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Mama Vi Then and Now, right image courtesy of Mama Vi Johnson; left image courtesy of C. Creane Images; and edited by blyss

Aging in the Lifestyle: Doing it with Grace

Maturity ripens a slave in the most delectable way. Learn about Mama Vi and her confidence in Leather as an older slave.

Feeling Less Submissive – Submissive Mediation Monday

Feeling Less Submissive – Submissive Mediation Monday

Some days I just don’t feel connected to my submission, that something is lacking and I’m less than I was the day before.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
Male submission – Financial Domination

Male submission – Financial Domination

Financial Domination is an area of BDSM which often elicits strong opinions. With other BDSM activities such as spanking and bondage, at some point after the Safe, Sane, and Consensual scene is over there is no damage done and things are typically physically back to the way they were. However, if a sub’s money is [...]

24 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission, Relationships
Your Right to Choose-Feminism and the Lifestyle

Your Right to Choose-Feminism and the Lifestyle

When I was twenty, I met my first dominant in person. I was extremely excited and nervous about this because for months before meeting in person, we had talked a great deal through emails, online chatting services, and phone calls. The weekend he and I had planned to meet was over Memorial Day weekend. This [...]

20 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Community
Submissive Advent – Day 16: Prayer

Submissive Advent – Day 16: Prayer

Today is day 16 of the Submissive Advent Calendar. If you missed yesterday’s post you can go back to that now, or rewind all the way to the beginning. You can also read the introduction post. This has been all over the internet but it’s a great find. Read it and connect to your own submission today. A [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar
BDSM and Submission: The Five Precepts of Service

BDSM and Submission: The Five Precepts of Service

This is a guest post by Shahjahani. She is a personal friend of mine and a fantastic educator. I originally heard of these precepts when speaking of death and dying.  I elaborated on them then to help myself understand my place in the death and dying process. I shared my thoughts back then with those that [...]

5 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Personal Growth

How To Overcome The Outside Forces That Stress Us

Not too long ago,  my pup and I were faced with something that rears its ugly head to everyone-lifestyle or not.  The dreaded “outside force.”  What is this intruder you may ask?  Well, it is anything outside of the relationship that causes undue tension within a pairing; it is never welcome and always has to be handled [...]

5 comments Posted by LaneyDoll | Posted in: Personal Growth, Relationships
How To Tell A Dominant That You Are Not Interested In Them

How To Tell A Dominant That You Are Not Interested In Them

Imagine this. You are bombarded with private messages from every Dominant in a 500 mile radius offering their control for your submission, usually only of the sexual kind. They send you penis pictures and say they are a true Master with two-times the years experience than they are old. Not hard to imagine? You mean [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Community, Play and Sex
When Mommy/slave is Ill…

When Mommy/slave is Ill…

Let’s face it. Not everyone out there is graced with excellent health, some of us are even chronically ill. Myself, I face being on dialysis along with Lupus and Fibro. I am in a ton of pain a good deal of the time and have 3 wonderful children, 2 with special needs that require that [...]

5 comments Posted by malak Briar-rose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
Making the Transition from Online to Face-to-Face Submission

Making the Transition from Online to Face-to-Face Submission

This is the first post from our new contributor LadySneak! Please welcome her to the community and enjoy her first contribution about her personal struggle with moving from online to real life. When I first started considering making the jump from being a strictly online submissive to a real life submissive, I really couldn’t find [...]

3 comments Posted by LadySneak | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Online Submission
Book Review: Living M/s

Book Review: Living M/s

It’s been awhile since I’ve reviewed a book here on Submissive Guide and this one has come recommended from readers. You want to know if this one is worth buying! Let’s get down to it. Living M/s: A Book for Masters, slaves and Their Relationships* is written by Dan and Dawn Williams of The Erotic Awakening [...]

8 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews
Deceptive Submissive – The Flip Side of the Predator Dominant

Deceptive Submissive – The Flip Side of the Predator Dominant

This is a guest post by Camryn Darkstone. Virtual worlds have opened a door to BDSM for many people, allowing them to explore their curiosity about it in a fantasy environment. People who would never do so in “real” life can try on handcuffs, be chained and bound, and even submit to a Dominant, all [...]

11 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Safety
…And Along Came Baby: Parenting and Submission

…And Along Came Baby: Parenting and Submission

As a parent of 2 children and the active property of my Owner and Husband, I thought perhaps it was time to begin writing some about the trials and tribulations as well as the joys and experiences of the parent slave.  I was surprised when I first began writing about this topic that no one [...]

18 comments Posted by malak Briar-rose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
Ask Anything | Open Relationship Struggles

Ask Anything | Open Relationship Struggles

hello. I am a fairly new female submissive, my dom being another female who has been a major part of most of my life, this is just how our relationship has evolved. I understand how an open relationship works, but my last one instilled some major jealousy issues within me. I know to whom i [...]

Leave a comment Posted by SehAnru | Posted in: Ask Anything
What is Kajira?

What is Kajira?

This is a guest post by Dara. What is Kajira? If you had asked me that 4 months ago I would have had no clue. Slave girl? Now there’s a term I recognized, and if you had made the suggestion that I would one day in the very near future submit myself to becoming someone’s [...]

7 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics

Chat Night Transcript from “Recovering from a Breakup” Talk

from chat night 10-4-11 (8:05:07 PM) lunaKM: Let’s start out with a little introduction period. Everyone please let us know the general area you are located, if you are sub, slave, property, other and anythign else you’d like to share with us. (8:05:07 PM) hachiko: I <3 blue (8:05:35 PM) pepper_di: i will start if [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
Is Male Submission a Form of Weakness?

Is Male Submission a Form of Weakness?

This is a guest post by fuzzyP. I’ve put this question off long enough. It’s one of those questions that can cause a person to take a long, uncomfortable look at oneself, and I don’t know too many people who like doing that. My answer may not be quite what you expect. Men are strong, [...]

10 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Male Submission

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