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Where All The Dominants Are and How to Find Them

Where All The Dominants Are and How to Find Them

I’ve put together all the articles from the site and elsewhere that will help you find a partner that is compatible with you and your desires.

What a Romantic Dominant/submissive Relationship Looks Like

What a Romantic Dominant/submissive Relationship Looks Like

For us romance is a part of our M/s relationship. Without knowing he loves me completely I don’t think I could submit to him in the same way.

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships

Chat Night Transcript from “How to Talk Dirty” Chat

This chat occurred on 10/1/13 in the Submissive Guide Chat room. ~lunaKM: alright, let’s get going Hello and welcome to another chat night here on Submissive Guide. Please feel free to talk about the subject whenever a thought comes to mind, this is not a moderated talk and you do not have to ask permission [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
Ask lunaKM – New Kink Relationship, Seeking Daddy Doms and Resources to Help Those Coming Out Kinky

Ask lunaKM – New Kink Relationship, Seeking Daddy Doms and Resources to Help Those Coming Out Kinky

Dear lunaKM, I just met a man that is a dom, I am very interested in this lifestyle but also VERY new to it. We are both interested in each other and are both looking for a vanilla life outside the bedroom. My question is how do I start a relationship without jumping in bed [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
The Most Popular and Favorite Books on BDSM – According to Our Readers

The Most Popular and Favorite Books on BDSM – According to Our Readers

The following is a compilation of the most purchased BDSM-related books on Amazon – by our community. They are organized by the number purchased through affiliate links in the past year. Conquer Me: girl-to-girl wisdom about fulfilling your submissive desires by Kacie Cunningham Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
To Have Children Or Not, Now THAT is a Question

To Have Children Or Not, Now THAT is a Question

From the Submissive Guide Newsletter 9/22/12 Disclaimer: I do not have children nor are they in my future. The post below discusses the issue of deciding to have children for a variety of reasons besides a natural progression of wanting them, having a partner that wants them and then working towards that end. When KnyghtMare [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships
3 Easy Steps to Setting the Mood – Make Your Playtime More Orgasmic, Full of Energy and Fun

3 Easy Steps to Setting the Mood – Make Your Playtime More Orgasmic, Full of Energy and Fun

Picture this: it’s Valentine’s Day and you have a romantic evening planned for you and your honey. How do you prepare yourself and your bedroom for a night of passion and bliss? Do you light candles, lower the overhead lights, play soft, alluring music, perhaps use incense? Maybe you even spread rose petals on the [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Fictional Stories of Male Submission

Fictional Stories of Male Submission

Fictional BDSM stories or erotica are often not only enjoyable but also may be a good way to learn what might be enjoyable to the reader in real life.  Those who are new to BDSM often do not know what activities and mindsets they might enjoy and while non-fiction articles, blogs, and communities are a [...]

6 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission
A Day in the Life: Tlbsab

A Day in the Life: Tlbsab

This is a guest post for the Day in a Life Series. Thank you Tlbsab! First let me say that this article is in no way meant to offend anyone and is meant for information only. Religion is the basis of our relationship and is the reason that our lifestyle works for our family. I [...]

Leave a comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics

The Best-selling Items on Amazon According to What Our Readers Are Buying

Every few months I take a look at what BDSM related books readers of the Submissive Guide community are buying at Amazon (according to the reports Amazon give us from our affiliate program*). Today I spent some time digging into the purchases of BDSM books and have compiled the following breakdown of best selling books [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
Why The Prince Charming Dominant Doesn’t Exist

Why The Prince Charming Dominant Doesn’t Exist

This is a guest post by kahluna. It’s funny to me to see people wanting a Dominant but then looking for “chemistry” as well. They want to fall in love with the Dominant of their dreams. Apparently, these submissives have come into the lifestyle thinking that a Dominant is BDSMs version of Prince Charming. Ladies, [...]

7 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Relationships

SubWise #7 – Romance

Last week I asked you to talk all about romance in D/s relationships. Here are the submissions I received. There is some excellent thoughts here folks! Check it out. Make sure you leave comments! (Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.) pet’s journey thisgirl’s weblog The conversation isn’t over. If [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: SubWise

SubWise #7: Romance – Participation Request

Its time for SubWise! You know what to do by now. I’m going to give you a topic to write about and your task goes like this: Write about the topic in your blog or online journal. You don’t have to have a blog to participate. If you have a FetLife account you can use your [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: SubWise
Recommended Reading for New Submissives

Recommended Reading for New Submissives

The following is a list of books that I recommend for every novice submissive. The links lead you to Amazon if you are interested in buying the books. Part of your purchase goes towards supporting this site and my efforts at continuing to bring you content on this site. Books Conquer Me: girl-to-girl wisdom about [...]

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals
Personal Grooming Service Skills: How to Give a Romantic Bath

Personal Grooming Service Skills: How to Give a Romantic Bath

Romance gets lost in the rush of work, family, kids and obligations but a romantic bath is not only relaxing, it can create intimacy between you and your partner. In Ancient Rome and Egypt, bathing in scented oils was a prelude to lovemaking. Giving a bath to someone else is not only romantic, but a [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Health and Beauty, Mindset, Service
Book Review: Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns

Book Review: Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns

If you’ve been around the BDSM and D/s scene at all there is one of many books that always comes up in conversation as a good book to read when you are new to the whole lifestyle. This book is Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by [...]

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews

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