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Why You Should Know the Truth About Topping from the Bottom

Why You Should Know the Truth About Topping from the Bottom

Ask one hundred submissives why they consider topping from the bottom as bad and they will likely come up with something relating to “forcing the Dominant’s hand.” They’d be right. The real, honest to goodness, truth is that forcing the Dominant’s hand is the only way you can bottom-top. How you do that is situational, different for different people or different reasons and you really can’t list the exact ways that it comes about.

7 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Recapturing Common Sense

Recapturing Common Sense

All novice submissives have a moment where a lapse in judgment can happen. No one is impervious to the lures of desire and dark needs. When offered a chance to experiment or explore our new-found desires we overlook that most important instinct – our gut instinct.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
Male Submission – The Worm

Male Submission – The Worm

One common archetype of submissive men is the worm, a man who wants to be humiliated, degraded, and tormented as much as possible by most any and every dominant woman he encounters. Depending upon the male sub’s orientation, he may want to be treated this way by only dominant women, only dominant men, or regardless of gender.

13 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission
Chat Night Transcript from BDSM with Kids at Home Chat

Chat Night Transcript from BDSM with Kids at Home Chat

Not every chat is logged, however when a topic really gets interesting I ask for permission to post our conversation on the website. Even if you missed the chat, take a look at what was said in your absence. (8:14:10 PM) lunaKM: Welcome to tonight’s topic: BDSM with kids at home. Tonight we will be [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
I Found a Munch, Now What?

I Found a Munch, Now What?

Some tips for getting out to a munch on the right foot.

Comments Off Posted by nan {SL} | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Community

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 1

If you’re a new submissive this lifestyle may seem overwhelming at first. A submissive I know terms it ‘the new submissive smell’. Dom/mes sense ‘new blood’, and swarm like piranhas to interact with, play with or train the new submissive in the group. Dom/mes may contact you online or meet you at a munch. They are covered with impressive or threatening names: Sir Snod of Grass or Master Whackyourass. With no experience, how can you tell if they are someone you can trust? The answer is information!

6 comments Posted by nan {SL} | Posted in: Safety

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