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Why Safety is Preached to Novices and Why It’s Important to Know Anyway

By lunaKM on June 4, 2010

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 3/3/10 Being in the BDSM community for any length of time you are likely to come across the common sermons of SSC, Safe Calls and First Meeting Safety. When you are novice in BDSM I’d encourage you to listen to these sermons and listen hard; they could protect you as [...]

Posted in Newsletter Archive, Safety | Tagged advice, basics, community, lifestyle, mantra, newsletter, novices, red flags, rules, safe call, Safety, SSC, submissive guide newsletter | 1 Response

First Meetings Done Safely

First Meetings Done Safely

By lunaKM on August 8, 2009

This week’s video post is on First Meetings Safety. When you are ready to meet your dream Dominant for the first time, what goes through your mind? Do you think about safety at all or do the nervousness and excitment overload your common sense? You may not think that safety is necessary for someone you’ve [...]

Posted in Safety, Video Posts | Tagged blind date, choice, choices, comfort, common sense, D/s, danger, dates, dating, Dom, dominant, dominants, dress, first meetings, information, munch, nervousness, normal, online, personal safety, play, questions, relationship, rt, safe, safe call, Safety, security, short, value, wants | Leave a response

Identifying Fake Dominants and Posers

By lunaKM on April 7, 2009

This week’s video tip is on Red Flags of Fake Dominants. The question I was asked today is, “How do you identify fake Dominants and what are some red flags to be watchful of?” First, what is a fake Dominant? A fake Dominant is someone who is just out for sex, fantasy and an easy [...]

Posted in Online Submission, Relationships, Safety, Video Posts | Tagged changing, chat, common sense, Dom, dominant, dominants, dress, email, experience, fake dominants, fantasy, first meetings, friends, information, on a break, online, play, predators, real life, red flags, relationship, rt, rules, safe, safe call, safety advice, sex, share, submission, tricks, value | 14 Responses

Do You Need the “Luck o’ the Irish” to Meet that Perfect Dominant?

Do You Need the “Luck o’ the Irish” to Meet that Perfect Dominant?

By lunaKM on March 16, 2009

Looking for your partner is challenging, no doubt about it. You’ve probably done the bar scene, the alternative adult dating sites, and maybe a few of the vanilla ones too. No matter where you look you find men or women that just aren’t your type. I’m here to say that it is possible to find [...]

Posted in Relationships | Tagged blind date, bow, D/s, dates, dating, Dom, dominant, dos and donts, first meetings, information, love, play, questions, relationship, rt, rules, safe, safe call, Safety, scene, security, submission, tips, trust, value | Leave a response

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