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31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 3: What is a Submissive Journal?

31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 3: What is a Submissive Journal?

A journal is the most common way to write and ponder your inner workings and mind. Diaries have existed since the dawn of pen and paper and they will likely never go out of style. Often these are more private than what can be said of online journals.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: 31 Days of Submissive Journaling, Beginner Basics, Personal Growth
Ask lunaKM – Roleplay Scenarios, Unable to Kneel and Boost of Confidence

Ask lunaKM – Roleplay Scenarios, Unable to Kneel and Boost of Confidence

Dear lunaKM, My question involves role play, I was wondering if there are some scenarios that are available to give an individual some idea of how to start a scene. And or what kind of scene would be the easiest to get started with because I am a beginner and I usually go my instinct [...]

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
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What is Primal Play?

A primal play scene may look like wrestling or even martial arts. There may be pressure points involved and even rope bondage, but the thing that sets primal play apart from other types is raw, emotional, sexual feelings displayed.

13 comments Posted by slavekathy | Posted in: BDSM Glossary
How to Safely Manage Sub Frenzy

How to Safely Manage Sub Frenzy

How to manage sub frenzy so that it leaves you smarter, stronger and more prepared to handle the rush.

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Single Submissives Need Personal Responsibility

Single Submissives Need Personal Responsibility

Knowing how to keep yourself safe and guard your vulnerability until you can expose it to the one you trust is a valuable trait.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive, Personal Growth
Finding My Submissive Focus With a Mantra

Finding My Submissive Focus With a Mantra

If you think that a personal mantra would be a great way to help you keep yourself in the proper submissive mindset, I encourage you to speak with your owner to come up with one that works for you.

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Learning About BDSM on YouTube.com

Learning About BDSM on YouTube.com

There’s a treasure trove of information if you know where to look which is what I’m going to share with you here. Today’s newsletter is a listing of all the really interesting BDSM education-focused videos on Youtube I could find when I was surfing around one day.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive, Play and Sex

What is Non-sexual Play?

This post is part of an effort to provide a glossary for novice submissives of words commonly seen across this site and in the BDSM community. If somebody said to you that they only wanted to have non-sexual play, how would you interpret this? Does it mean no intercourse but oral is ok? Does it [...]

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Glossary

In Readiness – Scene Care and Aftercare

Whether you are preparing for a scene or well into aftercare it’s always handy to have tools and resources at hand that can help you through all the stages of the play time many of us adore. I’ve gathered a list of the articles and essays on this site that are related to scene care and aftercare into one list.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Active Submission Means Always Improving Yourself

Active Submission Means Always Improving Yourself

Being effective in submission should make you happy in your life. Far too many times I see novices and experienced submissives floundering and wondering how to make their Owner happy without a thought to how to make themselves happy too.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Personal Growth
Solo Coaching – The CREATE Model

Solo Coaching – The CREATE Model

Today I’m going to cover a coaching model that I learned about that will work quite well for our submissive journey. It’s called the CREATE model. The CREATE system is a model that when used will ensure you stay on track

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
Orgasm on Command Training – The Process for the Submissive

Orgasm on Command Training – The Process for the Submissive

When you enter a training program as intensive as orgasm training you can get overwhelmed easily. There is a lot of weight on the submissive to perform and succeed.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Service: There’s an App for that!

Service: There’s an App for that!

Well, there’s not really an App for service. Wouldn’t it be nice if there were? However, there are a lot of Apps out there that can make running your household (and your Master!) a lot easier!

5 comments Posted by nan {SL} | Posted in: Service
Perspectives: Erotic Spanking

Perspectives: Erotic Spanking

Erotic spanking. It is probably the most common kinky play activity and is done in a lot of relationships that may know nothing about kink at all to those who are extremely kinky. It’s just a hot thing to do during sex. I was being spanked long before I entered the scene. I hope that I never stop being spanked.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex

Common Pervertables Around the Home You Can Use for BDSM Play

Pervertables are everyday common items that can be used for kinky purposes. Starting to build your toybox can be as simple as rummaging through your kitchen or closet. Here are some ideas for your own toybox.

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
A Day in the Life: fuzzyP

A Day in the Life: fuzzyP

This is a guest post by fuzzyP for the Day in the Life Series.

3 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Male Submission
The Secret of Communicating When You Are Shy

The Secret of Communicating When You Are Shy

Open communication is complicated by shyness. Addressing that shyness could help you open up to your partner and others instead of the social discomfort you constantly feel. You can get over being shy and start living your life free from social awkwardness.

The Importance of Taking Your Time Exploring Submission Before Starting a Relationship

The Importance of Taking Your Time Exploring Submission Before Starting a Relationship

At one time or another we all tend to rashly jump into a D/s relationship without really knowing the Dominant that we are surrendering to.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Personal Growth

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