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The Role Sex Plays in a D/s Relationship

The Role Sex Plays in a D/s Relationship

Sex and how we’ve learned about sex can form our own opinions about how sexual D/s forms in our lives and how we respond to it. The emphasis of sex in a D/s relationship comes about in a variety of forms and is only limited by your imagination. What role does it play in your relationship?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Sex and Sexuality
He Wants to Watch: How to Share Your Masturbation Sessions With Confidence

He Wants to Watch: How to Share Your Masturbation Sessions With Confidence

Let’s figure out how we can break down our own walls of fear, embarrassment, shyness and poor body confidence to become their favorite source of this material.

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Play and Sex
Feeling Unfulfilled: Do My Sexual Needs Not Matter in a D/s Relationship?

Feeling Unfulfilled: Do My Sexual Needs Not Matter in a D/s Relationship?

I find myself resentful that, mostly, sex involves his orgasms and not mine. Do I need to accept that my pleasure is not a consideration in our relationship?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything

BDSM Basics: Am I Kinky If…?

Should you start saying you enjoy kinky sex? Is it bad to be kinky? What is kinky anyway?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Video Posts
The Anatomy of A BDSM Scene: What Happens?

The Anatomy of A BDSM Scene: What Happens?

Let me describe to you what a first scene might be like.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex

Chat Night Transcript from “How to Talk Dirty” Chat

This chat occurred on 10/1/13 in the Submissive Guide Chat room. ~lunaKM: alright, let’s get going Hello and welcome to another chat night here on Submissive Guide. Please feel free to talk about the subject whenever a thought comes to mind, this is not a moderated talk and you do not have to ask permission [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
Can You Separate BDSM and Sex?

Can You Separate BDSM and Sex?

But can you really separate the sex from BDSM? You have to admit that much of what we do during play time is rooted in sexual pleasure and sensation. Even if you are never touched sexually you can achieve orgasm. Does this make it sex or BDSM?

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Sex and Sexuality
The Many Faces of Submission

The Many Faces of Submission

Types of submissives come in as many varieties as wines; there is one for every palette and preference. When someone tells you that you are submissive and you finally admit to yourself that you are submissive, which can be a journey itself, you can figure out how your submission differs from another by what type [...]

12 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics

Do I have to Like Pain to be Submissive?

  This week’s video post is about masochism and submission. I mentioned this in the post about myths that submissive’s aren’t always masochist. I thought this topic deserved a more in depth discussion. I’m a masochist. I get sexual pleasure from pain. That’s wired into me. I’m also submissive. It’s who I am. For me, [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Online Submission, Video Posts
Reflecting On Past Relationships Can Help Develop Your Submission – Write Them Down In Your Submissive Training Resume

Reflecting On Past Relationships Can Help Develop Your Submission – Write Them Down In Your Submissive Training Resume

Your training history is the catalog of the past relationships that you have had within a D/s dynamic. You will be documenting the training you received and list the basic development that you can recall being part of your service. If you have a long history with many dominants this could take awhile and be [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Training Resume

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