & Submission: A Guide to High Protocol Dominance & Submission

One of the more selective skills of a D/s relationship is protocol. Many of the misconceptions is that it’s hard to do and that only the more serious power exchange relationships participate. KnyghtMare and I have some moderate protocol all the time since I love it and he likes control so anytime he gets opportunity [...]

26, June | Leave a comment

Master’s Banquet – A formal D/s Feast

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 9/28/13 This is a guest post from Slave Dove. I am unsure where it originated, but am sharing it here from a now defunct website. These dinners are what many would view as a “scene” but they are not play parties. No one is available for physical “use” it is formal [...]

6, January | Leave a comment

Bootblacking and Why I Love It

This is a guest post by Red Vinyl Kitty. You can read about her life as a slave kitty at Sub Mission. I was approached by LunaKM a few months ago to write a guest post for her blog.  I do not usually do guest posts, but she wanted me to write one about my [...]

12, February | 1 comment

Other Articles View All

Simply Service eZine: May 2008

Simply Service eZine: May 2008

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from May 2008. Topics include Productivity Tools, Is Slavery Real?, Rules of Bedding and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service eZine: November 2006

Simply Service eZine: November 2006

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from November 2006. Topics include Personal Responsibility in BDSM, The Role of Slavery in Modern Society, a Dominant’s View of Service and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service eZine: February 2006

Simply Service eZine: February 2006

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from February 2006. Topics include nonverbal communication, smoking pipe service, traveling and tipping guide and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service

Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 3 of 7) – Cruising With Class

Ambrosio covers “cruising” in part 6 of this series on Leather protocol and etiquette. Take head of the warnings and tips for those casual experiences.

Leave a comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Rituals and Routines
Simply Service e-Zine: November 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: November 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from November 2005. Topics include time management, decluttering, domestic violence in BDSM relationships and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service

Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 2 of 7) – More Specific Guidelines

In this part of Ambrosio’s series on Leather protocol and etiquette; appropriate behavior at munches and other gatherings where socializing happens as well as how to handle trolls and other inappropriate behavior.

Leave a comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Rituals and Routines
Simply Service e-Zine: September 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: September 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from September 2005. Topics include Time Management, Encouraging departure, Ledgerbook Service and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service e-Zine: August 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: August 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from August 2005. Topics include Aromatherapy Uses in Service, Speech Protocols, Grace in Service and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Our Ceremony of Roses, Vow Renewal, and Re-collaring

Our Ceremony of Roses, Vow Renewal, and Re-collaring

There are a lot of people curious about collaring ceremonies and the such, and since we had a pretty open Ceremony of Roses, I have decided to share the ceremony itself.

Leave a comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Relationships, Rituals and Routines
[Report] Writing Submissive Affirmations

[Report] Writing Submissive Affirmations

Check out my new short report on writing submissive affirmations! If you’ve struggled with creating positive reinforcement and motivations in your daily life and submission then writing affirmations and using them just could be your key to happy submitting!

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Rituals and Routines

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