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Is it Really a Bad Thing to be a Selfish Submissive?

I thought by not being selfish, I was going to be a better slave and I found out the hard way, that wasn’t true. You have to be selfish once and awhile to take care of yourself and to meet your own needs.

6 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Personal Growth, Relationships
Male Submission – Selfishness

Male Submission – Selfishness

Many male subs portray themselves through their own words that they are selfish in that they do not actually care what a potential dominant partner wants or needs.

18 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission
Single in the Scene Part II: Service

Single in the Scene Part II: Service

As we apply the term service to hierarchical relationships, it’s really simple: what the Owner requires or needs. Those things that make the Owner’s life easier, more comfortable, and more joyous (at the very least).

2 comments Posted by charmed blyss | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Personal Growth, Service
Ask Anything | Open Relationship Struggles

Ask Anything | Open Relationship Struggles

hello. I am a fairly new female submissive, my dom being another female who has been a major part of most of my life, this is just how our relationship has evolved. I understand how an open relationship works, but my last one instilled some major jealousy issues within me. I know to whom i [...]

Comments Off Posted by SehAnru | Posted in: Ask Anything
10 Ways to Overcome Selfishness

10 Ways to Overcome Selfishness

Some level of selfishness is healthy, how else can you get what you want and need to remain happy if you don’t get what you want occasionally?

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Ask Anything | Service and submission and a vanilla Dominant presence

Ask Anything | Service and submission and a vanilla Dominant presence

Hello, I’m a fairly young submissive who’s recently discovered that side of me.  I have no Dominant as of yet, but ever since I figured out that I was a sub, I’ve noticed myself trying to place someone in that role.  Namely, my friend.  She’s open-minded, but for the most part she’s heteronormative (i.e. straight [...]

2 comments Posted by SehAnru | Posted in: Ask Anything

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