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BDSM Fundamentals

You’ll learn a lot about how to explore BDSM from a novice viewpoint, Safety is emphasized here. This category is for the play aspects of kink – the rope bondage, spanking, pain play sensations that we tend to encompass in kinky sex.

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[Video Post] Define This! Punishment and Funishment

[Video Post] Define This! Punishment and Funishment

In this video series, I define terms that readers have asked me about! This one is the comparison of funishment and punishment. Do you have a term you’d like defined? Let me know.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Glossary, Video Posts
What is a Fetish?

What is a Fetish?

This is a guest post by Mistress Steel. It was part of her Steel’s Chamber Scrolls which is now defunct. Shared with Permission. Fetish. An object of extreme or irrational reverence or devotion. The often pathological displacement of erotic or libidinal interest sufficient to stimulate actions of worship. Often regarded as a fixation of the mind [...]

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Am I Little or What? Discovering the Types of Littles

Like in the BDSM lifestyle, there’s a lot of different labels and terminology when it comes to the world of age players, littles, adult babies, and diaper lovers. Like most people, one person usually doesn’t just fit one definition and there tends to be a blending of labels, which is totally cool because I fully [...]

7 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: BDSM Glossary, Beginner Basics, Community
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The Best Resources for Littles, Adult Babies, and Diaper Lovers

About a month ago, I got an email from a reader telling me that she and her dominant are interested in the Daddy/little girl lifestyle and asked me if I knew of any other online resources other than my previous articles that have appeared here on Submissive Guide. Sadly to say, I didn’t have many [...]

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: BDSM Glossary, Research Pages
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What an Alpha BabyGirl Is to Me

The more I research BDSM the more I feel at home in the community – I realize that aspects of myself that I always thought were weird and unacceptable are permissive and actually quite normal here. The more I research the more I realize that I epitomize some of these roles without trying. When I [...]

8 comments Posted by andyiccee | Posted in: BDSM Glossary, Mindset

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Wax Play Review and Thoughts

Wax Play Review and Thoughts

Let’s share a few, quick, thoughts and bits of advice if you’ve been toying with the idea of adding wax to your toy chest. Explore what wax play is and isn’t, types of wax that are safe to use for this type of play and the variety of ways to go about it!

2 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Play and Sex
BDSM How To: Wax Play

BDSM How To: Wax Play

A fantastic little how to get started with Wax Play! Important points include candle temperature and what you need to get going with your own scene.

How To Get Over Being Angry When Punished

How To Get Over Being Angry When Punished

Having a hard time getting past being angry with your Dominant when you’ve been punished? Mrs. Darling provides some great advice on processing your emotions surrounding corporal punishment.

3 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Ask Anything, BDSM Fundamentals
Some Issues with Consensuality

Some Issues with Consensuality

As in most things, the meaning of consent is far from simple.

2 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
[Infographic] Bondage for Beginners

[Infographic] Bondage for Beginners

A lovely infographic (huge image with knowledge) for Bondage Beginners.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals
What is Aftercare?

What is Aftercare?

Most often we associate this term with the time frame immediately following a ‘scene’. However, this term is equally applicable at many other points and times and many times is not associated with BDSM or D/s at all.

1 comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals
5 Myths About Dominants You Need To Know

5 Myths About Dominants You Need To Know

There are plenty of misconceptions about BDSM, and Dominants are no exception. Here’s 5 myths you can debunk right now.

6 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Relationships
5 Myths About Submissives and Submission

5 Myths About Submissives and Submission

Let’s talk about the different myths surrounding submissives and submission. Some may surprise you.

10 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals
Resources For CBT (Cock and Ball Torture)

Resources For CBT (Cock and Ball Torture)

Hi luna,My Sir has tasked me with researching and carrying out CBT.  I have no experience with it and am looking for a how-to.  Honestly I’m afraid of hurting him and need to be confident when this happens…maybe watch a video so I know what to expect?  I have found some information; do you have [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, BDSM Fundamentals
Butt Plugs for Training and Pleasure

Butt Plugs for Training and Pleasure

This is a guest post by Mina Button. The idea of wearing a butt plug outside the bedroom is an exciting one. It shows up in lots of erotica, especially in connection with the idea of “anal training,” where a submissive learns to open up their ass for their Dominant. It has the potential to [...]

3 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Play and Sex

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