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How To Understand The Grief Process for a Dominant Who Passed Away

How To Understand The Grief Process for a Dominant Who Passed Away

Your grief will take as long as it takes. Here are the five steps to the grief process and further support for grieving and loss.

1 comment Posted by Kayla Lords | Posted in: Ask Anything
Coming Out to Friends: Time to Reveal Your Kinky/Submissive Side

Coming Out to Friends: Time to Reveal Your Kinky/Submissive Side

But before you decide to come out to people, make sure that you’re ready for any consequences, good or bad.

7 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics

Making Him the Dom of Your Dreams – Working With The Man You Have

Just because your partner got a little kinky that one time during sex does not mean they have a kinky bone in their body.

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
Why Might I Get Sick Suddenly During Play?

Why Might I Get Sick Suddenly During Play?

Question is can you explain why she might throw up like that and what was going on for her – she is fine the next day and wanting to do it again -

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Safety
How You Can Respond When Your Family Disapproves of Your Chosen Lifestyle/Sexuality

How You Can Respond When Your Family Disapproves of Your Chosen Lifestyle/Sexuality

My family found out that I’m into BDSM/submissive and they are freaking out, what do I do?

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships
Orgasm on Command Training – Ultimate Goals and Variations

Orgasm on Command Training – Ultimate Goals and Variations

It can be quite obvious what the goal of orgasm on command training is but there are so many things you can do with that goal to make it interesting and exciting for everyone involved.

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Perspectives: Flogging

Perspectives: Flogging

Flogging remains one of my favorite activities and KnyghtMare is pretty good with one or two floggers (Florentine-style), and he teaches it in classes in the area. As with the other Perspectives posts I wanted to share with you how it feels for a submissive to be the receiver of a flogging.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex

Lessons in Submissive Speech 10: Speaking with Service Persons

A huge part of speaking submissively is courtesy and respect. We can learn a lot about how we treat our intimate relationships but seeing how we treat the people we interact with on a daily basis.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Talents and Skills
Perspectives: Erotic Spanking

Perspectives: Erotic Spanking

Erotic spanking. It is probably the most common kinky play activity and is done in a lot of relationships that may know nothing about kink at all to those who are extremely kinky. It’s just a hot thing to do during sex. I was being spanked long before I entered the scene. I hope that I never stop being spanked.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex

[Video] Can I Access Subspace Too?

I’m teaching you today is how you can try to reach subspace. No matter how hard it is for you in the past there is a way for you to experience some or all of what subspace has to offer.

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Video Posts

Research Page: Electrical Play

I’ve scoured the internet for some ofthe morecompleteresources to do with a variety of topics. Today’s topic is Electrical play. In this form ofplaypractitioners use violet wands, tensunitsand othermore scaryelectrical devices in their play to delivershockto the scene. The difference between Violet Wands and TENS type units Electrical play devices, for BDSM purposes, can be [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Research Pages
What is Kajira?

What is Kajira?

I am Kajira. I am a slave. First off that makes me a tool to be used at my Master’s every whim. Whether that is for sexual pleasure, for comfort, for massage, or just to sit in position as commanded.

7 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Fainting, Headaches and Nausea: Facing Sudden Illness During Play/Scene Time

Fainting, Headaches and Nausea: Facing Sudden Illness During Play/Scene Time

When we play we have a chance that the blissful time we are experiencing will end well or may end suddenly from something unexpected. Yes we do everything we can to avoid having to stop play but when sudden illness takes hold the best thing is to stop and treat the problem.

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Safety

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