By thisgirl on August 23, 2010
I am bi-sexual, and I have been ever since I can remember. When I was young I obviously didn’t know the way I felt were the first signs of bi-curiosity because the roots of things are never clear back at the time and only make sense much later on! My first experiences Not long after [...]
Posted in Sex and Sexuality, Submission | Tagged bi curiosity, bisexuality, comfort, experience, female, first signs, first time, skills, submission |
By lunaKM on July 21, 2010
Last February was a difficult month for me. Like many in this failing economy I found myself without a job. I was stressed and frustrated and knew that it would be very difficult to find another job when the competition was over 7% of the state’s workforce. Master wasn’t going to let me stay frustrated [...]
Posted in Service | Tagged dreams, fulfillment, home management, housework, lifestyle, personal fulfillment, personal life, satisfaction, Service, skills, stay at home, Staying-at-home |
By lunaKM on July 16, 2010
In this hustle and bustle world we are losing an important connection. No, I’m not talking about the internet; we are all plugged and tuned out from the world around us. We seldom recognize the people around us let alone acknowledge them. If your goal is to be a submissive that serves every wish of [...]
Posted in Personal Development | Tagged amazon.com, Awareness, connection, etiquette, fidgeting, grace, learned, mannerisms, Miss Abernathy, skills, submission, surroundings |
By lunaKM on April 16, 2010
Every relationship dynamic is different. If you’ve been following this blog for any length of time you have been exposed to some very unique relationships and the submissives in those relationships. There are submissives who are pets, some who are slaves, others who, like you’ve read recently, are hunt sluts for their owners. Today I’m [...]
Posted in Talents and Skills | Tagged activities, development, dominance and submission, dynamic, kink, Masochism, pleasure, requests, Sadism, Service, sexual personality, skills, topping from the bottom, understanding |
By Guest Author on April 12, 2010
This is a guest post by kahluna. It’s funny to me to see people wanting a Dominant but then looking for “chemistry” as well. They want to fall in love with the Dominant of their dreams. Apparently, these submissives have come into the lifestyle thinking that a Dominant is BDSMs version of Prince Charming. Ladies, [...]
Posted in Relationships | Tagged checklist, common sense, communication, D/s relationship, Dom, dominant, fall in love, love, myths, Relationships, romance, skills |
By lunaKM on March 10, 2010
As a part of my work to improve myself and make my submission fun and exciting always I am constantly searching for things I can add to my service that my Owner would love to see or have me do. One of these is today’s focus. Belly Dancing. I’m certain that pole dancing, burlesque and [...]
Posted in Talents and Skills | Tagged belly dancing, dancing, focus, new talents, skills, youtube |
By lunaKM on March 3, 2010
In January I had a poll in the sidebar asking readers like you what books you’d like to see me review for Submissive Guide. The overwhelming response was that you wanted me to review The Submissive Activity Book: Building Blocks To Better Service by Shannon Reilly. I received the 184 page book without expectations of [...]
Posted in Reviews | Tagged amazon.com, book review, budgeting, learning, personal growth, protocol, self-help, Shannon Reilly, skills, structure, submissive activity book |
By lunaKM on December 2, 2009
The kitchen is the heart of any home and having a clean and germ-free work environment for cooking and food preparation is important. Knowing some skills and cleaning tips can make keeping your kitchen clean and sparkling effortless. No longer is doing dishes and mopping floors drudgery; enhanced it can be an important part of [...]
Posted in Domestics | Tagged baking soda, basics, blogs, busy life, checklist, clean, cleaning, cleaning routine, cleaning the kitchen, cons, danae, Dom, Domestic Servitude, Domestics, event, green cleaning the kitchen, help, how-to, kitchen cleaning, kitchen cleaning tips, m/s, natural, routine, rt, Service, skills, tips |
By lunaKM on November 13, 2009
With Thanksgiving (USA) just around the corner I thought it would be fitting to write about gratitude, and how to express your gratitude to the one you serve. Sure you can say thank you. That’s standard. I really hope you take every opportunity to say thank you, but what if you want a few more [...]
Posted in Relationships, Rituals and Routines | Tagged bath, being thankful, development, Dom, Dominance, dominant, dynamic, focus, gratitude, happiness, help, kneeling, love, normal, online, play, relationship, Relationships, requests, ritual, rituals, rt, rules, Service, setting the table, sex, share, showing appreciation, skills, stress, submission, thanksgiving |
By lunaKM on October 6, 2009
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE – Please cross-post Welcome to the 3rd Annual Submissive Journey Weekend… I am proud to announce that registration for the next Submissive Journey Weekend is now open. We cordially invite those who identify as submissive, slave, girl, boi /boy, bottom, pup, etc. to a weekend of learning, growth and support. All genders, [...]
Posted in Views & More... | Tagged BDSM event, bottom, classes, discussion, educational opportunities, event, experience, focus, gender, growth, information, journey, learning, love, questions, relationship, rt, Service, sex, sexual orientation, share, SJW, skills, slave, submissive, submissive event, submissive journey weekend, support, training |
By lunaKM on August 21, 2009
This month’s book review is of one of the books I gave away in the July Book Contest. The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy (formerly Lady Green) is a great beginner’s guide to bottoming. According to the authors, this “new version” contains much of the original advice, like “connecting” and [...]
Posted in Reviews | Tagged advice, amazon.com, BDSM, beginning bdsm, Bondage, book, book review, books, bottom, chat, chat room, chat rooms, checklist, contest, decisions, Dossie Easton, dress, fantasy, help, information, internet, Janet W. Hardy, negotiation, nervousness, New Bottoming Book, novice, novices, online, play, review, role play, rt, scene, short, skills, submission, submissive, tips |
By lunaKM on August 12, 2009
Since the beginning of Submissive Guide I have been writing essays to help you build your service/submissive/slave resume. This is the living document of your experience and training on different tasks and a variety of relationships. If you are interested in reading the previous posts about the Training Resume I suggest you start at the [...]
Posted in Training Resume | Tagged a grateful slave, activities, BDSM, bdsm activities, blogs, book, books, clean, cleaning, dates, development, Dom, dominant, essays, etiquette, experience, green cleaning, growth, Guy Baldwin, help, how-to, learning, library, newsletter, obedience, online, opinion, reading list, relationship, Relationships, Resources, resume, review, rt, Service, share, skills, slave, slavecraft, submissive, surrender, tasks, titles, training, Training Resume, transparency, viewpoints, websites, writing, writing essays |
By lunaKM on August 5, 2009
I’m personally not a very domestic person. When I do find the desire to clean it’s normally to relieve stress (believe it or not). It can help calm my nerves and give my mind something else to do while working on the house. Since I’ve become Master’s stay at home submissive I find I need [...]
Posted in Domestics | Tagged balance, basics, blogs, clean, cleaning, danae, Dom, Domestic Servitude, Domestics, dominant, fantasy, help, internet, learned, learning, links, love, normal, rt, Service, share, single, skills, stress, submission, submissive, tips, washing dishes |
By lunaKM on June 26, 2009
Traveling further into your submission is something that most of us strive for. We want to seek the inner wisdom that will make us the best submissives or slaves we can be. Well I think I’ve found a book that will move your surrender further and deeper than it has before. SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic [...]
Posted in Reviews | Tagged a grateful slave, amazon.com, bdsm books, book, book review, books, Dom, essays, experience, Guy Baldwin, help, novice, obedience, review, rt, series, Service, skills, slave, slavecraft, submission, submissive, surrender |
By lunaKM on May 18, 2009
Using the posts and resources here at Submissive Guide you have tools necessary to start creating your Training Resume; a folder of all your past, present and future training as well as skills and preferences. It’s very helpful to know where you are lacking experience or developing your skills. Here’s a list of posts already [...]
Posted in Training Resume | Tagged checklist, completed training, experience, future training, Gor, help, preference, preferences, questions, Resources, resume, rt, skills, submission, submissive, training, training history, Training Resume |
By lunaKM on April 17, 2009
A question I see asked all the time is “how can I be a better submissive?” Here are a few things you can do to make your submission and service better without a lot of work. 1. Move with purpose. If you have been asked to fetch something or approach your Dominant, be precise in [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged 7 things, advice, ceremony, comfort, Dom, dominant, fidgeting, grace, growth, help, improvements, improvisation, information, learning, love, mantra, meditation, movement, natural, play, preparedness, pride, purpose, rt, self-awareness, Service, serving, sex, share, skills, speech, submission, submissive, support, tasks |
By lunaKM on March 18, 2009
Continuing the work on your training resume, I’d like to talk about mapping out how you dream of your submission being. This is a discussion of ideals and dreams. You can be as fanciful as you want right now, we will narrow things down as we go along. There are 3 things I’d like to [...]
Posted in Relationships, Submission, Training Resume | Tagged activities, D/s, desires, discipline, discussion, dreams, dynamic, dynamics, focus, Gor, help, ideals, information, kinky, learning, links, mind maps, needs, online, play, poly, protocol, punishment, relationship, Relationships, resume, ritual, rituals, routine, rt, rules, Service, skills, slave, slavery, structure, submission, submissive, training, Training Resume, wants |
By lunaKM on March 10, 2009
This week’s video tip is about mentors. A mentor is a person more experienced in certain aspects of life than you are. They are also more open to varying viewpoints, have a desire to teach and aide others. A mentor is a role model and a very special counselor to those they council. In business [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics, Video Posts | Tagged advice, BDSM, communication, development, Dom, dominant, experience, get advice, help, learning, mentor, movement, novice, novices, questions, rt, skills, submission, submissive, training, value, viewpoints |
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