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After the Scene is Over – Clean-up, Aftercare, and Check-Ins

Submissive Guide has a lot of resources on clean up, aftercare and check-ins that get lost in the archives. I’ve pulled together what I have here, as well as all over the web to make this a comprehensive post for all things “after the scene”. Bookmark it, share it, use it.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Safety
Talking Shop – Tips for Purchasing BDSM Toys

Talking Shop – Tips for Purchasing BDSM Toys

How to choose what to buy and where to buy it from and what sort of factors that should be considered during the joys of adult toy shopping!

Comments Off Posted by thisgirl | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Your Right to Choose-Feminism and the Lifestyle

Your Right to Choose-Feminism and the Lifestyle

I know that being a feminist means different things to different people. To me, feminism has always been about having the right to choose to lead the kind of life that I want to.

20 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Community
Everything I Know About Submission I Learned from my Cat

Everything I Know About Submission I Learned from my Cat

The other day I was watching my cats and had a sudden realization that they way they live could have lessons for me and my submission if I wanted to see them. The truth is that you can pick up lessons everywhere you look if you want to.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
The Top 7 Posts of 2012 on Submissive Guide

The Top 7 Posts of 2012 on Submissive Guide

I’d like to showcase several of these posts from the last year of Submissive Guide.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive

DIY BDSM Toy Instructions Online

I’ve started a list of all the places online where you can find instructions for DIY projects to fill your dungeon. Many are very cost efficient. I recommend looking at all of them!

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, DIY
What Do You Do When Top Drop Rules Your Relationship?

What Do You Do When Top Drop Rules Your Relationship?

He saw my eagerness and it scared him. He had seen it before. He saw my willingness to a poly relationship and it petrified him. You see he had accomplished his dream relationship before me and it had crumbled because of others. I scared him because I was the dream again.

10 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Play and Sex, Relationships
Ask Anything | Open Relationship Struggles

Ask Anything | Open Relationship Struggles

hello. I am a fairly new female submissive, my dom being another female who has been a major part of most of my life, this is just how our relationship has evolved. I understand how an open relationship works, but my last one instilled some major jealousy issues within me. I know to whom i [...]

Comments Off Posted by SehAnru | Posted in: Ask Anything
To Hug or Not To Hug: Etiquette for Giving Hugs in BDSM Situations

To Hug or Not To Hug: Etiquette for Giving Hugs in BDSM Situations

Hands and arms embracing another person, so what is wrong with a hug?

1 comment Posted by LaneyDoll | Posted in: Community
When You’re Left to Beating Yourself Up – Online SM at a Glance

When You’re Left to Beating Yourself Up – Online SM at a Glance

Since the only face time I would ever have with someone would be through webcams I knew I’d have to do the beating myself. It’s not easy.

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Online Submission
Intense Orgasms Need Extreme Toys from Extreme Restraints

Intense Orgasms Need Extreme Toys from Extreme Restraints

This post features Submissive Guide affiliates, meaning that if you buy something featured, you’ll be financially supporting this site’s mission of bringing awesomeness to readers everywhere.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Sponsors
Fainting, Headaches and Nausea: Facing Sudden Illness During Play/Scene Time

Fainting, Headaches and Nausea: Facing Sudden Illness During Play/Scene Time

When we play we have a chance that the blissful time we are experiencing will end well or may end suddenly from something unexpected. Yes we do everything we can to avoid having to stop play but when sudden illness takes hold the best thing is to stop and treat the problem.

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Safety
Up in Flames: The Basics of Fireplay

Up in Flames: The Basics of Fireplay

This is another guest post for the BDSM Play Feature here on SubmissiveGuide. This post about Fire Play is by SehAnru. Enjoy! I have always been a fire bug and am a volunteer fire fighter. So when I became interested in BDSM and heard about fire play it was definitely top of my list of [...]

9 comments Posted by SehAnru | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals
One month into my first real time D/S relationship: A Training Review

One month into my first real time D/S relationship: A Training Review

This is a Guest Post by A. She is a new submissive in her first 24/7 dynamic. I received this wonderfully written review of her first 30 days and she offered to share it with everyone here. Enjoy! It has come to my attention after reading submissiveguide.com that my training with Sir has already begun, [...]

26 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Submissive and Slave: A Personal View

Submissive and Slave: A Personal View

This post was written by Rayne. You can follow her twitter for active and interesting conversation. I’m pretty big on book definitions. So for me, the word “submissive” has always been an adjective describing a personality trait. When I got involved in BDSM, it became, for me, a heading, of sorts, describing a group of [...]

3 comments Posted by Rayne Millaray | Posted in: Beginner Basics

Best BDSM Fiction for Hot Steamy Nights

I love reading BDSM fiction, erotica and other service books. I broke my kinky teeth on the Story of O so I can’t ignore it on this list, but it’s not the best of the best. I’d like to offer up the books that I love and enjoy to read; most of which I like [...]

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
Exploring Being Submissive in BDSM Play

Exploring Being Submissive in BDSM Play

Submission during play can be overwhelming. How do you understand what you might like? What about the buzz words of subspace and sub drop? One of Submissive Guide’s goals is to help novice submissives understand BDSM and their place in it. To help you begin your exploration I’ve put together a list of the posts [...]

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals
The Basics of Negotiating a BDSM Scene

The Basics of Negotiating a BDSM Scene

It can be very scary approaching a Dominant and asking them to play with you. The butterflies in your belly can make it very difficult to take that first step. It can be every worse if you two don’t negotiate the scene so that you get what you want out of it and s/he does [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
The Roundtable: D/s with Kids At Home

The Roundtable: D/s with Kids At Home

Every so often I want to open up the blog for you to share and teach me on a topic that I don’t know a lot about. This is your chance to teach me and the other readers of this blog. I encourage you to comment, subscribe to the comments and keep coming back to [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Community, Relationships, Roundtable Discussions
Where to Buy a Collar Online

Where to Buy a Collar Online

Places to buy a collar are numerous. Each relationship has a different idea of what the collar should look like. Listed below are a few of the many places you can go online to shop for that perfect collar. I’ve broken them up into types of collars the store offers. If they offer more than [...]

29 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Play and Sex
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