By lunaKM on May 14, 2010
There are now over 400 articles on Submissive Guide and it can be hard to know where to start. This is a short list of posts I feel discuss conflicts with community opinions, stereotypes and other societal positions. I would LOVE to have some more feedback on these posts and if you feel inclined to [...]
Posted in Social Norms | Tagged conflicts, feminism, opinion, positions, societal views, stereotype |
By Guest Author on January 8, 2010
This is a guest post by bgtreasure for the BDSM Play Feature Series here on Submissive Guide. I choose this topic to write about because it is my favorite form of play and has been since I’ve found this wonderful thing we call “The Lifestyle”. The general definition of Impact Play that you will find [...]
Posted in BDSM Basics | Tagged BDSM, bdsm lifestyle, bdsm play, bdsm play feature, bgtreasure, connection, cons, edge play, event, experience, favorite, feature series, fetlife, fists, floggers, focus, guest post, hands, help, Impact, impact play, lifestyle, love, munch, normal, owned, paddles, play, positions, relationship, rt, series, share, spanking, stress, submissive, subspace, wants, whips |
By lunaKM on January 5, 2010
A year ago I started a small blog project called Submissive Guide. I wanted it to be an organized place where I could voice my opinions about submission, help novices discover who they are and explore BDSM through the written word. Since that time it has grown to so much more, including an e-book, a [...]
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By Guest Author on November 16, 2009
This is a Guest Post by A. She is a new submissive in her first 24/7 dynamic. I received this wonderfully written review of her first 30 days and she offered to share it with everyone here. Enjoy! It has come to my attention after reading submissiveguide.com that my training with Sir has already begun, [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged 24/7, acceptance, BDSM, Bondage, clean, cleaning, clothing, control, D/s, Dom, Dominance, dress, dynamic, experience, favorite, fetlife, focus, grooming, growth and development, guest post, hands, help, honesty, infraction, kneeling, learned, learning, lingerie, love, natural, needs, online, orgasm control, play, positions, progress, protocol, punishment, RACK, relationship, requests, review, risk, ritual, rituals, rt, sex, share, spanking, speech, submission, submissive, submissive understanding, toy, toys, training, understanding, wants, worship, writing |
By lunaKM on August 31, 2009
A few months ago I started a list of things you can do to improve your submission immediately. If you want to see what’s in that list, you can find that post in the archives. I’d like to continue to add to that list because there are always things you can do but may not [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged 2WBSP, 7 things, bath, book, Dom, dominant, dreams, fantasy, favorite, fidgeting, focus, grace, health, improvements, kneeling, learning, poses, positions, rt, self-improvement, series, Service, sex, share, submission, submissive, Submissive Positions, tips, wants |
![Show Off Your Positions! [Day 14 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/share_ryancr-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on May 4, 2009
You have followed the whole series of Submissive Positions posts here at Submissive Guide. If not, start back at the beginning, I’ll wait for you here. Are you back? Ready to show them off? Today’s post is all about you! I want to see what you came up with for positions that worked best for [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, curtsy, email, grace, kneeling, learned, linklove, positions, rt, series, share, share photos, share thoughts, slave positions, standing, submissive, Submissive Positions |
![Altering Positions [Day 13 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/disability_panshipanshi-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on May 3, 2009
Reading the past posts on the Submissive positions project may bring some of you to the realization that you can’t perform these poses for health or body size reasons. This is to be expected. I can’t kneel back on my heels at all. So what is a good submissive to do? You alter the positions [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, alterations, brainstorm, comfort, disability, etiquette, Gor, grace, health, help, kneeling, poses, positions, rt, share, short, size, slave positions, submissive, Submissive Positions |
By lunaKM on May 2, 2009
Just 2 days left in the Submissive Positions project here at Submissive Guide. If you need a review, please take a look at the primary post; it has links to all of the posts in the project. Today I’d like to talk about the bane of many a submissive; fidgeting. Sitting still is really hard [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, Bondage, comfort, fidgeting, focus, help, learning, links, mediation, meditation, movement, munch, play, positions, progress, relaxation, review, rt, slave positions, submissive, Submissive Positions |
By lunaKM on May 1, 2009
Today’s task is to learn an appropriate pose to take when apologizing for wrong-doing. If you need to review the past posts in this series, please take a look at the leading post. This position is hopefully something you don’t have to do often but since we are all human, it is going to happen. [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, apologizing, Dom, dominant, hands, help, infractions, kneeling, learned, learning, positions, punishment, review, rt, series, slave positions, sorry, standing, submissive, Submissive Positions |
![Worship and Obedience [Day 10 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/01a_supplication_photo-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 30, 2009
Nearing the end of our 2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions here at Submissive Guide. Today we are going to learn positions of worship. There will be moments in your submission that a feeling wells up inside of you to show your devotion and respect to your Dominant. You may also be asked to show [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, bow, comfort, Dom, dominant, hands, kneeling, learning, movement, obedience, online, poses, positions, relationship, rt, Service, share, slave positions, submission, submissive, Submissive Positions, worship |
![Offering Your Neck for Collar [Day 8 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/collar-behind-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 28, 2009
We are just over half way through the two weeks of submissive positions here on Submissive Guide. Here’s a review of what we’ve covered so far: Learning to Kneel Standing at Attention Lowering to the Floor Rise from the Floor The Bow and Curtsey Active Attending Serving Food and Drink Next up is talking about [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, bow, collaring, Dom, dominant, dynamic, grace, learning, offering neck for collar, positions, relationship, review, ritual, rituals, rt, series, serving, standing, submissive, Submissive Positions |
![Serving Food and Drink [Day 7 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/waitress_gousgous-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 27, 2009
Welcome to another day of learning and enhancing submissive positions. Today we are going to cover food service etiquette. Some of this may be familiar to you. If this is the case, try to enhance it and make it more personal and unique to your relationship. If you’ve ever been to a more formal restaurant [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, amazon.com, book, books, D/s, Dom, dominant, essays, etiquette, experience, food service, formal dinners, grace, learning, m/s, positions, protocol, relationship, Resources, rt, rules, Service, serving, setting the table, share, SSC, structure, submissive, Submissive Positions, successful waitressing, tips, training, tricks |
![Attending Your Dominant [Day 6 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/offering-apple-lepiaf-geo-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 26, 2009
In the previous posts we covered basic positions that should now be familiar and perhaps you have worked out in your relationship that you want to employ them. If you need to review you can do that by going to the initial post. Today we will be learning an active position and one that can [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, active positions, assistance, attentiveness, calendar, comfort, cons, Dom, dominant, event, grace, hands, information, learned, learning, movement, needs, organization, positions, preparedness, relationship, review, rt, safe, Service, serving, shopping, slave positions, standing, submissive, Submissive Positions |
![To Bow and Curtsy Appropriately [Day 5 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/bow-curtsy_halfninja-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 25, 2009
This is a continuation of the ongoing project for submissive positions here at Submissive Guide. Today we will cover bowing and curtsying. Every culture has a different way to show respect and acknowledge a title holding member of their society. I believe most of them us a form of bow or curtsy to honor that [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, bow, comfort, curtsy, D/s, Dom, dominant, focus, grace, hands, IRC, positions, purpose, rt, Service, show respect, slave positions, submissive, Submissive Positions, value |
![Rise From The Floor With Finesse [Day 4 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/nude-statue-david_boyle-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 24, 2009
The next part of this two week series is about getting up from the floor. You’ve already learned about kneeling, standing at attention and lowering yourself with grace. Stick around, we have a lot to learn. If you’ve ever watched Memoirs of a Geisha you have seen how graceful it can be to rise from [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, Dom, dominant, getting up off the floor, grace, hands, help, kneeling, learned, links, movement, positions, progress, review, rising from the floor, rt, series, standing, submissive |
![Gracefully Lowering Yourself [Day 3 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/kneeling-quinnanya-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 23, 2009
We have covered standing and kneeling so far in the positions project here at Submissive Guide. Today we will cover going from standing to kneeling in a graceful way. It’s not as easy as you think. First you have to pick out one kneeling posture and one standing posture from the previous posts. This way [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, comfort, control, grace, graceful movement, hands, help, kneeling, learning, movement, perfection, positions, rt, slave positions, stand at attention, standing, submissive, Submissive Positions |
![Standing at Attention [Day 2 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/standing-madame_monnika-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 22, 2009
Today’s challenge in the two week project here at Submissive Guide is all about standing at attention. One of the most common ways you can present yourself as submissive to a Dominant is by the way you stand. You may do it now even though you don’t have any specific rules as to how to [...]
Posted in Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, Dom, dominant, family, favorite, friends, hands, positions, rt, rules, slave positions, stand at attention, standing, submissive, Submissive Positions |
![Learning to Kneel [Day 1 - 2WBSP]](http://www.submissiveguide.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/kneeling-notquitetrish-150x150.jpg)
By lunaKM on April 21, 2009
Today’s post in the two week project here at Submissive Guide is focused on kneeling. Do you kneel in front of your Dominant partner at any point of your service? Is there a specific way to do that? For someone new to BDSM, it is common to think you must kneel a lot of the [...]
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By lunaKM on April 20, 2009
Submissive Positions are talked about all over like everyone is supposed to be doing them or something. Not every relationship is set up to provide that level of protocol and you should never expect a relationship to automatically have that. If you are interested in positions, ask your partner or perspective partner if they’d be [...]
Posted in Rituals and Routines, Submissive Positions | Tagged 2WBSP, ask me, cons, dates, essays, Gor, Gorean positions, kneeling, learning, library, online, positions, preference, preferences, protocol, relationship, Resources, review, rt, slave, slave positions, submissive, Submissive Positions, training |
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