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SubWise #9 – Scene Music

By lunaKM on April 21, 2010

Last week I asked you to talk all about favorite music for play time. Here are the submissions I received. There is some excellent thoughts here folks! Check it out. Make sure you leave comments! (Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.) pet’s journey The conversation isn’t over. If you [...]

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SubWise #9: Scene Music – Participation Request

By lunaKM on April 13, 2010

Its time for SubWise! You know what to do by now. I’m going to give you a topic to write about and your task goes like this: Write about the topic in your blog or online journal. You don’t have to have a blog to participate. If you have a FetLife account you can use your [...]

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SubWise #8: Serving in Public – Participation Request

By lunaKM on March 11, 2010

Its time for SubWise! You know what to do by now. I’m going to give you a topic to write about and your task goes like this: Write about the topic in your blog or online journal. You don’t have to have a blog to participate. If you have a FetLife account you can use your [...]

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SubWise #7 – Romance

By lunaKM on February 22, 2010

Last week I asked you to talk all about romance in D/s relationships. Here are the submissions I received. There is some excellent thoughts here folks! Check it out. Make sure you leave comments! (Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.) pet’s journey thisgirl’s weblog The conversation isn’t over. If [...]

Posted in SubWise | Tagged carnival, participation, romance, submission carnival, SubWise | 3 Responses

SubWise #7: Romance – Participation Request

By lunaKM on February 14, 2010

Its time for SubWise! You know what to do by now. I’m going to give you a topic to write about and your task goes like this: Write about the topic in your blog or online journal. You don’t have to have a blog to participate. If you have a FetLife account you can use your [...]

Posted in SubWise | Tagged carnival, participation, romance, submissions, submissive carnival, SubWise, writing carnival | Leave a response

The Myth of a Slut

The Myth of a Slut

By Guest Author on February 1, 2010

This is a guest post by Slut M as a response to SubWise #6 about BDSM Myths. According to the mythological story, a slut is a downtrodden woman who by nature or by circumstances is propelled to debase her body in sexual desires. And so the story goes: these sexual desires control her and her [...]

Posted in Sex and Sexuality | Tagged bdsm myths, desires, fulfillment, guest post, myth of a slut, myths, Slut M, slut myth, submissive, SubWise | 5 Responses

SubWise #6: Myth Busting

By lunaKM on January 27, 2010

Last week I asked you to talk all about BDSM Myths. Here are the submissions I received. There is some excellent thoughts here folks! Check it out. Make sure you leave comments! (Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.) pet’s journey BDSM is Love The conversation isn’t over. If you [...]

Posted in SubWise | Tagged advice, BDSM, bdsm myths, carnival, myths, rt, share, submission, submission carnival, submissions, SubWise | Leave a response

SubWise #6: Myth Busting – Participation Request

By lunaKM on January 19, 2010

Its time for SubWise! You know what to do by now. I’m going to give you a topic to write about and your task goes like this: Write about the topic in your blog or online journal. You don’t have to have a blog to participate. If you have a FetLife account you can use your [...]

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SubWise #5: A Year’s Reflection

By lunaKM on December 23, 2009

Last week I asked you to talk about your reflections on the year and your progress with submission. Here are the submissions I received. There is some excellent advice here folks! Check it out. Make sure you leave comments! (Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.) Decorating Master’s Sofa lunaKM [...]

Posted in SubWise | Tagged advice, annual reflection, blogs, bottom, carnival, journey, progress, rt, share, submission, submission carnival, submissions, SubWise | 1 Response

SubWise #5: A Year’s Reflection – Participation Request

By lunaKM on December 15, 2009

Its time for SubWise! You know what to do by now. I’m going to give you a topic to write about and your task goes like this: Write about the topic in your blog or online journal. You don’t have to have a blog to participate. If you have a FetLife account you can use your [...]

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SubWise #4: Favorite Scene Memory

By lunaKM on November 25, 2009

Last week I asked you to talk about your favorite scene memory. Here are the submissions I got. There is some excellent advice here folks! Check it out. Make sure you leave comments! (Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.) pet’s journey BDSM is Love The conversation isn’t over. If [...]

Posted in SubWise | Tagged advice, BDSM, carnival, favorite, journey, love, memories, rt, scene, scene memory, share, submission, submissions, submissive, SubWise | 2 Responses

SubWise #4: Favorite Scene Memory – Particpation Request

By lunaKM on November 17, 2009

Its time for SubWise! You know what to do by now. I’m going to give you a topic to write about and your task goes like this: Write about the topic in your blog or online journal. You don’t have to have a blog to participate. If you have a FetLife account you can use [...]

Posted in SubWise | Tagged carnival, email, favorite, fetlife, friends, memories, online, online journal, rt, scene, scene memory, submission, submission carnival, submissions, SubWise, writing | 1 Response

SubWise #3: Ease of Obedience

By lunaKM on October 28, 2009

Last week I asked you to talk about the easiness of obedience to you. Here are the submissions I got. There is some excellent advice here folks! Check it out. Make sure you leave comments! (Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.) This girl Master Stone’s Princess Slave to Don [...]

Posted in SubWise | Tagged advice, blogs, carnival, obedience, rt, share, slave, submission, submission carnival, submissions, submissive, SubWise | 1 Response

SubWise #3: Ease of Obedience – Participation Request

By lunaKM on October 19, 2009

Its time for SubWise! You know what to do by now. I’m going to give you a topic to write about and your task goes like this: Write about the topic in your blog or online journal. You don’t have to have a blog to participate. If you have a FetLife account you can use [...]

Posted in SubWise | Tagged carnival, email, fetlife, friends, obedience, online, online journal, rt, submission, submissions, SubWise, writing | 2 Responses

SubWise #2: Advice You Swear By

By lunaKM on September 30, 2009

Last week I asked you to share some advice that you live by or love passing on to novices because it worked so well for you. Here’s the submissions I got. There is some excellent advice here folks! Check it out. Make sure you leave comments! Participants, repost the link list within a week and [...]

Posted in SubWise | Tagged advice, blogs, carnival, journey, love, novice, novices, rt, share, submission, submission carnival, submissions, submissive, SubWise | 2 Responses

SubWise #2: Advice You Swear By – Participation Request

By lunaKM on September 22, 2009

This is the second SubWise! You know what to do by now. I’m going to give you a topic to write about and your task goes like this: Write about the topic in your blog or online journal. You don’t have to have a blog to participate. If you have a FetLife account you can [...]

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SubWise #1: Your Personal Submission

By lunaKM on August 28, 2009

Last week I asked you to write in your own blogs and journals about your personal submission. As a reminder, here’s the question: Define your personal submission. Tell us what submission means to you and how your perfect submissive life would be like if there were no obstacles in the way. I loved the answers [...]

Posted in SubWise | Tagged blogs, carnival, Dom, friends, journey, love, rt, submission, submission carnival, submissive, SubWise | 2 Responses

SubWise #1: Your Personal Submission – Participation Request

By lunaKM on August 19, 2009

It’s time for you to participate! This is a topic carnival. I’m sure that many of you have participated in these before. I’m going to give you a topic to write about and your task goes like this: Write about the topic in your blog or online journal. You don’t have to have a blog [...]

Posted in SubWise | Tagged carnival, email, fetlife, friends, online, online journal, readers response, rt, submission, submission carnival, submissions, submissive, SubWise, writing | Leave a response

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