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What Do I Call My Dominant?

What Do I Call My Dominant?

A Dominant can have a variety of titles. Which one will you pick? We have a small list of common and not so common names you could use for your Dominant. Check out the list and find the one that feels the best to you or use it to inspire your own ideas for Dominant titles!

Leave a comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Embracing Your Label – Submissive Meditation Monday

Embracing Your Label – Submissive Meditation Monday

You are not your label. Your label is not going to define who you are.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Ask lunaKM – Final Tests of Submission, BBWs in Kink and Dominant Titles

Ask lunaKM – Final Tests of Submission, BBWs in Kink and Dominant Titles

Dear lunaKM, I recently met a Dom online and corresponded with him for over a month. He made it clear from the beginning what his ‘rules’ were and I agreed to them in principle though I also requested some limits of my own as this was to be my first Master/slave relationship. During the months [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Submissive Advent – Day 11: Pancake Identity

Submissive Advent – Day 11: Pancake Identity

How many times in your submissive journey have you thought about the words we use to identify ourselves and feel that they just don’t feel quite right?

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar
Newsflash: Feeding His Dominance Is Not Topping From Below

Newsflash: Feeding His Dominance Is Not Topping From Below

Oftentimes, with novice submissives, it is assumed that showing any sort of desire for something that was not suggested by the Dominant would be topping from the bottom. Let me tell you now, having desires and asking for them to be fulfilled is not topping from the bottom.

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Mindset
Why Do Dominants Insist on Being Called Sir?

Why Do Dominants Insist on Being Called Sir?

Was it a matter of respect the Dominant thought they had earned? Was it a matter of protocol? What really was the issue behind not wanting to say that 3 letter word to a Dominant?

22 comments Posted by LadySneak | Posted in: Rituals and Routines
Altered Submissive Speech – Thoughts and Ideas on How to Implement Third Person Speech and other Protocols

Altered Submissive Speech – Thoughts and Ideas on How to Implement Third Person Speech and other Protocols

In all situations, altering speech and writing is to do an important task of reminding the person that they are not in control of themselves, which includes their speech. They are asked to use deference in situations that call for it and even to learn a new way to talk to keep them in the role.

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Community
How to Use FetLife to Broaden Your BDSM Learning

How to Use FetLife to Broaden Your BDSM Learning

I’d like to walk you through the ways that I use to find information and continue my learning with FetLife.

12 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Personal Growth, Play and Sex
Ask Anything | What is a slave, sub, and a bottom?

Ask Anything | What is a slave, sub, and a bottom?

SehAnru i have been reading the submissives guide pages and i think of myself as Master’s slave, but maybe you could clarify the differences between being a sub, a slave and a bottom. my master has always called me slave, but we aren’t in a 24/7 relationship (he has a girlfriend, but doesn’t live with [...]

1 comment Posted by SehAnru | Posted in: Ask Anything

Add Your Favorite BDSM Books Reading List to Your Submissive Training Resume

Since the beginning of Submissive Guide I have been writing essays to help you build your service/submissive/slave resume. This is the living document of your experience and training on different tasks and a variety of relationships. If you are interested in reading the previous posts about the Training Resume I suggest you start at the [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Training Resume
Cyber Submission and Exploring D/s Online

Cyber Submission and Exploring D/s Online

Today’s post comes from Jessie Beth, a submissive pet in a D/s relationship with experience in online submission. Thank you Jessie Beth! Online D/s is perhaps one of the most controversial subjects in the Dominance and submission community. The stance i will take on this subject, based on online D/s relationships of my own, is [...]

23 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Online Submission

Don’t Embarrass Yourself: Learn the Etiquette for Play Parties Before You Go

Each social situation we expose ourselves to has it’s own set of rules and behaviors. This is also true of BDSM events, perhaps even moreso. A play party will have different rules at each location you may attend one. There will be established rules as well as house/location rules. There are also unspoken rules that [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Play and Sex

All Female Submissives are Bisexual and Other BDSM Myths

The world is full of false truths. These false truths tend to be the assumptions of the uninformed or the beliefs of those who want to scare novices out of their wits. Many of these are because of a narrow view of the world or an inability to accept varying viewpoints. In this post I’m [...]

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals

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The Differences Between Bottom, Masochist, Submissive and Slave

The Differences Between Bottom, Masochist, Submissive and Slave

As a point of personal opinion I’d like to define the differences between very basic terms so that there is no confusion as to who I am referring to when I mention either of these terms. I write this guide in my perspective and provide my mentorship and guidance with these terms clearly defined for [...]

51 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics