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31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 1: Introduction

31 Days of Submissive Journaling – Day 1: Introduction

This is the table of contents for the 31 Days of Submissive Journaling Series hosted in October 2016.

I’m Worried I’m Not Enough for My Dominant

I’m Worried I’m Not Enough for My Dominant

He’s in love with me as well but I’m not so sure that I’m what he needs anymore. His need for his sadistic ways to flourish are being held back by me. As his submissive /slave, is it wrong for me to decide this for him? Tell him that I’m no longer what he needs. Or do I sit back and watch the man I love, my Master, struggle internally?

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
The Importance of Being Your Own Person

The Importance of Being Your Own Person

Being a submissive is a huge part of who you are, but it’s not all you are. It can be easy to lose yourself in the relationship and your submission. It’s important to be your own person as well.

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Stress Overpowering the Dynamic – Submissive Mediation Monday

Stress Overpowering the Dynamic – Submissive Mediation Monday

We all can handle different levels of stress in our lives. Take some time today to reflect on how you manage stress.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
Life as a Submissive with Chronic Pain

Life as a Submissive with Chronic Pain

Here are some things about living life in beautiful, fulfilling power exchange alongside a big helping of constant pain.

7 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Personal Growth

[Video Post] What Does Service Submission REALLY Mean?

Service. It’s something that a lot of submissive say they are into giving. But what does that mean?

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service, Video Posts
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Submission is a Choice That Will be Tested

The things that test us aren’t always outside forces. Sure, our friends, family, and partners will test us from time to time – whether they mean to or not. In my experience, though, the things that test us the most come from within… Whenever I introduce myself in the kink community, I refer to myself [...]

27 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Mindset

How to Keep Yourself From Being Overwhelmed in a Service Dynamic

This is a guest post by Tilari of ServiceSubmissive.com written for the Submissive Guide Newsletter 4/11/15 Service in a power exchange dynamic can be a very intense and involved experience, especially when you’re in a 24/7 dynamic and “always on.” You have a to-do list that is starting to hit triple digits, you’re pretty sure you [...]

Leave a comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Service
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The Best Part About Submission is Our Ability to Choose

If asked what the best part about submission is there are a million ways to answer. The feeling of completeness when we find the right Dominant. The silencing of all the noise in our minds. The ability to relax knowing that someone we trust is in charge. The love and devotion we feel when we [...]

2 comments Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Submitting in a Long Distance Relationship: Missing You

Submitting in a Long Distance Relationship: Missing You

Intro: Where were we again? It might be in poor taste to pick up where I left off after nearly a two-year hiatus from Submissive Guide, but I felt that long distance relationships was as appropriate as any to begin with, if not a little ironic. My Dominant and I are on the cusp of [...]

2 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
[Free Download] Submissive Starter Kit from Submissive Playground

[Free Download] Submissive Starter Kit from Submissive Playground

Sinclair Sexsmith of the Submissive Playground is offering their Submissive Starter Kit free to Submissive Guide readers. If you’re asking yourself: How do I get more kinky play? What kind of skills do I need to have or bring as a bottom? How do I flirt with tops? What are my next steps as a [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
A Day in the Life of Rife: Submissive Fantasy vs Submissive Reality

A Day in the Life of Rife: Submissive Fantasy vs Submissive Reality

This is a guest post by rife. Hi this is rife, Sinclair’s boy. Maybe you’ve read dirty things about me, but that’s not the whole story. So what am I up to when not bent over? Well … I love erotica and porn as much as anyone (honest!), but often when people describe it, we [...]

4 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Q&A: Subbie Siblings

Q&A: Subbie Siblings

“Subbie Siblings – we either love or hate this phrase. While the lifestyle is unique to each of us, do we have things in common that set us aside from other women? Do we naturally form a close bond and a willingness to help, or are we just here selfishly to get what we can [...]

Leave a comment Posted by andyiccee | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
Feeling Less Submissive – Submissive Mediation Monday

Feeling Less Submissive – Submissive Mediation Monday

Every Monday in March I’m going to try something new and I’d love your opinion in the comments below. If you like the idea I might continue them on a regular (although not every Monday) schedule. I’m devoting Monday’s to meditation, reflection and devotion to submission. I hope to select topics that will get you thinking [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
How Giving a Blowjob Has Taught Me That Service and Pleasure Are One

How Giving a Blowjob Has Taught Me That Service and Pleasure Are One

I used to hate giving blow jobs. I am sure it could be argued that I still don’t love them, but the mind shift has certainly come a long way in the positive for KnyghtMare. My history with giving oral sex is one I’ve heard from a few of you. Your first experiences were not [...]

19 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Mindset, Sex and Sexuality
Book Review: Unconventional Desires by Victoria L. Sadler

Book Review: Unconventional Desires by Victoria L. Sadler

Unconventional Desires: A Dairy of Discovery….Domination, Submission, Sadism and Masochism is the début novel from Victoria L. Sadler. Mrs. Sadler contacted me and asked if I would be interested in reviewing her book for Submissive Guide and being the avid reader of BDSM fiction that I am, I happily accepted and I can honestly say [...]

3 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Reviews
Micromanagement and Macromanagement: What’s the Difference?

Micromanagement and Macromanagement: What’s the Difference?

Awhile ago, I was talking to a friend of mine and asked her if she had any good topic ideas because it’s good to have outside influences and she suggested micromanaging vs proactivity. I got super excited because, it’s an awesome topic. I figured it would be a rather easy topic to write about, but [...]

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: BDSM Glossary, Relationships
Dominant Personality with a Submissive Identity

Dominant Personality with a Submissive Identity

Everyday you go to work and are in charge of people, or you have a management position. Perhaps you just feel that being in control outside of the home is comfortable for you. But you come home to submit.  Or maybe you are an extroverted person and love interacting socially but with the right person [...]

12 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
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The Things I Carry That Help My Submission

The other day, I was going through folders in my inbox, just to see what I had in there, especially the one folder I have labeled “assorted stuff”, which by the way, is not the way to go if you’re wanting to stay organized in any fashion. It’s become my dump all for emails and [...]

6 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Mindset
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Book Review: Unveiled: The Secret Submissive Within

I feel very lucky to have gotten the chance to read Michelle Fegatofi’s book “Unveiled-The Secret Submissive Within”. If the author’s name sounds familiar it’s probably because of her personal blog BDSM Unveiled. She started her blog back in November 2012 and since then has written on a large variety of topics to help those [...]

Leave a comment Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Reviews
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