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Current Submissive Journal Prompt
- What ten words would you use to describe … May 16, 2012What ten words would you use to describe yourself to someone? […]
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A Day in the Life: fuzzyP
This is a guest post by fuzzyP for the Day in the Life Series. I was asked by luna to write about one of my typical days in service to my Dominant. While that task is straight-forward enough, the challenge lies in making one of my typical days entertaining and illuminating for you, the reader. [...]
Research Page: Male Submission
Today I’m bringing together the resources I’ve collected about male submission and Female-led relationships. Much of what I found was porn, so it is needless to say that there is very little of substance about this topic. I appreciate that fuzzyP writes about it for Submissive Guide and look to any other male submissives who [...]
Is Male Submission a Form of Weakness?
This is a guest post by fuzzyP. I’ve put this question off long enough. It’s one of those questions that can cause a person to take a long, uncomfortable look at oneself, and I don’t know too many people who like doing that. My answer may not be quite what you expect. Men are strong, [...]
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BDSM To Cure Insomnia
Insomnia is a common condition. I have seen estimates that over half of all adults experience difficulties sleeping a few nights per week or more. I am not a doctor or expert on health issues but I have found something which helps me get to sleep at night: BDSM! There are two ways I have [...]
A Doormat Submissive?
A common derogatory word used in submissive circles is “doormat” as in, you don’t want to be a doormat submissive. Rarely is it talked about beyond saying that you should not let your Dominant walk all over you. I agree of course, but for the inexperienced, understanding what that really means can come after being [...]
Single in the Scene Part I: Boundaries
Recently, I was contemplating the situation of being single in the Scene because of an email I received from someone concerning interacting with male dominants. Essentially, she responded to the sexual whims of the men she met online from the space of not having any boundaries set. Part of her inquiry to me was why [...]
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Don’t Be a Shelf-Sitter
There is a problem that is more commonly within online submission that I refer to as shelf-sitting. I have experienced it and am slowly seeing it happen to others that I know from online communities. It is sad that this is occurring but perhaps I could shed some light into what it is and perhaps [...]
Making the Transition from Online to Face-to-Face Submission
This is the first post from our new contributor LadySneak! Please welcome her to the community and enjoy her first contribution about her personal struggle with moving from online to real life. When I first started considering making the jump from being a strictly online submissive to a real life submissive, I really couldn’t find [...]
When You’re Left to Beating Yourself Up – Online SM at a Glance
Online BDSM relationships come in many different flavors. As I’ve explored before, they can be a good novice outlet for learning more about yourself in a safe, relatively anonymous environment. I started out in an online relationship only because the fear of being kinky (and an unwilling husband) kept me locked behind my computer. I [...]
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lunaKM is Taking a Break
Hi folks, I’m taking a break from writing for a bit. I’ve been writing at least 3 times a week for 3 years. I’m online wasting time too much these days. Things at home have suffered because of my intense focus online. Master has asked me to realign my priorities and this I must listen. [...]
Fantastic Submissive Videos for Learning and Growth on Kink Academy
From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 2-4-12 If you can’t get out to munches in your community or conventions held around the world the next best thing is a website focused on kink education. I have nothing but praise for Kink Academy and the quality educators and topics that they cover on Kink Academy. Here at Submissive [...]
lunaKM’s Weekend Reflections
It’s Tax Day here in the US, which means (since it falls on a Sunday) that you have until midnight Tuesday night to file your taxes or they are late! Extra days rock when you procrastinate. We mailed ours just yesterday and now we are even poorer (self-employment sucks for taxes). How did you do? [...]
When Mommy/slave is Ill…
Let’s face it. Not everyone out there is graced with excellent health, some of us are even chronically ill. Myself, I face being on dialysis along with Lupus and Fibro. I am in a ton of pain a good deal of the time and have 3 wonderful children, 2 with special needs that require that [...]
Upcoming Series on Speaking Submissively
I have to admit that I have always been curious about how vocalizations can give someone a different personality, class or quality. Dialects, accents and word choices are all part of a person’s speech style. So I have been researching and investigating how a submissive could change the way they speak in order to portray [...]
I Will Get There Someday
Inspired by the song “I Will Get There” by Boys II Men This post is for all the single submissives that read this site. I know there are a large percentage of you so there is no reason to be silent any longer. I know the pain and loneliness you are going through. I know [...]
SGBHC #5 | That Submissive Feeling
Welcome everyone to the Submissive Guide Blog Hop Challenge (SGBHC)! I am so thrilled to see you here! First, the challenge… Submissive Challenge #5 That Submissive Feeling What brings out your most powerful submissive/slave mindset? Is it a regular occurrence in your life or do you long for that submissive/slave feeling more often? Share a time where you [...]
I Don’t Want to Complain Too Much
I am a high maintenance submissive. I’m well aware of the work that my Master has to constantly do to keep me happy and to keep him well-pleased. I’m not ashamed of it because that is who I always have been and he loves me for it. He even encourages some of it. Much of [...]
What is Submission to You?
From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 11-19-11 Thinking back on the beginning of my exploration into submission I came to realize some simple things about submission. It’s personal. So many of the websites, including Submissive Guide try hard to define submission in terms that others can understand and hopefully identify with, but there are plenty of [...]
24/7 Slavery
This post is written by Rick’s Fucktoy. It was first posted on Sensual Service, which I closed when I opened Submissive Guide. 24/7. All day, every day. Is it possible to live any lifestyle to that degree? More to the point, is it possible to live *this* lifestyle that I’ve chosen for myself on a 24/7 [...]
My name is lunaKM and I’m a full-time stay-at-home submissive in a D/s relationship.
I started blogging when I was exploring D/s online in 2003. I needed advice, mentors and helping hands. Since then I've made it my mission to help novice submissives understand themselves and the services they wish to provide. 
