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Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Community
31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 22 – How to Manage Negative Comments Without Rage

31 Days of Submissive Journaling: Day 22 – How to Manage Negative Comments Without Rage

Accepting criticism is never an easy thing to do. Learn how to curb your knee-jerk responses and anger to keep your readers coming back and to also attract new readers.

Comments Off Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: 31 Days of Submissive Journaling, Beginner Basics
Channeling Guilt with Housework

Channeling Guilt with Housework

I think that housework is a good way to channel any overwhelming emotion – in my case guilt or sadness

12 comments Posted by andyiccee | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Mindset, Rituals and Routines
Coming Out As Kinky: Food for Thought

Coming Out As Kinky: Food for Thought

I am glad to help reduce the stigma surrounding kink. If you are considering coming out kinky, give this article a read.

2 comments Posted by andyiccee | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Personal Growth, Relationships
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Finding Your Tribe-The Importance of the Kink Community

I realized there was a lot out there I was missing and how important it was to get involved in the local groups and to have mentors and other s-types that I could talk to about things.

5 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Relationships, Views & More...
What’s My Age Again? Being Little and Growing Older

What’s My Age Again? Being Little and Growing Older

There are days where my biological age kinda screws with my little age. This is something that all littles go through.

4 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
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Feeling Down After a Play Session? You Could Have Sub Drop

As the day progressed, I felt sadder. I had trouble focusing on what I needed to do and confusion because we just shared some really great time together – what did I have to be sad about?

8 comments Posted by moonlight | Posted in: Play and Sex
On Perfectionism as a Submissive

On Perfectionism as a Submissive

None of us have it together. None of us are perfect. But we can learn from each other, cheer each other on when we falter and get inspired by our successes.

8 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
Is he Dominant or Domineering?

Is he Dominant or Domineering?

Luna, I got involved with a dominant man, long distance then face to face. I knew him as a friend and he guided me into his spanko world. Somehow my experience left me debased and questioning is he dominant or just domineering. He was condescending to me even knowing that I never been spanked. Insisted [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Safety
Stop Comparing Yourself With Others – My Submission Isn’t Better Than Yours

Stop Comparing Yourself With Others – My Submission Isn’t Better Than Yours

I know being competitive is a part of human nature, but the constant comparison of yourself to others doesn’t do anyone, especially you any good.

Comments Off Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
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Back Off Bitches! Feeling Territorial and Jealousy as a Slave

There’s nothing cute at all in being a territorial/jealous slave. That’s a fact. Yet, so many suffer from this affliction – sounds dramatic, but truly it’s definitely fitting.

26 comments Posted by charmed blyss | Posted in: Mindset, Personal Growth, Relationships
Single In the Scene Part VIII: Transformation Happens

Single In the Scene Part VIII: Transformation Happens

I had to learn that if I’m doing the surrender journey right, a transformation is gonna happen, plain and simple!

3 comments Posted by charmed blyss | Posted in: Mindset
Final Preparations: Do You Know Your Dominant’s Final Wishes?

Final Preparations: Do You Know Your Dominant’s Final Wishes?

Talking about the final journey is a difficult discussion but one that should be done whenever two or more people are in a serious relationship.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Community, Newsletter Archive, Relationships
Coming Out to Friends: Time to Reveal Your Kinky/Submissive Side

Coming Out to Friends: Time to Reveal Your Kinky/Submissive Side

But before you decide to come out to people, make sure that you’re ready for any consequences, good or bad.

7 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Ask lunaKM – New Kink Relationship, Seeking Daddy Doms and Resources to Help Those Coming Out Kinky

Ask lunaKM – New Kink Relationship, Seeking Daddy Doms and Resources to Help Those Coming Out Kinky

Dear lunaKM, I just met a man that is a dom, I am very interested in this lifestyle but also VERY new to it. We are both interested in each other and are both looking for a vanilla life outside the bedroom. My question is how do I start a relationship without jumping in bed [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Ask lunaKM – Weakness and Triggers, 24/7 Start and Incompatibility

Ask lunaKM – Weakness and Triggers, 24/7 Start and Incompatibility

Dear lunaKM, I am new to the Submissive role and BDSM in general. To make a long story short I am finally with my best friend from high school 10 years later, after being through a hellish marriage for 5 years and a physically abusive relationship before that…I love my now boyfriend and he is [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Who Influences Your Submission?

Who Influences Your Submission?

When I find that I’m paying more attention to what society is trying to tell me and people who don’t know or understand me, then I’m not paying attention to Daddy or my heart. That’s when I lose sight of what’s really important.

3 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Community, Personal Growth
Me vs the German Language  – A Lesson in Patience

Me vs the German Language – A Lesson in Patience

More times than I care to count, I find myself in the train of thought that I shouldn’t even bother because I’m never going to understand the language, so why keep torturing myself? But then, on the other hand, I get so frustrated because I can’t really communicate while out in public. This is when having a bit of patience comes into play.

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
How to Move On When The D/s Relationship Ends

How to Move On When The D/s Relationship Ends

Just how does one know how to move on after a relationship has come to an end, regardless of the reasons behind it? That is sometimes a confusing question for submissives to answer for themselves. Often a submissive will feel lost and all alone, as if they feel that no one will understand what they are going through

3 comments Posted by LadySneak | Posted in: Relationships
This is Not a Game – BDSM is My Life

This is Not a Game – BDSM is My Life

I feel that there are so many who come into the lifestyle and do not realize what being a slave or submissive really entails. They come into the lifestyle having a certain expectation, a certain fantasy, but once they really get their feet wet, they realize it’s nothing that they expected.

1 comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Community
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