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How To Manage, Increase and Explore Pain Tolerances in SM Play

from the Submissive Guide Newsletter 5/18/13 Whether you are a hard-core masochist or just a light explorer of sadomasochistic pain play there are always opportunies to experience more, push yourself harder and enhance your pain management techniques. How you learn to do this, and the techniques you employ are unique from submissive to submissive (masochist [...]

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Male Submission – Fantasy vs Reality

Male Submission – Fantasy vs Reality

Many submissive men have fantasies which have been developed over many years, sometimes leading to a focus on extreme and/or specific situations despite not having experienced anything. This may lead to misunderstandings with potential partners between fantasies and actual desires as the sub man may not even be able to recognize the difference at first.

25 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission

[Video] Can I Access Subspace Too?

I’m teaching you today is how you can try to reach subspace. No matter how hard it is for you in the past there is a way for you to experience some or all of what subspace has to offer.

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Video Posts
Processing Pain in Play: Overcoming the False Edge

Processing Pain in Play: Overcoming the False Edge

The false edge is not a physical limitation, that’s a limit. The false edge is the sense you are going to lose control if you continue. There comes a moment in intense play where you can feel afraid and a sense of panic if you allow your Top to continue.

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Processing Pain in Play: Negative Pain Management Techniques

Processing Pain in Play: Negative Pain Management Techniques

All negative ways to manage pain don’t get the full benefits of the pain and neither does the sadist.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Submitting to Pain When You Are Not a Masochist

Submitting to Pain When You Are Not a Masochist

BDSM immediately conjures up images of a whip-wielding Dominatrix punishing some poor submissive who is screaming in pain. As delightful as that image is, not everyone who is a bottom or submissive is in this lifestyle to experience pain. It must be daunting for the newbie who does not enjoy pain to come to a [...]

9 comments Posted by nan {SL} | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Play and Sex

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