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How To Express Submissiveness as a Little

How To Express Submissiveness as a Little

How can I show my submissiveness in a little girl way without falling into total servitude and then becoming more like a slave?

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
Teased With No Relief: How to Address Orgasm Denial Because Dominant Gets Too Busy and Forgets

Teased With No Relief: How to Address Orgasm Denial Because Dominant Gets Too Busy and Forgets

How do you cope with sexual frustration? Kayla helps you figure out what you should do when you have been teased and then left high and dry when your partner gets too busy.

Comments Off Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
BDSM and Kids: Can You Be a Parent and a Kinkster?

BDSM and Kids: Can You Be a Parent and a Kinkster?

Yes, you can be a parent and a kinkster at the same time. Let’s debunk some of the things people believe about why you can’t be both.

Comments Off Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Relationships
I’m Worried I’m Not Enough for My Dominant

I’m Worried I’m Not Enough for My Dominant

He’s in love with me as well but I’m not so sure that I’m what he needs anymore. His need for his sadistic ways to flourish are being held back by me. As his submissive /slave, is it wrong for me to decide this for him? Tell him that I’m no longer what he needs. Or do I sit back and watch the man I love, my Master, struggle internally?

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Submissive vs. Slave

Submissive vs. Slave

Mistress Steel tackles the submissive vs slave debate. Core differences and misconceptions are revealed.

2 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
A Grieving Dominant and a Submissive’s Needs

A Grieving Dominant and a Submissive’s Needs

My Dom/Master/Daddy of many years has recently suffered a loss of a child. We’ve become distant.

Comments Off Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Ideas for Taking Care of Your Dominant from a Distance

Ideas for Taking Care of Your Dominant from a Distance

I’m wondering if you have any advice for how to look after your dom long distance?

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
Ornamental Value: A Reflection on My Submissive Style

Ornamental Value: A Reflection on My Submissive Style

Living with my Dom for a longer period of time has allowed us to develop some rough routines and expectations that we’ll continue to develop as time progresses, and these have begun to help me form answers to the questions that I’ve been asking on and off from the beginning of my submission.

1 comment Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Explain It To Me: The Draw of Being Spanked

Explain It To Me: The Draw of Being Spanked

Despite being commonplace in kinky relationships, explaining the appeal of being spanked to someone who is new to the scene or curious about it can be difficult.

17 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics

How to Keep Yourself From Being Overwhelmed in a Service Dynamic

Service in a power exchange dynamic can be a very intense and involved experience, especially when you’re in a 24/7 dynamic and “always on.”

Comments Off Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Service
Dominant Personality with a Submissive Identity

Dominant Personality with a Submissive Identity

An often misunderstood, or perhaps misrepresented thought is that submissives have to be docile, shy, introverted people.

12 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Sub or slave; He says I’m slave, I say I’m sub, who’s right?

Sub or slave; He says I’m slave, I say I’m sub, who’s right?

Should I talk to him and tell him I am a submissive personality, but I want to be his slave?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
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Your Kink is Not my Kink – Understanding Other People’s Kinks

We need to take a step forward and be less judgmental and open to other people’s kinks. Here’s a story of one such discrimination. Learn to support each other.

6 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Beginner Basics
Book Review: Processing Pain in Play

Book Review: Processing Pain in Play

This is a great book if you’re wanting to learn how to process pain better during play and is worth its weight in gold.

Comments Off Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Play and Sex, Reviews
Nobody’s Perfect-Including Your Dominant!

Nobody’s Perfect-Including Your Dominant!

It’s really easy for those of us who are S-types to think that our D-types are perfect. And that is the furthest thing from the truth.

3 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Community
Ask lunaKM – Fear of Losing Yourself, Poor Contact Frequency and Sending Nude Pictures

Ask lunaKM – Fear of Losing Yourself, Poor Contact Frequency and Sending Nude Pictures

Dear lunaKM, My husband and I have been playing in the BDSM lifestyle for several months now.  I love the idea of this but have always had a strong personality.  I love to please him and want to be a good submissive to him but I fear losing myself or for it to go too [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Sexual Exclusivity in Poly Relationships – Is It Possible?

Sexual Exclusivity in Poly Relationships – Is It Possible?

A frequent misconception with poly is that it’s orgiastic group sex all the time.

16 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
Ask lunaKM – Roleplay Scenarios, Unable to Kneel and Boost of Confidence

Ask lunaKM – Roleplay Scenarios, Unable to Kneel and Boost of Confidence

Dear lunaKM, My question involves role play, I was wondering if there are some scenarios that are available to give an individual some idea of how to start a scene. And or what kind of scene would be the easiest to get started with because I am a beginner and I usually go my instinct [...]

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything

Making Him the Dom of Your Dreams – Working With The Man You Have

Just because your partner got a little kinky that one time during sex does not mean they have a kinky bone in their body.

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
Ask lunaKM – Sexting, How to get Started and Scene Fantasies

Ask lunaKM – Sexting, How to get Started and Scene Fantasies

Dear lunaKM, My D/s is a long distance relationship. We have not met in person. Just starting out, he’s training me so to speak. I am new. We are planning to meet eventually, it is set. So my question: He sends me scenes via text. Does a submissive send scenes as well? What scene form [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
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