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How I Balance Independence and Submission

How I Balance Independence and Submission

You can most certainly be independent and submissive. Just be sure that you’re honest about what you want in your submission.

2 comments Posted by pinksubgeek | Posted in: Beginner Basics
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I Am Submissive–Hear Me Roar!

Until I discovered my submissive self, I always found myself deferring to others as much as possible to avoid conflict. Suddenly I started standing taller, with my shoulders back and my head up.

1 comment Posted by pinksubgeek | Posted in: Beginner Basics

Find a Munch at FindaMunch.com!

Are you looking for kink friends and fun close to you? Have you heard about munches, but don’t know what they are, much less where to look? Are you traveling or relocating and not sure about the community at your destination? Or, are you already involved, and you want your local organization to grow?

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
I’m Polyamorous but Feel Territorial Over Kink, Is This Normal?

I’m Polyamorous but Feel Territorial Over Kink, Is This Normal?

I recognize that both of our relationships are kinky but I felt a sense of being territorial over this.

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Relationships
Male Submission – Fantasy vs Reality

Male Submission – Fantasy vs Reality

Many submissive men have fantasies which have been developed over many years, sometimes leading to a focus on extreme and/or specific situations despite not having experienced anything. This may lead to misunderstandings with potential partners between fantasies and actual desires as the sub man may not even be able to recognize the difference at first.

25 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission
Everything I Know About Submission I Learned from my Cat

Everything I Know About Submission I Learned from my Cat

The other day I was watching my cats and had a sudden realization that they way they live could have lessons for me and my submission if I wanted to see them. The truth is that you can pick up lessons everywhere you look if you want to.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
Submissive Advent – Day 14: Don’t Be Afraid to Be Brave

Submissive Advent – Day 14: Don’t Be Afraid to Be Brave

Think about the fears you currently have about your submission, your role in your current relationship or within yourself.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar
Submissive Advent – Day 1: In Wait

Submissive Advent – Day 1: In Wait

This month, that something special will hopefully be a new personal realization in yourself and your submissive nature. Take a moment today and select 2 lines from the sonnet above that touches you and your current position in life. Write it out on a note card or piece of paper and tape it to your bathroom mirror or computer monitor. Use it as a reflective mantra this month.

27 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar
Solo Coaching – Ask Yourself the Right Questions

Solo Coaching – Ask Yourself the Right Questions

To bring about lasting change you need to get into the habit of asking yourself the right questions. The best submissives know how to ask these questions on a regular basis so that they can grow and develop in their journey.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
Making the Transition from Online to Face-to-Face Submission When Struggling with Agoraphobia

Making the Transition from Online to Face-to-Face Submission When Struggling with Agoraphobia

The most important factor was having found that right Dominant who understood. This wasn’t and hasn’t been an easy transition.

3 comments Posted by LadySneak | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Online Submission
Why I Used to Believe I Could Never Be a Slave

Why I Used to Believe I Could Never Be a Slave

There are slaves of all types and I never even gave a thought to my definition after meeting countless slaves and learning about them. My definition still stood for me. And that’s why I decided I could never be a slave. I couldn’t ever live up to the narrow and difficult road I had painted for a slave. But that’s slowly changing.

11 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Personal Growth

Why “Pleasing Him” Isn’t Always Good Enough

“To please him.” Sure it’s a selfless response, but is it always the best answer and perhaps not the most honest? I’m going to talk about why I think we need to reflect on the question more before we consider the auto-response to be the true and valid one for our personal submission.

10 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive
When He Removes The Collar: The 3 R’s to Get You Back on Your Feet

When He Removes The Collar: The 3 R’s to Get You Back on Your Feet

I’d like to share with you what helped me restore myself and ultimately seek the collar again.

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Relationships
How a Quote about Child-like Blind Faith Taught Me to Submit Completely

How a Quote about Child-like Blind Faith Taught Me to Submit Completely

Take the time to slowly see submission as a child would. Never questioning the reasoning or results. Embrace it as just the way of it. The Dominance in which you yield is a comfort and you should trust it. Curl up in it at night and know that everything is taken care of if you would just submit.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics

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