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BDSM How To: Wax Play

BDSM How To: Wax Play

I love wax play. It’s so much fun and something that is simple to do and also not extremely expensive, which is awesome because we all know how expensive toys can be. So, it’s always great to find a fun activity that isn’t expensive. Not only that, but the more colorful candles you use, it [...]

Enhance Your Sex and BDSM Play with Rituals in the Bedroom

Enhance Your Sex and BDSM Play with Rituals in the Bedroom

You are a bedroom submissive. You may only submit only in the bedroom, or on weekends or for only set time periods. So having rituals seems foreign to you, right? Maybe. They aren’t meant for you, right? Wrong. If you’ve ever thought that ritual and meditation was for full time submissives only or those in [...]

1 comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Personal Growth

What is a Scene?

This post is part of an effort to provide a glossary for novice submissives of words commonly seen across this site and in the BDSM community. A very commonplace word in BDSM discussions is the word ‘scene’ but rarely do we define what that is with novices. Also, experienced people take for granted some of [...]

3 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Glossary
How to Safely Manage Sub Frenzy

How to Safely Manage Sub Frenzy

When I realized that my previous article on Sub Frenzy didn’t give you any advice on how to tackle it head on I knew I just had to get an article to you about how to manage sub frenzy so that it leaves you smarter, stronger and more prepared to handle the rush. What is [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Beginner Basics
Fainting, Headaches and Nausea: Facing Sudden Illness During Play/Scene Time

Fainting, Headaches and Nausea: Facing Sudden Illness During Play/Scene Time

We never want our scene time to end. It’s fun and pleasant and lovely. When we play we have a chance that the blissful time we are experiencing will end well or may end suddenly from something unexpected. Yes we do everything we can to avoid having to stop play but when sudden illness takes [...]

5 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Safety

Research Page: Subspace

I collect a lot of resources in the way of links when I’m looking for information to write articles on. My research pages are a dumping ground of sorts of all the things I look at and that you may find interesting on a topic. This page is about Sub Space. I hope you enjoy [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex, Research Pages

SubWise #9 – Scene Music

Last week I asked you to talk all about favorite music for play time. Here are the submissions I received. There is some excellent thoughts here folks! Check it out. Make sure you leave comments! (Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.) pet’s journey The conversation isn’t over. If you [...]

6 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: SubWise
Let’s Play! BDSM Activities From a Submissive Viewpoint

Let’s Play! BDSM Activities From a Submissive Viewpoint

One of every submissive’s first experiences happens to be in the bedroom or dungeon. That’s why this month I’d like to focus on the joys and pleasures of the things we can explore during scenes and play. The next few weeks we’ll be hearing about a variety of BDSM activities. Just about every post is [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Play and Sex
Exploring Being Submissive in BDSM Play

Exploring Being Submissive in BDSM Play

Submission during play can be overwhelming. How do you understand what you might like? What about the buzz words of subspace and sub drop? One of Submissive Guide’s goals is to help novice submissives understand BDSM and their place in it. To help you begin your exploration I’ve put together a list of the posts [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals
How to Use Playtime Check Ins Wisely

How to Use Playtime Check Ins Wisely

A check in is where either partner provides clues as to their comfort, pain tolerance, pleasure level or other information during a scene or play session. Even the most experienced players continue to check in with their partners during play; it is a good practice to have. Whether you are playing with your partner or [...]

2 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: BDSM Fundamentals, Play and Sex
2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions – Day 1: Learning to Kneel

2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions – Day 1: Learning to Kneel

Today’s post  in the two week project here at Submissive Guide is focused on kneeling. Do you kneel in front of your Dominant partner at any point of your service? Is there a specific way to do that? For someone new to BDSM, it is common to think you must kneel a lot of the [...]

Leave a comment Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Submissive Positions
Caring for Yourself After a Scene: Self-Aftercare

Caring for Yourself After a Scene: Self-Aftercare

Aftercare is an important part of recovery from play for many people. It is most common to experience a drop in emotions and energy after play from within hours to even days later. All too often it becomes a necessity to take care of yourself after a play session because your top was just visiting [...]

35 comments Posted by lunaKM | Posted in: Health and Beauty, Play and Sex

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