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Simply Service eZine: May 2008

Simply Service eZine: May 2008

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from May 2008. Topics include Productivity Tools, Is Slavery Real?, Rules of Bedding and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

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Simply Service eZine: November 2006

Simply Service eZine: November 2006

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from November 2006. Topics include Personal Responsibility in BDSM, The Role of Slavery in Modern Society, a Dominant’s View of Service and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service

Play Nice: Some Notes on Scene Etiquette and Leather Protocol (Part 6 of 7) – A Few Notes on High Protocol

While good manners are important in all situations, leather protocol should not be a source of anxiety for novice doms and subs. In part 6 of Ambrosio’s series on Protocol and Etiquette, a few rules for formal introductions, dining and general “vanilla” etiquette are covered.

Comments Off Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Rituals and Routines
What Should I Try Next: Like Service-based Play? Try Serving Others

What Should I Try Next: Like Service-based Play? Try Serving Others

If it pleases you like it pleases me to serve your Partner, consider adding service based play that involves other consenting parties. Adding things like hosting parties, formal tea parties or D/s dinners can make you feel good about offering your service.

Comments Off Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Simply Service e-Zine: July 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: July 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from June 2005. Topics include Luxury in the Bath, Aftercare, The Pitfalls of Excellence and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

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Simply Service e-Zine: June 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: June 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from June 2005. Topics include Bootblacking, Mental Sex, Developing a Service Ethic and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service e-Zine: May 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: May 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from May 2005. Topics include Rituals, Leather Care, Hand Signals and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
Simply Service e-Zine: April 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: April 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from April 2005. Topics include Adding members to a household, mental orgasms, written communication and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

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[Video Post] What Does Service Submission REALLY Mean?

Service. It’s something that a lot of submissive say they are into giving. But what does that mean?

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service, Video Posts
Simply Service e-Zine: March 2005

Simply Service e-Zine: March 2005

D/s e-Zine focused on Service, written by bootpig. This is the archive from March 2005. Topics include Protocols, Working Outside the Home, A Feminist Perspective, and more! Available in PDF format for free download.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Service
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Busyness, Why Do We Think It Adds Value?

I’ve come to see that oftentimes we slaves measure our value as slaves according to the accomplishments of other slaves and attempt to match the productivity level of other slaves that we look up to.

7 comments Posted by charmed blyss | Posted in: Mindset
31 Days To Better Domestic Service

31 Days To Better Domestic Service

I’d like to be a part of giving submissives a boost (or a kick in the butt) and hopefully, in the process give them motivation (and practical know how) to get their home and life more in order and reaching their service potential.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: 31 Days to Better Domestic Service
Patience – Submissive Meditation Monday

Patience – Submissive Meditation Monday

Patience plays an important role in the life of a submissive. Spend some time with me today to reflect on patience.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth

How to Keep Yourself From Being Overwhelmed in a Service Dynamic

Service in a power exchange dynamic can be a very intense and involved experience, especially when you’re in a 24/7 dynamic and “always on.”

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Book Review: Real Service

Book Review: Real Service

While the book isn’t very long, it is still full of amazing information and I do highly recommend it to any service-oriented s-type.

Comments Off Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Reviews
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Reactive and Proactive Service: What’s the Difference?

There is no right or wrong way to serve. I do think some slaves are more prone to reactive service and there are some slaves who are more proactive.

4 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Mindset, Personal Growth, Service
Micromanagement and Macromanagement: What’s the Difference?

Micromanagement and Macromanagement: What’s the Difference?

Like everything in life, there are pros and cons to both types of management styles and I want to share some of those with you now.

2 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: BDSM Glossary, Relationships
Note To Self: Selfish Pride Comes Before A Fall

Note To Self: Selfish Pride Comes Before A Fall

Pride is a slippery emotion that I believe many a slave deal with, even if we don’t recognize it

4 comments Posted by charmed blyss | Posted in: Community, Mindset
Ask lunaKM – Not Into Service, Emotional After Play and Explaining Pleasurable Pain

Ask lunaKM – Not Into Service, Emotional After Play and Explaining Pleasurable Pain

Dear lunaKM, I’m an extremely dominant person by nature, but all my fantasies and arousal centers around subbing.  In reading your posts, I’m wondering if I really am a sub.  I definitely am not into the idea of service.  Shouldn’t I be if I am into subbing?  I’ve certainly been accused of topping from the [...]

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything

Making Him the Dom of Your Dreams – Working With The Man You Have

Just because your partner got a little kinky that one time during sex does not mean they have a kinky bone in their body.

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
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