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Your Responsibilities in Play – In and Out of a Relationship

Your Responsibilities in Play – In and Out of a Relationship

The responsibility of a submissive doesn’t disappear at any time. You need to look out for yourself and learn to communicate effectively with those you wish to play with, whether it’s the first or 500th time you’ve done so.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Play and Sex
Perspectives: Gags

Perspectives: Gags

Being introduced to a ball gag was a scary thing for me. But no one ever warned me of the feeling of drool dripping down your chin. As with other Perspectives posts I wanted to share with you how it feels as a submissive exploring gags

12 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner

To open a dialog, communicate with your partner to understand what potential there may be, if any, for BDSM to be included in your relationship.

27 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Relationships

Submitting Is Not Without Personal Responsibility

A common mistake that many submissives make is to assume that giving up control also means giving up the responsibility to themselves and to the situation. A submissive shares equal responsibility for any consequences – good or bad – that occur as a result of consensual play or activities.

8 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Safety
What is Edgeplay?

What is Edgeplay?

This post is part of an effort to provide a glossary for novice submissives of words commonly seen across this site and in the BDSM community. Edgeplay has three definitions. They both apply at the same time so if you are having an edge play discussion, make sure you know which definition you are using. [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Glossary

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