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Simply Service eZine: May 2008

Simply Service eZine: May 2008

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from May 2008. Topics include Productivity Tools, Is Slavery Real?, Rules of Bedding and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service eZine: November 2006

Simply Service eZine: November 2006

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from November 2006. Topics include Personal Responsibility in BDSM, The Role of Slavery in Modern Society, a Dominant’s View of Service and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service

Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 6 of 7) – A Few Notes on High Protocol

While good manners are important in all situations, leather protocol should not be a source of anxiety for novice doms and subs. In part 6 of Ambrosio’s series on Protocol and Etiquette, a few rules for formal introductions, dining and general “vanilla” etiquette are covered.

Leave a comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Rituals and Routines
What Should I Try Next: Like Service-based Play? Try Serving Others

What Should I Try Next: Like Service-based Play? Try Serving Others

If it pleases you like it pleases me to serve your Partner, consider adding service based play that involves other consenting parties. Adding things like hosting parties, formal tea parties or D/s dinners can make you feel good about offering your service.

Leave a comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Simply Service e-Zine: July 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: July 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from June 2005. Topics include Luxury in the Bath, Aftercare, The Pitfalls of Excellence and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

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Simply Service e-Zine: June 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: June 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from June 2005. Topics include Bootblacking, Mental Sex, Developing a Service Ethic and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

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Simply Service e-Zine: May 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: May 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from May 2005. Topics include Rituals, Leather Care, Hand Signals and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service e-Zine: April 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: April 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from April 2005. Topics include Adding members to a household, mental orgasms, written communication and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service

[Video Post] What Does Service Submission REALLY Mean?

Service. It’s something that a lot of submissive say they are into giving. But what does that mean?

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service, Video Posts
Simply Service e-Zine: March 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: March 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from March 2005. Topics include Protocols, Working Outside the Home, A Feminist Perspective, and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
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Busyness, Why Do We Think It Adds Value?

I’ve come to see that oftentimes we slaves measure our value as slaves according to the accomplishments of other slaves and attempt to match the productivity level of other slaves that we look up to.

7 comments Posted by charmed blyss | Posted in: Mindset
31 Days To Better Domestic Service

31 Days To Better Domestic Service

October  is going to be a frenzy of domestic and home management tips here at SubmissiveGuide.com. Starting Thursday I’m going to turn up the ‘Domestic Tips’ volume to 11 and am going to attempt to vomit onto you everything I know about how to make your home management and domestic service better. Each post will [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: 31 Days to Better Domestic Service
Patience – Submissive Meditation Monday

Patience – Submissive Meditation Monday

I’m devoting this Monday to meditation, reflection and devotion to submission. I hope to select topics that will get you thinking differently about some part of your life or submission and then just maybe grow a little bit further. If you have ideas for topics that might work for a Meditation Monday, please email me. I am not [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth

How to Keep Yourself From Being Overwhelmed in a Service Dynamic

This is a guest post by Tilari of ServiceSubmissive.com written for the Submissive Guide Newsletter 4/11/15 Service in a power exchange dynamic can be a very intense and involved experience, especially when you’re in a 24/7 dynamic and “always on.” You have a to-do list that is starting to hit triple digits, you’re pretty sure you [...]

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Book Review: Real Service

Book Review: Real Service

I bought this book on a recommendation from a member of Fetlife who commented on a post I created asking about different types of service. I can honestly say that purchasing this book is one of those things I can call one of the better decisions I’ve made in my life. While the book isn’t [...]

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Reactive and Proactive Service: What’s the Difference?

In the other article, I wrote about the differences between micromanaging and macromanaging and now I’m going to cover the differences between reactive service and proactive service. This was a little harder to do because most of what I could find online was comparing reactive service to anticipatory service, which is similar to proactive service, [...]

4 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Mindset, Personal Growth, Service
Micromanagement and Macromanagement: What’s the Difference?

Micromanagement and Macromanagement: What’s the Difference?

Awhile ago, I was talking to a friend of mine and asked her if she had any good topic ideas because it’s good to have outside influences and she suggested micromanaging vs proactivity. I got super excited because, it’s an awesome topic. I figured it would be a rather easy topic to write about, but [...]

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: BDSM Glossary, Relationships
Note To Self: Selfish Pride Comes Before A Fall

Note To Self: Selfish Pride Comes Before A Fall

Pride, Merriam-Webster: : inordinate self-esteem :  conceit :  proud or disdainful behavior or treatment :  disdain :  ostentatious display Pride is a slippery emotion that I believe many a slave deal with, even if we don’t recognize it. I’m not talking about the feeling of elation and accomplishment after a job well done or when we’ve been recognized and [...]

4 comments Posted by charmed blyss | Posted in: Community, Mindset
Ask lunaKM – Not Into Service, Emotional After Play and Explaining Pleasurable Pain

Ask lunaKM – Not Into Service, Emotional After Play and Explaining Pleasurable Pain

Dear lunaKM, I’m an extremely dominant person by nature, but all my fantasies and arousal centers around subbing.  In reading your posts, I’m wondering if I really am a sub.  I definitely am not into the idea of service.  Shouldn’t I be if I am into subbing?  I’ve certainly been accused of topping from the [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything

Making Him the Dom of Your Dreams – Working With The Man You Have

Oftentimes we find our desire to be submissive or kinky when we are already in a relationship and are not sure really how to proceed with that. It can come as a shock to try to force your desires on your partner and if you address the subject without their thoughts in mind it could [...]

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
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