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[Video Post] Improving Your Submission – Accepting Punishment

[Video Post] Improving Your Submission – Accepting Punishment

Accepting punishment gracefully when you are in a Discipline Dynamic takes practice (but not too much practice!) In this video, you’ll learn the steps to making punishment go as smoothly as possible for you.

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth
[Video Post] Define This! Punishment and Funishment

[Video Post] Define This! Punishment and Funishment

In this video series, I define terms that readers have asked me about! This one is the comparison of funishment and punishment. Do you have a term you’d like defined? Let me know.

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Glossary, Video Posts
How To Get Over Being Angry When Punished

How To Get Over Being Angry When Punished

Having a hard time getting past being angry with your Dominant when you’ve been punished? Mrs. Darling provides some great advice on processing your emotions surrounding corporal punishment.

3 comments Posted by Mrs. Darling | Posted in: Ask Anything, BDSM Fundamentals

About Punishment

Punishment is one of those areas which is not what it seems. Before you can develop tools or methods of punishment you have to look at the concepts behind the issue itself.

2 comments Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Safewords During Disciplinary Punishment: Yay or Nay?

Safewords During Disciplinary Punishment: Yay or Nay?

My opinion on whether safewords should be allowed during punishment (for misbehavior).

11 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Safety
When Play is No Longer Play: Recognizing Abuse in a BDSM Relationship

When Play is No Longer Play: Recognizing Abuse in a BDSM Relationship

I am going to tell you, on no uncertain terms that if your dominant is hurting you out of anger this is abusive.

8 comments Posted by andyiccee | Posted in: Relationships, Safety
Ideas for Discreet Punishment

Ideas for Discreet Punishment

He’s hesitant to continue the discussion on rules he would like for me to follow due to the fact that punishment for these rules would be hard due to lack of privacy. Any suggestions about discreet punishments?

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything
Is He Ignoring Me or Has He Moved On?

Is He Ignoring Me or Has He Moved On?

I don’t know what to do – I know that ignoring can be a form of punishment but I don’t know if this is what he is doing or if he has severed links with me. I need advice on how to proceed are there any protocols?

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Online Submission
Is He Doing This Just For Me?

Is He Doing This Just For Me?

We’re both so new at this, we’re just trying to figure things out as we go along and sometimes I feel like he’s just doing it for me. Any help?

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Play and Sex
Reconnecting When I Feel A Disconnect with My Submission

Reconnecting When I Feel A Disconnect with My Submission

No matter where I am in my submissive journey I find times where it’s harder to submit than others.

Comments Off Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Beginner Basics
photography; George L Stein, model; Lilly Rose

The Controversy of Safe Words during Punishment

Receiving punishment without having a safe word in place isn’t for everyone.

10 comments Posted by tequilarose | Posted in: Relationships, Safety
The Punishment Place: Dealing with Punishment as a Slave

The Punishment Place: Dealing with Punishment as a Slave

Accepting that my behavior is a direct reflection on Him, that my thoughts and actions need first to be scrutinized, on my own, for what I know He expects of me. I will fail again, I’m sure. And I will be back in that place.

1 comment Posted by Guest Author | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Views & More...
What to Do When Punishment Starts to Feel Good

What to Do When Punishment Starts to Feel Good

I should be accepting punishment for misbehavior and yet I’m getting turned on by the spanking or the evil stick that used to spell doom for my punishment and it starts to feel good. Now, what do I do?

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Struggling in Submission: Introspection on the Fight to Improve Yourself

Struggling in Submission: Introspection on the Fight to Improve Yourself

Recently I’ve experienced my own internal struggle that caused some tension in my relationship with KnyghtMare.

Chat Night Transcript from Pervertables Talk with FroggyKM

Chat night transcript from the Pervertables Chat with froggyKM on  7/16/13 froggyKM: ok lets get things started! Hello and welcome to another chat night here on Submissive Guide. Please feel free to talk about the subject whenever a thought comes to mind, this is not a moderated talk and you do not have to ask [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Views & More...
Is It Healthy to Do Humiliation as Punishment?

Is It Healthy to Do Humiliation as Punishment?

So how would they know when the humiliation is damaging you? Is it possible to use humiliation as a punishment without damaging a sub’s self-esteem or is it best reserved strictly for play alone & nothing more?

8 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Ask Anything, Play and Sex
Why Would Any Submissive Want to be Micromanaged?

Why Would Any Submissive Want to be Micromanaged?

Micromanagement is a training style where the Dominant has the deciding enforce on a lot of the minute details of a submissive’s routine.

4 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics, Newsletter Archive

Living M/s Book Club Wrap-Up Participation Showcase

Today I wanted to take some time and showcase all of the favorite quotes, some of the key thoughts and comments on the book from this event. Thank you, everyone, for participating!

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Roundtable Discussions
Submissive Advent – Day 16: Prayer

Submissive Advent – Day 16: Prayer

A Submissive’s Prayer

Author Unknown

Allow me the strength to answer questions I can’t fathom.
Allow me the spirit to know His needs.
Allow me the kindness to choke back retorts.
Allow me the serenity to serve Him in peace.

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Advent Calendar
Fictional Stories of Male Submission

Fictional Stories of Male Submission

I have read several hundred fictional stories of male submission and here are my favorite stories and authors in no particular order.

6 comments Posted by ted_subby | Posted in: Male Submission
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