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How Do I Get My Submissive Focus Back After a D/s Break?

How Do I Get My Submissive Focus Back After a D/s Break?

Because of family problems the D/s part was missing a bit recently. Now that all problems are gone I find it extremely difficult to get back in that headspace I had before.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Reconnecting When I Feel A Disconnect with My Submission

Reconnecting When I Feel A Disconnect with My Submission

No matter where I am in my submissive journey I find times where it’s harder to submit than others.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
The Myth of the 24/7 Submissive Mindset (and Why So Many of Us Struggle)

The Myth of the 24/7 Submissive Mindset (and Why So Many of Us Struggle)

The submissive or slave mindset often sought after by novice submissives or those changing the form of their dynamic to 24/7 relationships, doesn’t exist.

Everyone Needs a Break, Right – Do you Break from Submission?

Everyone Needs a Break, Right – Do you Break from Submission?

While I can’t say that everyone takes a break it’s good to know that we can without it being the end of our submission altogether. I hope you will forever remain happy, on whatever phase of submission you are currently in.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
Capturing That Elusive Submissive Mindset

Capturing That Elusive Submissive Mindset

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 7/6/13 We reach far and deep within to touch the submissive mindset. The moment is fleeting or short lived and we have a need to reach it again and again. Often the goal is to live in the submissive mindset all the time. For others it is being able to [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
Working to Develop Personal Rituals

Working to Develop Personal Rituals

Every single day I perform rituals that I’ve created to help me feel connected to my submission even if I’m not in the mood or feeling in the right mindset. They are especially helpful during times of stress and busy life when the D/s may seem pushed back so that other pressing matters can be [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Rituals and Routines
Massage as Ritual

Massage as Ritual

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 3-17-12 KnyghtMare enjoys a foot massage on what used to be a regular basis. Every Sunday night I would fill the plastic tub with hot water and salts to soak his feet before his massage. After they had soaked I would towel them off and then with massage oil or [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Rituals and Routines
SGBHC #5 | That Submissive Feeling

SGBHC #5 | That Submissive Feeling

Welcome everyone to the Submissive Guide Blog Hop Challenge (SGBHC)!  I am so thrilled to see you here!  First, the challenge… Submissive Challenge #5 That Submissive Feeling What brings out your most powerful submissive/slave mindset? Is it a regular occurrence in your life or do you long for that submissive/slave feeling more often? Share a time where you [...]

11 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Diffuse Extreme Mood Swings Before They Get You In Trouble

Diffuse Extreme Mood Swings Before They Get You In Trouble

For March Question Month Cilla Noir asks: How do you handle your serious mood swings or when something just “sets you off”? When you go from one end of the spectrum to another – sometimes justified, sometimes not. Normally, when i was on my own, i would just throw a fit. Being back in a [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Mindset

Regaining Submissive Mind-Space Through Ritual

Many submissives have jobs where they are managers, business owners, or in charge in some way or another. Sometimes it can be difficult to re-enter your submissive head-space at the end of a busy work day. A sub can use rituals in order to help her achieve the right mind-apace, leaving the outside world behind [...]


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