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The Role Sex Plays in a D/s Relationship

The Role Sex Plays in a D/s Relationship

Sex and how we’ve learned about sex can form our own opinions about how sexual D/s forms in our lives and how we respond to it. The emphasis of sex in a D/s relationship comes about in a variety of forms and is only limited by your imagination. What role does it play in your relationship?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Sex and Sexuality

New to D/s Relationships? Here’s Your Foolproof Guide to Starting Out – Part 2

In part 2, you’ll learn how to figure out what you need in a D/s relationship and what is expected of you within the blossoming relationship. It’s all about what you want and need and getting as much of that as possible. Live happy. Don’t settle.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
Learning to Help a Partner Through a Poly Breakup

Learning to Help a Partner Through a Poly Breakup

Breaking up is traumatic and should be managed like grief and loss. It can’t be rushed and everyone deals with it differently. But as long as you have patience you can help your partner make it out the other side.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships
Ask the Readers – In Poly, do all partners have other partners?

Ask the Readers – In Poly, do all partners have other partners?

I am looking for opinions on whether or not poly means both sides of the slash should be able to have other partners.

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
The 100/100 Rule: Why TPE Succeeds

The 100/100 Rule: Why TPE Succeeds

50/50 isn’t the balance of a TPE relationship. Each role gives 100%.

4 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Relationships
My Partner Is Hanging On to an Old Relationship

My Partner Is Hanging On to an Old Relationship

It is very difficult to lead somebody. Exponentially so when she answers to another.

1 comment Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Ask Anything
BDSM Relationships: Strings or no-Strings

BDSM Relationships: Strings or no-Strings

As is the case with partners of a standard relationship, those in a BDSM one can also be broken into two types – short-term and long-term.

3 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Sponsors
Submitting in a Long Distance Relationship: Missing You

Submitting in a Long Distance Relationship: Missing You

This article serves as a fanatic sayonara to the one aspect of my long distance relationship that I shall never miss: dealing with my partner’s absence.

2 comments Posted by kallista | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
When Play is No Longer Play: Recognizing Abuse in a BDSM Relationship

When Play is No Longer Play: Recognizing Abuse in a BDSM Relationship

I am going to tell you, on no uncertain terms that if your dominant is hurting you out of anger this is abusive.

8 comments Posted by andyiccee | Posted in: Relationships, Safety
How I Identify as Monogamous in a Poly Dynamic

How I Identify as Monogamous in a Poly Dynamic

It’s not an easy road, but I’ve chosen monogamy in a poly dynamic.

Are D/s Relationships Better than Vanilla Ones?

Are D/s Relationships Better than Vanilla Ones?

We feel superior to our vanilla counterparts at times. But, in truth, D/s relationships are no better or worse than vanilla ones.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships
Stop Comparing Yourself With Others – My Submission Isn’t Better Than Yours

Stop Comparing Yourself With Others – My Submission Isn’t Better Than Yours

I know being competitive is a part of human nature, but the constant comparison of yourself to others doesn’t do anyone, especially you any good.

Comments Off Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships

Where To Go to Find a Kinky or D/s Partner: The Big List

When you are ready for dating you might start with this list of places. I’ll do my best to list as many places as I can but I’m not currently dating so I may be rusty. I also can’t guarantee that these sites will work for you, but if you don’t try then you’ll never know.

13 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships
How Do I Let Him Know I’d Like Some Attention?

How Do I Let Him Know I’d Like Some Attention?

I want some attention to just an acknowledgment that he knows I exist. Or is wanting that out of line with being submissive?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Online Submission
Transitioning from Part Time to Full Time D/s: How to Work Through the Challenges

Transitioning from Part Time to Full Time D/s: How to Work Through the Challenges

What I learned from my own efforts in transitioning and hopefully they will help you too if you choose to move your submission from the bedroom to more or from more to total surrender in a Master/slave relationship.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Newsletter Archive, Relationships

The Top 3 Books I Recommend to Everyone New to BDSM

I’ve taken some of the guesswork out of it for you by providing you the top 3 books I recommend to everyone new to BDSM. The only thing you have to do is figure out which one you want to buy first!

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Reviews
Book Review: Conquer Me

Book Review: Conquer Me

I would highly recommend this book for any women new to the submissive lifestyle. The writing is very personal and not clinical.

Comments Off Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Reviews
Why Confidence is Important to Submission

Why Confidence is Important to Submission

There was a point of time where I found myself wondering why having confidence as a slave or submissive is important.

5 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Ask lunaKM – Fear of Losing Yourself, Poor Contact Frequency and Sending Nude Pictures

Ask lunaKM – Fear of Losing Yourself, Poor Contact Frequency and Sending Nude Pictures

Dear lunaKM, My husband and I have been playing in the BDSM lifestyle for several months now.  I love the idea of this but have always had a strong personality.  I love to please him and want to be a good submissive to him but I fear losing myself or for it to go too [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Sexual Exclusivity in Poly Relationships – Is It Possible?

Sexual Exclusivity in Poly Relationships – Is It Possible?

A frequent misconception with poly is that it’s orgiastic group sex all the time.

16 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Relationships
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